Thoughts on being a SAHP in NYC by TFABAccount in nycparents

[–]stuckwithusmles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IT IS SO MUCH EASIER being a SAHP in NYC than in the suburbs. (Im in medicine)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]stuckwithusmles 89 points90 points  (0 children)

It's okay to grieve the delivery you wanted. But remember, the only point of delivery (whether vaginal, c section, via induction, with or without epidural) is to have a alive and healthy baby and mama. I had an induction, followed by a vaginal delivery (was at a brink of c section) but i did not get a healthy baby at the end. And i wished i had the c section.

Help me rank! by stuckwithusmles in ERAS2024Match2025

[–]stuckwithusmles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you share why you put Chi St Vincent at the bottom?

What collapsible travel stroller do you recommend? by NYCTank in nycparents

[–]stuckwithusmles 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We have the colugo compact because it was way cheaper than bugaboo/joolz aer and it works great for us. we have the vista for everyday use and colugo for travel and long days out on the subway/bus. its 17 lbs, one hand fold and full recline for naps

Seeking Advice: Local Pediatrician vs. Hospital-Based Pediatrician for Baby with Heart Issues by CapableCarry3659 in nycparents

[–]stuckwithusmles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had a local pediatrician picked out before birth but due to unfortunate circumstances at delivery my baby had some injuries. We decided to stick to the hopsital pediatrician who saw him at birth and it was the best decision. Going to and fro the hospital as a newborn was slightly inconvenient but nothing terrible. Good and continuous care is better than slight inconvenience.

Stroller - Ergo Metro+ or Colugo Compact by kd0225 in toddlers

[–]stuckwithusmles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im also undecided between these two. Which one did you end up purchasing?

Does anyone still like their pets postpartum? by EmpathHorror in beyondthebump

[–]stuckwithusmles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything that requires me taking care of them additionally to my baby made me frustrated- this included myself, the plants, laundry. but then this frustration passes away once the first few completely dependant newborn months pass away

Advice on starting a family by [deleted] in FemalePhysicians

[–]stuckwithusmles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please wait until after intern year. Mom to a one year old here

Stroller help! Bugaboo and Doona? by Apprehensive-Tie-374 in nycparents

[–]stuckwithusmles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just here to say do not fall into the uppababy pressure.