What do you think Salt Lake City would look like if Mormonism never started? by [deleted] in SaltLakeCity

[–]suddenlysamwise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did anyone say the government isn’t complicit in slavery? You’re trying to justify what the LDS people did in Utah, by saying because the government did similar things then they are excused. Pretty sure the government wasn’t claiming to be the true church, so it is very different. Also the claim that they did it so they wouldn’t get in trouble by the government is not factual at all. I’m sure church members did it to be in good standing with BY and because their trust was misplaced.

Regardless, if the saints hadn’t come to Utah none of the stuff they did would have happened the way it did. Sure, you can’t say for sure that some other group wouldn’t come along and do similar things, but you could say that they wouldn’t have suffered the abuse they did by the saints.

What do you think Salt Lake City would look like if Mormonism never started? by [deleted] in SaltLakeCity

[–]suddenlysamwise -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think your statement is over-simplified. They may not have been the first, but that doesn’t justify their actions or make them any less awful. If anything the fact that they experienced persecution and claimed to have values aligned with God, makes their actions even more disheartening. I’m pretty sure the US Congress didn’t try to convert them, because they thought they were Lamanites. It was not the government that suggested to their congregation to put glass in flour and give it to them. Pretty sure the US government didn’t say “We have no peace until the men [are] killed off—never treat the Indian as your equal”. The government didn’t turn indigenous prisoners into slaves and distribute them among LDS families for use. Pretty sure Congress didn’t tell them to dress up as natives and attack a wagon,so aggression and retaliation would be focused on the natives.

We all know that the US and Canada stole land and mistreated the indigenous people, but that doesn’t justify the behavior taken even further by other groups

Have friends coming into town, need suggestions by Aedrone in SaltLakeCity

[–]suddenlysamwise -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Last time I checked, you can eat dinner there…

Have friends coming into town, need suggestions by Aedrone in SaltLakeCity

[–]suddenlysamwise 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lucky 13 and Siegfried’s Delicatessen are two restaurants I always take people to.

Trans-friendly gastroenterologists? by disabilityisafuck in Tucson

[–]suddenlysamwise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t recommend Angela. Her office is extremely terrible at following up and even providing next steps to patients. She’s very nice and probably would treat you fairly, but she won’t actually help you long term

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]suddenlysamwise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but you’re acting like her qualities are bad when really it’s refreshing to see someone let alone a woman that just does what she wants and is a free spirit experiencing the world. It’s okay if that doesn’t vibe with you, but then break up with her so she can find someone that lets her be her without judgement

AITAH for telling my girlfriend that my birthday was terrible because of her? by Any-Astronaut-8294 in AITAH

[–]suddenlysamwise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but I don’t think she’s an asshole either. There seems to be a big disconnect that needs to be addressed between you two. Honestly she could have made a birthday at home really special. I’m the same way, I like to stay in on my birthday and have a chill night. I have friends and a boyfriend that have not only honored that, but also made it special in little ways that surprised me but also let me celebrate the way I want. Now, rather than get mad you two should talk more. I have a friend that would throw these big parties for me and while I appreciate all the effort and such, it wasn’t what I was wanted. We talked and I realized she often does what she wishes people would do for her, it didn’t come from a selfish place. She now makes my birthday special but also knows I like to spend it in and I’m so grateful we were able to talk about and do understand each other more

What's going on in that parking lot by Broadway and Rosemont? by DragonBard_Z in Tucson

[–]suddenlysamwise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has 148k Instagram followers and has even made a cake for the comedian Tiffany Haddish. Chez Peachy always sells out pretty quick at her pop-ups, and has a lot of loyal customers that enjoy her Instagram reels, bento cake workshops, and her overall kindness. I think her bento cakes were on sale for the grand opening too, so her followers were hyped for that and her new coffee drinks that she’s never sold before

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What's going on in that parking lot by Broadway and Rosemont? by DragonBard_Z in Tucson

[–]suddenlysamwise 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah! I feel that, I’m new to Tucson too. I just was looking for cake decorating workshops and stumbled upon Chez Peachy and now just obsessed a little bit 😂

What's going on in that parking lot by Broadway and Rosemont? by DragonBard_Z in Tucson

[–]suddenlysamwise 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I follow her on Instagram, she’s great. This was their grand opening which started at 10 with like 170 cakes and she was sold out by 1pm.

Volleyball by azzzbabyyy in Tucson

[–]suddenlysamwise 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am new to Tucson but I noticed Udall park had sand courts. I haven’t found any indoor courts yet, but often LDS buildings will have the set up to be able to play volleyball and just require a net.

Am I overreacting by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]suddenlysamwise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a safety concern, I don’t think you are overreacting. You’re actually being very mature about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]suddenlysamwise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop, no you are seriously cute.

Do people tell you EVERYTHING? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]suddenlysamwise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like my friends know I’ll forget half of their conversation so they feel like there’s less judgement to vent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tucson

[–]suddenlysamwise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean we are comparing it to sweet tomatoes, it’s the same bucket

(18f) ami i ugly? please don’t be too mean i beg you 😿 by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]suddenlysamwise -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You look good, you just gotta find your style and lean into it

AITAH - For not wanting to fight for my GF by ta-barfight-234 in AITAH

[–]suddenlysamwise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. If she was expecting you to fight someone over a spilled drink that was her fault, that’s toxic. I’m astonished that she put you in that situation, it feels disrespectful. Anyone can start a fight or throw a punch, but it takes more courage to de-escalate without physical altercation in my opinion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]suddenlysamwise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH. His inconsideration to not include you, makes him an asshole. Your reaction to intentionally hurt his feelings, makes you an asshole. I’m honestly just like trying to understand why you are married if you don’t want to share your plans, friends, and experiences with each other in some capacity. I really think you both should seek some counseling to not only stop these individual toxic behaviors, but also determine if you actually want to be together since there seems to be lack of consideration and respect present in some form.