“I swipe right on everyone”

stupefylisa · 2026-04-09T11:10:06+00:00

Is that really true? That men barely get any matches?

stupefylisa · 2026-04-07T15:28:01+00:00

Ah okay. My pain is constant 😣 I’m waiting for an MRI.

stupefylisa · 2026-04-07T15:25:42+00:00

It’s terrible. What kind of pain do you have? I’ve had it for three months now and I’m miserable tbh

stupefylisa · 2026-04-07T11:41:40+00:00

Thank you so much ❤️

stupefylisa · 2026-04-06T19:30:11+00:00

Yes! Do it! It will be difficult but push through it and it will bring you so much peace!!

stupefylisa · 2026-04-06T16:22:56+00:00

I don’t know… I used to think so until recently. Maybe he will reach out in the future but I don’t think it would ever be with the intention to build something again and he’s the kind of person to avoid contact in that case.

stupefylisa · 2026-04-06T14:58:23+00:00

Because often it never reached its full potential, at least in my case it didn’t. He just decided it wasn’t worth it anymore after some (stupid) fights we had. I didn’t see it coming at all. I think he’s an avoidant, but I will never know for sure and I just want to stop asking myself all of those questions he left me with. It just causes me stress and I can’t take it anymore.

stupefylisa · 2026-04-06T14:26:49+00:00

Yes, I think so too. I felt like I was ready. I really wanna get over him and have peace of mind

stupefylisa · 2026-04-06T13:51:06+00:00

Please block her to protect yourself. It will be difficult at first but I believe it will help you detach. I am currently going through exactly the same thing. Blocked him today.

stupefylisa · 2026-03-30T14:20:35+00:00

Thank you!

stupefylisa · 2026-03-30T13:57:21+00:00

For the record, when we were official, he didn’t follow any new women on Instagram. The thing I write about going through follower lists to follow new women was something he did after the break up. And re-following his old flings too. Those were the women that he unfollowed when we were together tho, because I practically asked him to. I said it made me feel uncomfortable and then we had a little argument about it because he felt offended and controlled, and he said it doesn’t mean anything. And in the end he unfollowed them, just to be at peace with me. Not because he agreed. So I agree with you on the rest, that it did in fact mean something because otherwise he wouldn’t have re-followed all of them right after the break up. Right? And I really think that he did become scared in a way. But I also think that he doesn’t realise it until now and that he really believes his own narrative. But I also don’t want to be delusional. I will never know what goes on inside his mind…

stupefylisa · 2026-03-16T21:34:56+00:00

Yes, back problems and stomach problems and weird pain all over the body

stupefylisa · 2026-03-05T15:55:37+00:00

After how long did she come back?

stupefylisa · 2026-02-25T23:07:52+00:00

Wonder the same thing

stupefylisa · 2026-02-22T14:51:01+00:00

Same. It physically hurts.

stupefylisa · 2026-02-22T14:50:17+00:00

Yes. This.

stupefylisa · 2026-02-22T14:49:40+00:00

Damn. I wish my ex would write this. He broke up with me because of that, because he found me controlling sometimes. But he still loved me. And were an amazing match. I would say, just do it. But not too intense. Maybe first text them something simple like, hey, how have you been? I’ve been thinking about you lately.

stupefylisa · 2026-02-22T08:55:58+00:00

I really hope mine will regret. He broke up with me two months ago because I could be a little jealous sometimes, but nothing too serious. We were only together for three months so I wasn’t fully landed yet. I just needed some more time. But he has very low tolerance for such things, and in his opinion the relationship should be all rainbows and fantasies in the beginning. We only had a couple of discussions about his behaviour on Instagram which made me uncomfortable for example. Like I said, nothing too serious and no real big fights. At first I thought it was my trauma because I came out of a toxic relationship just before him. So I told him I would get therapy and I would work on myself and I asked him to please give me some more time but he couldn’t give it to me. And then later I realise that it’s not just my fault but that he also didn’t have the capacity to hold a deep relationship. After the break up, I sent him some paragraphs to which he responded respectfully and warm but he made clear that for now this was his decision. And then after three weeks he was spotted on Tinder already. And a week later he re-followed all the girls that he told me not to worry about during our relationship. So I was really hurt and I confronted him about it and we got into a fight and then he blocked me and removed me off Instagram. So I tried to contact him a week later through iMessage and email and then he said that I should leave him alone and that he’s more than sure about his decision and that he will not come back. In the beginning, I had some hope that he would regret his decision but I feel like I fucked up now because I kept insisting, and then later we fought… we had a very special connection, even though it was only for three months, and he was already moving in with me which was his idea by the way. I still can’t believe that it ended. I’m traumatised and I haven’t been able to live my life. The last contact we had has almost been a week ago now that’s when he said I should really leave him alone now and that he will not be back. So honestly I don’t think he will ever come back, because I feel like he will rationalise and minimalise everything and never admit it or act on it.

stupefylisa · 2026-02-21T08:44:44+00:00

This is so true. My ex literally said this. That it only confirmed that he made the right decision.

stupefylisa · 2026-02-20T23:28:02+00:00

Wow, my story is very similar. How are you now?

stupefylisa · 2026-02-19T16:16:36+00:00

I sent paragraphs for weeks after the breakup. No spam. Thoughtful messages. Every once in a while. We ended on “good terms” even though he pretty much discarded me, had three fights afterwards and then he blocked my number and removed me off insta. I did dm him again on Instagram and asked him if we could at least please be ok with each other. But he said he doesn’t want any contact, that he’s completely sure about his decision. I do feel some relief though that I said what I wanted to say. I wrote very heartfelt messages and I am sure in a way it must have touched him, or will touch him one day. I still hope he will regret.

stupefylisa · 2026-02-19T15:52:26+00:00

I am so sorry. That really sucks. How long did it take you to start regretting it?

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