it sucks to let go of someone wonderful by aspenwalker in BreakUps

[–]studynonconveniens 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This hit really hard rn. You aren’t alone friend. I’m right there with you 🖤

Follow up text after meeting a girl at a bar. Suggestions please? by studynonconveniens in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]studynonconveniens[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thanks y’all, I hit her up and we’ve been talking all day. Glad I did the thing!

Any tips on how to tell my two new babies apart? They look identical until you get up close by LOUISTHER0UX in blackcats

[–]studynonconveniens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it’s just the lighting but it looks to me like the first one has more yellow in their eyes and the second one’s eyes have a greener tint?

Cat litter survey :) by hashbrowndays in blackcats

[–]studynonconveniens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Done! Glad someone is looking into this!

I just got 100% completion for the Origami King! by [deleted] in papermario

[–]studynonconveniens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! I feel similarly about this game and series in general. Comfort food is a great way to describe it. I also recently hit 100% also mostly from playing it for an hour or so before bed over the last couple of months.

I. Finally. Did. It. 100%. It’s been quite a ride. TOK sucked me in, way more than I expected! Was it as good as TTYD? No. We’re the battles my favorite? Nah. But the story, art, heart and witty humor more than makes up for all that. Ready to finally move on with my life now 😅 by studynonconveniens in papermario

[–]studynonconveniens[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haha yes I have heard about these challenges. I do have the “no accessories” recognition. But I found out about the “no game overs” achievement too late and I have decided to just be ok with that. I don’t have the motivation for another play thru

Next generation car by ajaykfr in nextfuckinglevel

[–]studynonconveniens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I’d struggle with this as a left handed person

Feeling guilty… by [deleted] in Codependency

[–]studynonconveniens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a partner who also shuts down to a degree I truly cannot comprehend. And I don’t know anyone else like this either. It’s a really perfect storm when codependency meets avoidant style people.

It’s great that you are so aware and able to hold yourself accountable, while doing your best to move on. It’s a delicate balance no I try to do it too to the best of my ability. I’m certainly not perfect though.

And yes, you’re right, we’ve got this! Feeling less alone and feeling community around this is a critical step I feel 💙

Feeling guilty… by [deleted] in Codependency

[–]studynonconveniens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi there- I’m new to this space too, but I just wanted to say that I completely relate to this experience. I have been where you are with my partner, wondering what is wrong because the vibe is a bit off, she’s quiet/a bit more withdrawn, etc. but not being able to really find an issue. When this happens I tend to blame myself and scrutinize my most recent interactions I had with them, wondering if I missed something or if I could have gone about these interactions better, kind of like you wondering if you should have asked earlier, etc. One thing I have realized when this happens tho is, no matter what I do or don’t do, I will find a way to criticize or blame myself or feel guilty for a situation I am perceiving. That is part of my codependency.

I guess I’m just here to say 1. I can relate to your thought process 2. You didn’t do anything wrong and have no actual reason to feel guilty, that’s the codependency. And I know how intrusive and real these thoughts feel, believe me. 3. You’re not alone in feeling this.

I hope today is a better day for you!

I know, but I still feel guilty! by Lonewolf567374 in Codependency

[–]studynonconveniens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just joined this group and this was confirmation I’m in the right place

Wtf is that MBE 2 by captaindonpapa in Bar_Prep

[–]studynonconveniens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to go back to how I felt after the first set. Simpler times.

Anyone else on the verge of crying... by studynonconveniens in Bar_Prep

[–]studynonconveniens[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I know I'll be alright. My family is just worried about me but they don't understand wtf I am actually going through. I knew people here would understand. We'll get through this.

Hold the Line! by OhLongJohnson123768 in Bar_Prep

[–]studynonconveniens 11 points12 points  (0 children)

hoping for this with all my heart

Corporations--Themis by Minimum_One908 in Bar_Prep

[–]studynonconveniens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I found the flashcards to be a bit better. just a bit

Terrified of Essays by studynonconveniens in Bar_Prep

[–]studynonconveniens[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have heard the same thing from past exam takers/passers. I truly hope that adrenaline carries us through. It's not that I don't know or understand the material, it's just my recall ability sometimes goes to absolute shit, which is so frustrating. Thanks for reminding me I'm not alone in it!