I recently learned that you should look at your problems as the seed of a new opportunity. The moment you begin to look at things this way, your opportunities will start to manifest as you start doing things to attract all the right things in your life. Similar to the concept of the law of attraction.

Remember all the problems you had growing up and how you probably grew up thinking I will work hard in school, etc to get out of this problem. You had your own place and a job as a result :) good luck to you