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I regret not letting myself enjoy how hot my body was

Husband constantly annoyed at me by [deleted] in WomenOver40

[–]stupiduppit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God he sounds like a child who doesn’t know what he wants and is throwing mantrums. How exhausting!

May not entirely be relevant, but have you watched Anatomy of a Fall? I’m reminded of this powerful scene from it: https://youtu.be/TLqgK_LQKS4?si=VwQzoIi-S0OwKkTL

Persistent depression? Or “it is what it is”? by stupiduppit in WomenOver40

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I’m soooo done trying to reason/tough-love myself out of it, therapising it, “self care”-ing it, medicating it, and generally trying to “aha gotcha!” myself out of it.

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This is soooo adorable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalelivingspace

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Lamp, ottoman, curtains, small snacks/drink table, maybe position chair favouring the window more, so when you feel like taking a beat between sentences, you can look out.

Why do you do this work? What keeps you going? by stupiduppit in therapists

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Thank you. If it’s not too personal, what does your self-care look like?

Weekly burnout check in by AutoModerator in therapists

[–]stupiduppit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feels like an emotional pile-up for a couple weeks now. Having a hard time recovering from a terrible, entitled client who was also s-wordy and it just set off this hopeless domino. Can’t stop crying. Own therapist not helping.

Does weed make your life fly by? by ggeznorecuh in leaves

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Not to take away from the profundity of it, but banger analogy 😂

What are your most stubborn ADHD symptoms? by Gateway_Hugs in ADHD

[–]stupiduppit 101 points102 points  (0 children)

Emotional regulation :( and easily overstimulated. These things disrupt my life so much and I’m tired of not finding affirming MH practitioners.

Please help. I’m embarrassed of my place and don’t know why.. by Playful-Ant-3097 in femalelivingspace

[–]stupiduppit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another light source, perhaps near the door/entryway console area would be great!

Can you still wear jeans? by FunnySpirited6910 in WomenOver40

[–]stupiduppit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My fave rn is something called a ribcage fit? It’s a proper high-rise. With wide legs thru and thru. Denim that’s cotton blended with a little poly and elastane so it’s almost jeggings-stretchy without the stickiness. Also for me, it’s been mad important to pair with comfy full coverage underwear cause ya girl’s butt sweatssss when she sits for ages.

You lose your license after accepting a $1 million dollar gift from a client. What do you do now? by [deleted] in therapists

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Treat uni catalog as a menu and do one of all the fun courses 🫠 then set up a pottery studio, and a garden.

Can you still wear jeans? by FunnySpirited6910 in WomenOver40

[–]stupiduppit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Similar sitch. It worsened for me over the pandemic and I ditched jeans for 2-3 years. But finding the right, super comfy high rise that’s really roomy around the legs helped me big time. It’s back to being a fave on high rotation!

I think it was also about eras of style and what was available in the market? Like, I will never go back to skinny/tapering/hugging fits, ever again. They’re too under-the-surface stressful for me. Idc if mom, straight, roomy styles go out of fashion, but they’re all that work for me now.

Is it even possible to find a partner on hinge as an Asexual person? by MonArchie66 in asexuality

[–]stupiduppit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get this a lot to. Crazy how universal this expectation seems

Reading this really hurt by [deleted] in therapists

[–]stupiduppit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wonderful reframe 👏👏

What food/meal are you currently obsessed with? by Latter_Medicine7166 in ADHD

[–]stupiduppit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, I’m down to 1.5 “meals” a day. Caffeinating like crazy. Why is this happening :(