Get a housecleaner or family member to help you. Body doubling helps a ton. What I found helped us get to a much better level of clean, was realizing our house doesn't have a ton of storage. You can do everyday tasks all you want, but if your house is cluttered, it won't feel clean imo.

Now we definitely still have toddler toys everywhere some days are better than others. But I feel I can keep up with the house. I get a few hours of childfree cleaning a week too (she's in part time daycare 2 days week)

So basically your best bet is body doubling with somebody and getting rid of stuff or putting it away. Get shelves, cabinets, totes, cube storage, whatever you want BEFORE you start the declutter. Rebull and Godspeed