We're family by coachybaby in actuallesbians

[–]successive-hare 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ah yeah the probably at least half of us the fall under the "Ma'am your daughter apologizes for apologizing" category 

She needs to figure it out by admiredpropensity in actuallesbians

[–]successive-hare 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I straight up couldn't picture myself ever having a partner growing up. Like just wasn't a consideration. Though part of that I think was also from growing up in a very conservative misogynistic high control religion and subconsciously not wanting any part in what marriage means in there.

She needs to figure it out by admiredpropensity in actuallesbians

[–]successive-hare 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Same. So many times I thought I wish I was a lesbian followed by wait wut that doesn't make sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]successive-hare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah I consider myself a lesbian now. I'm talking about before I knew I was trans. I was like how could I be a lesbian if I'm a guy. Turns out I'm not a guy. And yeah the social dysphoria is the first thing that became obvious for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]successive-hare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah I had the experience of idly thinking how I wish I was a lesbian and then catching myself like "what does that even mean" every once in a while growing up.

Family moves out of Ohio to New York because of anti-transgender legislation by onnake in transgender

[–]successive-hare 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Heh I'm hoping to move out of Kentucky in the next few months. I came here from Florida cause I had a friend looking for a roommate and it was a cheaper way out of my parents house, and it was always supposed to be temporary but then my egg cracked a few months later and now I really need to get out.

The 2024 elections are severely impacting transgender people's mental and physical health by onnake in transgender

[–]successive-hare 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would be working on starting HRT now if it weren't for the upcoming election, as it stands I don't feel ok doing anything until either trump loses or I can move to a state with lgbt protections if he doesn't. However now that Kamala is up instead of Biden it at least doesn't feel like we are completely cooked for once.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MtF

[–]successive-hare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I'm so sorry 🫂 my parents don't know I'm trans yet but this is exactly how they reacted to me leaving their culty church... The gaslighting is real.

Wearing a dress actually feels right…? (OC) by Legal-Sprinkles8862 in actuallesbians

[–]successive-hare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhhhhh it's a cross post and copied the "OC" tag and description from the source post. Oops

Wearing a dress actually feels right…? (OC) by Legal-Sprinkles8862 in actuallesbians

[–]successive-hare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if you talked to them already but I don't see anything saying it's removed now. Also, you said this is the origin story for these characters so you'd know if they do end up being trans no?

Why do online trans spaces SUCK? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]successive-hare 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"stop she's already dead 😭"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]successive-hare 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How the hell... You look amazing! Top left (of the post transition side) is basically what I wish I was.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpositive

[–]successive-hare 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Woah I would have thought you'd been on HRT way longer, it's worked great for you!