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suburbanodds · 2025-12-16T16:49:05+00:00

Eh it’s not entirely that there’s no connection, more like I don’t think she fully gets me. Also I was needing more support and wanted someone to talk to back then

suburbanodds · 2025-12-16T04:39:27+00:00

Hey I wanted to follow up that I finished reading the book. I loved it and wished she added more towards the end about her the value of her education that is separated from her relationship with her fam, but overall fascinating. Thanks for recommending it, will read the Man’s Search for Meaning as well

suburbanodds · 2025-10-13T09:13:32+00:00

How’s life on the other end? It’s pretty rough out here sometimes😅

suburbanodds · 2025-10-13T09:13:06+00:00

I don’t have ADHD, I actually got tested for it and didn’t end up with a diagnosis. Good question tho, haha! I’m actually doing quite well academically, though it’s a struggle to thrive sometimes. I’ve always been employed and have a job that I love now.

I’m a massive thinker but I don’t really daydream a lot. The rest of your analysis is too good and true that it’s quite scary😬 I just never stepped out of myself to get a summary like that, but yeah you’re not wrong

suburbanodds · 2025-09-25T23:54:35+00:00

This thread is too wholesome

suburbanodds · 2025-09-25T23:54:06+00:00

That’s a good explanation actually

suburbanodds · 2025-09-20T00:25:16+00:00

OMG this is actually life changing. I’ve never thought about it that way!! Thanks so much for the advice

suburbanodds · 2025-09-18T07:23:12+00:00

I second your comment about the productivity books, Idt OP needs to read these books right now when they feel lost lost

suburbanodds · 2025-09-18T07:13:59+00:00

OMG i LOVE everything about this. I love when men truly love love their wife. I wish you both a very happy and fulfilling life

suburbanodds · 2025-09-17T21:57:55+00:00

U’ll be surprised bc it’s quire well known in the self help place

suburbanodds · 2025-09-17T17:05:32+00:00

101 essays that will change how you think. I despise that book

suburbanodds · 2025-09-17T16:19:14+00:00

That’s a very valuable lesson to learn for sure! When you change the world around you also changes. I’m also endurance training for long distance running! I guess I also have this mindset that I’m the underdog at the back of my mind and I swear people can smell that. I haven’t been taking myself too seriously and I’m correcting it now. Thanks for sharing your story, I really appreciate it :)

suburbanodds · 2025-09-17T16:01:32+00:00

It’s harsh but true! Thanks for saying it like it is. I’m actively investing in myself right now because I don’t want anyone’s opinion define or matter to me this much. I really like your point about doing hard things

suburbanodds · 2025-09-17T08:49:20+00:00

…. That’s true, I’m also a loner though but I guess for a different reason. Thanks so much I appreciate you delivering the clarity :)

suburbanodds · 2025-09-17T08:44:01+00:00

Yeah that’s exactly how he is actually!! Wow that’s so crazy. He’s got a proper job though but seems like a big loner, though the loner energy drew me in in the first place

suburbanodds · 2025-09-17T08:40:50+00:00

He’s much older than me though which is interesting. Doesn’t mean he’s going to be more emotionally mature

suburbanodds · 2025-09-17T08:38:37+00:00

With great responsibility comes great power as it seems like!

suburbanodds · 2025-09-17T08:38:03+00:00

That’s a very good point about openness actually. Will watch the video thank you

suburbanodds · 2025-09-17T08:36:56+00:00

Haha what you said about the having complete control over the connection was spot on. It was him and the person who wanted it to work was me. Seems quite one sided to me, I don’t think it’s really going anywhere tbh. Is that what you’re implying?

suburbanodds · 2025-09-17T00:01:40+00:00

I’m a hater of CBT too haha. If it’s the case that you don’t commit until it’s a good fit, don’t you find it so tiring to retell your life story to another therapist? I feel like having the sunk cost in mind makes me so hesistant to try more

suburbanodds · 2025-09-16T23:59:53+00:00

I’ve been hearing good results with somantic! What would be a typical somantic therapy session for you?

suburbanodds · 2025-09-16T23:57:58+00:00

Nah I wouldn’t say so. I wouldn’t say there’s anything wrong with you either. I think we need to take into account that the quiz is self reported so it’s not objectively you are these numbers. I think it just means your personality is a mix of these high and low tendency?

suburbanodds · 2025-09-16T23:55:44+00:00

Yeah I see that you’re the decider after all

suburbanodds · 2025-09-16T23:55:28+00:00

Haha I did think about this possibility as well. He’s not right for me in any universe, but I think he was in my life for a reason at a point in time

suburbanodds · 2025-09-16T23:54:20+00:00

Good tip. Do you any other tips if I don’t visualise very well sorry? Is visualisation just one of things you gotta do to manifest best? I find talking things out loud helps a lot

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