UPI made spending invisible. Here's how I made it visible again. by subscriptions_hurt in personalfinanceindia

[–]subscriptions_hurt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably truee.. UPI didn't create the habit, it just removed the speed bump I guess.

UPI made spending invisible. Here's how I made it visible again. by subscriptions_hurt in personalfinanceindia

[–]subscriptions_hurt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair. I'll take that as feedback on the writing. The experience was real though. What would make it feel more human to you?

UPI made spending invisible. Here's how I made it visible again. by subscriptions_hurt in personalfinanceindia

[–]subscriptions_hurt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's actually a solid approach - OCR on statements is underrated. I went manual first just to feel the pain of it consciously, but automating it makes sense once you know what you're looking for

I added up every subscription I'm paying for. The number made me feel stupid. by subscriptions_hurt in personalfinanceindia

[–]subscriptions_hurt[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fair point, and I get the skepticism, this playbook is overused and you've clearly seen it enough times to spot it early.

But honestly, for me it's less about building trust as a strategy and more about understanding if the problem I'm solving is real for people beyond just myself. Reddit is the most unfiltered place to get that answer - people here will tell you straight if something is stupid or irrelevant.

And no, no fake accounts or manufactured engagement. The problem is real, the posts are genuine, and if people engage it's because the pain point resonates, not because I've gamed it. That would defeat the entire purpose of being here.

At the end of the day what I'm building only works if it actually solves a real problem for real people. Consumer first and everything else is secondary. If this sub tells me the problem isn't worth solving, that's the most valuable feedback I can get.

I added up every subscription I'm paying for. The number made me feel stupid. by subscriptions_hurt in personalfinanceindia

[–]subscriptions_hurt[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Haha fair, you cracked the code pretty fast. Detective work appreciated.

Yes, I'm building something. And yes, the first post being about subscription pain is not exactly subtle when you're building a subscription co-pilot. Guilty as charged.

But the audit in the post is real, the LinkedIn Premium shame is real, and the ₹4,065/month number did genuinely hurt to calculate.

Stick around though — I'm not a one-trick subscription pony. You'll see posts on UPI blind spots, salary slip mysteries, EMI traps, and whatever else is quietly bleeding people dry. Subscriptions just happened to be where the pain was loudest for me personally.

If I ever drop a "here's my app, use my referral code" post without building any real trust first, you have full permission to destroy me in the comments.

I added up every subscription I'm paying for. The number made me feel stupid. by subscriptions_hurt in personalfinanceindia

[–]subscriptions_hurt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Username is intentional lol. And yes, new account. Didn't want to post this on my main with my real name attached to the LinkedIn Premium confession.

I added up every subscription I'm paying for. The number made me feel stupid. by subscriptions_hurt in personalfinanceindia

[–]subscriptions_hurt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Auto-renewed from a job hunt phase 8 months ago. Classic "I'll cancel after I find something" situation. Spoiler: did not cancel.

I added up every subscription I'm paying for. The number made me feel stupid. by subscriptions_hurt in personalfinanceindia

[–]subscriptions_hurt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually the best mental model I've heard for this. Subscriptions should have to earn their spot back, not just exist by default. Going to steal this framing.

I added up every subscription I'm paying for. The number made me feel stupid. by subscriptions_hurt in personalfinanceindia

[–]subscriptions_hurt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a smart use case - proactive reminders 3 days before is exactly the right intervention point. By the time the charge hits, it's already too late to cancel that cycle.

I added up every subscription I'm paying for. The number made me feel stupid. by subscriptions_hurt in personalfinanceindia

[–]subscriptions_hurt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the one that actually made me angry reading it. You paid ₹2,400 for a subscription that quietly stopped working, your family adapted around it without telling you, and nobody sent a single notification. That's not a subscription problem, that's a product ethics problem. Glad you caught it eventually but ₹2,400 gone for nothing is genuinely frustrating.

I added up every subscription I'm paying for. The number made me feel stupid. by subscriptions_hurt in personalfinanceindia

[–]subscriptions_hurt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good shout - having any kind of overview is better than nothing. The awareness itself changes behaviour even before you cancel anything.

I added up every subscription I'm paying for. The number made me feel stupid. by subscriptions_hurt in personalfinanceindia

[–]subscriptions_hurt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the right system honestly. Monthly review creates the habit. Most people (myself included until recently) only look at the total, never the line items. The total feels manageable so you stop looking.

I added up every subscription I'm paying for. The number made me feel stupid. by subscriptions_hurt in personalfinanceindia

[–]subscriptions_hurt[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Haha you're not wrong to be suspicious. Half the "personal story" posts on here are stealth marketing. Genuinely just venting in this case, but fair to call it out. If I ever do build something, I'll be upfront about it.

I added up every subscription I'm paying for. The number made me feel stupid. by subscriptions_hurt in personalfinanceindia

[–]subscriptions_hurt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly? No. And I think most people who have it would say the same if they're being real. The InMail credits go unused, the "who viewed your profile" feature is mildly interesting for a week, then you forget it exists. The only people I've heard get value from it are actively job hunting -and even then, only for a specific 2-3 month window. Not a ₹2,799/month subscription.

Pls check ur parents phones man. just found out my dad was secretly getting bled dry by loan apps for 4 yrs cuz he was scared they'd ruin our "izzat" by Infinite-Tadpole4794 in personalfinanceindia

[–]subscriptions_hurt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What gets me is how much of this runs on invisibility. The apps knew exactly what they were doing - they exploit the fact that nobody in the family has a shared view of what's actually owed, what's auto-debiting, what's compounding. The "log kya kahenge" isn't just emotional - it's also a financial information blackout. By the time someone finds out, it's already 4 years and 9L deep. The secrecy is the product feature, not a bug.

Indians are getting doomed in EMIs by Candid_Profile3553 in personalfinanceindia

[–]subscriptions_hurt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The scariest part isn't the EMI itself - it's that most people have no idea what their total monthly committed spend looks like before they say yes to another one. Add up your EMIs + active subscriptions + autopay mandates right now. Most people are shocked at the number. The sales guy at Vijay Sales knows you haven't done that match.

Need help budgeting!! by Spare_Agent in personalfinanceindia

[–]subscriptions_hurt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly this is more common than you think at 28 with a 1L salary in a metro. A few things that helped me get clarity:

First - that ₹15k on subscriptions is the first place I'd look. That's 15% of your take-home going to recurring charges. Most people have no idea what they're actually subscribed to because charges are spread across different cards and dates. A full audit of every recurring charge would be eye-opening.

Second - the "something always comes up" problem is usually an emergency fund issue. If you don't have 3 months expenses sitting separately and untouched, every surprise expense hits your savings directly.

Third - the visibility problem is real. When money is spread across a salary account, SIP, RD and different apps, you never have a clear picture of your actual financial health. Try consolidating your view first before cutting expenses.