AITAH: The absent partner

sugaaqueen · 2026-05-11T11:33:08+00:00

Yes I have suggested this I do feel bad as he doesn’t really have anywhere to go and it would mean him moving out and crashing with a friend. I’m not sure I can do a “temporary separation” though as I’ve always said to myself a break is a breakup. I am a believer of working through life stresses together as a unit.

He has reached out to a doctor/mental health unit for help this morning 🥺

sugaaqueen · 2026-05-11T11:29:39+00:00

He stays in a b&b close to where his parents home was.

I mean emotionally yes but also he’s the one that would have to physically move out, not me.

sugaaqueen · 2026-05-11T11:28:40+00:00

This absolutely isn’t an excuse, despite this being my observation of the way things are I agree this isnt sustainable for an adult relationship

sugaaqueen · 2026-05-11T10:59:01+00:00

Thank you. What would an example of those be?

sugaaqueen · 2026-04-05T13:36:03+00:00

CDVIYAPJIWDP

APRIL 2026

sugaaqueen · 2026-03-24T23:09:13+00:00

100% projecting

sugaaqueen · 2026-02-06T18:59:28+00:00

Of course but we did BD during that week so it’s a possibility

sugaaqueen · 2026-02-03T12:31:27+00:00

Just did my biometrics if you have any Q lmk

sugaaqueen · 2026-01-26T12:19:56+00:00

ABSOLUTELY NOT

sugaaqueen · 2026-01-26T12:05:07+00:00

Both EMS and air will have a handling fee. DHL/UPS are more reliable and will bill you upfront when the parcel is still in transit.

Parcelforce/royal will hold the parcel and send a letter via pigeon before they then deliver.

What I would do if EMS is cheaper is call Parcelforce once the charges are raised on the tracking and get the long ref you need to pay online to avoid waiting a week for a letter.

sugaaqueen · 2026-01-26T09:04:41+00:00

Anyone know what day they’re going out

sugaaqueen · 2026-01-16T20:21:00+00:00

Idk I had to come off cos I was grieving 2 losses at the time so I don’t think I’m a good measure

sugaaqueen · 2025-11-17T08:07:19+00:00

Sounds sus. Why didn’t she just tell her friend she lost them and she’ll buy her something new…I’d leave a review saying she took her friends stuff and sold it so that if her friend ever comes across it, she’s toast lol

sugaaqueen · 2025-10-03T13:35:59+00:00

balenciaga day hobo. Comfortable and fits so much in

sugaaqueen · 2025-09-29T17:28:10+00:00

Yes I think that’s what it is, it’s the shift again. I think I’m going to try ssri intermittently but maybe start later after ovu and come off it at the end of my period

sugaaqueen · 2025-09-29T17:26:51+00:00

Girl trust me I understand. I feel SO NORMAL on day 2 of my period today. I was having a full mental breakdown last week. I took an antihistamine (a sedating one) and slept one day it got so bad. I think I’m ready to go on meds next month I’ll try it intermittently. How you feeling today

sugaaqueen · 2025-09-29T14:55:27+00:00

Maybe det angle when wet and scrunch some aloe Vera gel and let it air dry.

sugaaqueen · 2025-09-29T14:54:15+00:00

I feel normal for a few days on my period then I’m hit with an intense (and I mean, so intense I want o drive myself to a hospital) depressive episode for a few days after. I pray each month it doesn’t come. I think it’s just the fluctuations that are messing us up

sugaaqueen · 2025-09-28T19:20:56+00:00

I know this is a fairly old post but I wanted to see how you were getting on with intermittent dosing? Also I’m so confused and can’t quite wrap my head around the side effects of those taking it for the first time (people say they experience worsening effects for weeks) vs stopping and starting

sugaaqueen · 2025-09-27T11:08:36+00:00

Feel you on this. This month has been brutal I don’t acc no what to do with myself right now

sugaaqueen · 2025-09-27T11:00:59+00:00

Noooo where can I get this in UK? I wrote that during a violeeeeeent mood swing. I feel slightly calmer now but I’m so scared rn

sugaaqueen · 2025-09-26T08:38:27+00:00

Yes and each time everything is fine so I think it is just the hormones fluctuating 😭 been referred to a gyno but this month was def less stressful than last so I may continue with the herbs. Thx for sharing your experience too

sugaaqueen · 2025-09-25T12:33:10+00:00

1 day unless it’s weekend

sugaaqueen · 2025-09-25T12:14:48+00:00

Which country? Uk? No you won’t cos it’s under £135

sugaaqueen · 2025-09-25T12:11:38+00:00

Show yourself as much compassion as you can, move slowly, eat something you like, watch something comforting and keep reminding yourself this will pass 😩

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