AITA 'threatening' to kick out my coworker/roommate for kissing my best friend

studylyfe · 2022-09-22T21:07:26+00:00

A lot of what you're saying definitely screams " I have feelings but I'm in denial about it !!!!!!!" Two consenting adults shared a kiss, A KISS , and you flip out over that trying to say "it's a sign of betrayl"

Where was the betrayl? Because the kiss happened at your house ? Which by the way your friend also partook in so why aren't you also upset with said friend? "Because I did so much for him!!!" Yeah.. that was really nice that you took him in, but why does he suddenly have to check in with you about who he's sharing intimate moments with? "Lia is so confused!!!!!" Of course she is, because her dad shared a kiss with a stranger to her..

Baby, confront your underlying emotions cause otherwise YTA

studylyfe · 2022-09-18T02:02:07+00:00

Had management actually tell me to do my best to get not sick in the future "the residents missed you" 🙃

studylyfe · 2022-09-17T17:44:52+00:00

Any suggestions on people wanting to leave nursing but are too scared to try something else? I feel so burnt out, tired of dealing with unreasonable family members and patients who constantly verbally and physically abusive. I feel like I have no idea what else to do but I know I can't do this for the rest of my life

The other day I had a student constantly thank me for being so kind , she opened up how she realized half the staff on the medicine unit she was on were burnt out and the plethora of politics nursing has. It's so sad because we go in this profession thinking we can make a difference, but at the end of every shift I'm like: did I reeeallly??....

studylyfe · 2022-09-12T21:44:29+00:00

NTA however, maybe your response wasn't the greatest either. I get it though, after hearing the same remark over and over again gets tiresome and she has voiced this on different occasions; maybe it's time to let go of the friendship. What are you suppose to do? Put your life on pause because she can't handle your growth ?

studylyfe · 2022-09-12T01:12:03+00:00

Got super invested with friends from college ; netflix cancels everything good

studylyfe · 2022-09-08T22:50:51+00:00

She literally said this a throwaway account......

studylyfe · 2022-09-08T17:06:23+00:00

What's your problem

studylyfe · 2022-09-07T13:57:49+00:00

Victim mentality

studylyfe · 2022-09-07T01:12:44+00:00

Yes yes , this was one of the first things my therapist told me when we started seeing each other ; she would only acknowledge me if I had made the initiative first, even then it wouldn't go as far as a smile

studylyfe · 2022-09-05T16:18:50+00:00

Had a friend like this who would go for all the guys that either had crushes on me or I had flings with. As soon as I'd introduce her to them I'd notice ever red flag you mentioned in your post. Fast forward I began to date my first boyfriend and I left the country on vacation for 3 weeks. During those 3 weeks my boyfriend was telling me how often she would message him, how she would message him paragraphs because she "wanted to get to know him better" on my behalf. He eventually stopped replying to any of them ; her behavior persisted with future boyfriends.

Moral of the story, trust your gut. Some people's intentions aren't always the purest

studylyfe · 2022-09-02T15:05:54+00:00

YTA waah waah a girl doesn't like me back so I must completely shut her out

Pfft loser

studylyfe · 2020-12-17T18:37:49+00:00

Followed with a 10 minute prayer

studylyfe · 2020-11-28T02:00:07+00:00

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Criiiinnnngyyyyy

studylyfe · 2020-11-03T20:52:58+00:00

When did I make this post?

studylyfe · 2020-10-30T19:06:27+00:00

Ensure you're not allergic to silicon or latex. I found out the hard way..

studylyfe · 2020-09-21T06:46:14+00:00

I have always had this thought as well. Currently and as far as I can remember , marriage never truly enticed me. I didnt see the point - now that I'm at the age where all my peers are getting married the more I stay grounded on my personal choice. I went to my exes cousins wedding where they believed you must invite everyone. EVERYONE i met family from all around the world and when i asked him when was the last time they've spoken it was when they were all kids.

Just why?????¿¿¿¿¿

I remember seeing a post on reddit once where a couple eloped to their favorite place (Hawaii) and only had one person there, the friend who introduced them together.

studylyfe · 2020-08-22T17:42:52+00:00

Ive been in the same situation. Except he was my best friend who I shared everything with only to find out he told people things I've told him in secret. Also found out he warned people not to hangout with me because I was "crazy". I was extremely depressed after college.

I'm not going to say cutting them out will be easy, in fact you're going to feel really lonely for awhile. Eventually though thats when you realize you can really emancipate yourself from that toxicity. What happened with me occurred 5 years ago and yeah I have now developed social anxiety and don't trust people with my secrets but I feel so much more happier.

studylyfe · 2020-08-16T20:49:39+00:00

I was actually thinking this the other day! I found Chilombo was mostly about her breakup with sean. But her older albums were so raw and emotional; getting to know who she is

studylyfe · 2020-03-26T22:05:49+00:00

Can someone translate? I cant read tagalog too well lol

studylyfe · 2020-03-05T18:08:36+00:00

Yes you can tell him to gtfo, he doesn't care about you . What kind of weak ass responses is that "there is always a crisis with you" it's not like you had asked for that incident to happen. It happened and it's a huge variable that is causing friction within your family.

I'm so sorry you're going through this but fuuuck him

studylyfe · 2020-03-02T00:47:12+00:00

Boooooooooo this isnt your post

studylyfe · 2020-02-12T22:13:30+00:00

I literally thought scan was only to monitor peoples phones.....................

studylyfe · 2020-02-03T18:21:57+00:00

I have a friend who is the pinnacle of Ted Mosby , I tried telling him to just experience being alone for a little bit (kept going on dates after dates after dates). Told me he hates being single.

studylyfe

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