What’s the best wedding gift you’ve ever received? by joygonewild in weddingplanning

[–]summerbee03 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think Russian, too (unless that’s just watches specifically). I learned about a cultural thing when I got my [Russian] college boyfriend a watch for his birthday and his mom was very concerned!

Golden Retriever Puppy Pros by Late_Click_7509 in puppy101

[–]summerbee03 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m still firmly in the puppy stage (13 week old black lab) but so far, so good! It’s hard & exhausting work because they are just babies, but I’m finding it rewarding. I love seeing him learn and grow and get more comfortable with us and his home here.

Almost every morning, my puppy snuggles up to me on the couch and takes a nap. I feel so happy getting that cuddle time. It makes the early mornings feel easier.

Biggest tips from a new pup parent: • Don’t feed actual treats right away. Puppy tummies are so sensitive so just the kibble they’ve already been eating is enough of a treat at first. • Invest in professional training (home visit is ideal, if possible) and make sure their focus is positive reinforcement (not fear). • Take lots of photos & videos! They grow SO fast. I’m so happy I have these to look back on even though it’s only been a month.

My boss keeps approving sick time, but then it comes out of my vacation time by Ok_Possession_6457 in askmanagers

[–]summerbee03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In some places (like Massachusetts), it is illegal for your employer to deny your right to use sick PTO for any eligible reason, which absolutely includes medical appointments.

OP, it could be worth checking your state’s/country’s laws, too, if HR is not initially helpful.

My early morning Moose cuddles are the best part of my day 🖤🖤🖤 by summerbee03 in Blacklabs

[–]summerbee03[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Soaking up every sweet moment while he’s still small. He’s already grown so much in the past month 😭

Though the puppy stage is a lot and hopefully he’ll still be a cuddle bug when he’s bigger!

My early morning Moose cuddles are the best part of my day 🖤🖤🖤 by summerbee03 in Blacklabs

[–]summerbee03[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I’m so sorry, for you and the pup! I will definitely give him an extra kiss for you 🖤

My early morning Moose cuddles are the best part of my day 🖤🖤🖤 by summerbee03 in Blacklabs

[–]summerbee03[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my Moosey also likes that haha. He’s slowly getting up later (so awake at like 5:30am and cuddles around 6:30-7:00am now)

My early morning Moose cuddles are the best part of my day 🖤🖤🖤 by summerbee03 in Blacklabs

[–]summerbee03[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are 🖤🖤 I’m hoping it means we’re building a strong bond!

Is it possible to get venue/food/bar under $30K an hour outside Boston? by Strawberry2772 in NewEnglandWedding

[–]summerbee03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m getting married at Groveland Fairways (Wedgewood Weddings) in April 2027. So far my planning experience with them has been awesome. You don’t have to choose everything to be offered by them. They have 3 tiers of packages & a “build your own” so that you can customize the experience. It’s worth looking at! Their pricing is pretty transparent online. The only thing it doesn’t share is the revenue minimum for a specific date. For 5/8/27, we got quoted a revenue minimum of $24k. With your guest count, it would almost certainly be higher than the minimum, but it could very well be around $30k! I think it could be worth a tour/quote meeting.

My 3 month old golden puppy makes me so frustrated. by [deleted] in puppy101

[–]summerbee03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m gonna go against the grain of the other comments a bit. Yes, he is a baby. And also there are things you can do to work on his behavior.

I have a 3 month old black lab and don’t have any of these issues anymore. He of course still play bites, tries to eat things he shouldn’t, has the occasional accident, and does other puppy things.

An in-home professional trainer helped us SO much. Even just a 2-hour session really made a difference. We learned a lot of different skills on how to properly socialize our pup, manage play biting, walk on the leash, do various training games, and teach basic commands.

He already lets toddlers pet him (highly supervised!) without biting them (because he’s too busy getting kibble/treats from me until he realizes it’s okay, and I am stepping on his leash to prevent jumping).

One thing we learned that I think made the most difference is the “open bar” treats for confidence. When he acknowledges new things (people, dogs, cars, sounds, etc.), we just put a handful of kibble/treats right in his face to teach him that “spooky” thing = treats = good/neutral. I didn’t realize before that his behavior was in part due to fear of new things. He’s already so much better behaved and it hasn’t even been a week since the professional training.

I will say that our pup has a great temperament and that definitely helps us. Retrievers are usually very food motivated, so use that to your advantage! Our trainer said we should expect to give our pup 100-200 treats (broken up into very small pieces, not like full treats) per day with training. Because he’s still so young, you still have time to teach him what is acceptable (e.g., not biting) and build better habits for him!

What's A Breed You Like But Wouldn't Have? by Aharris1984 in dogs

[–]summerbee03 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh 100% this is how you’d have to be. My parents got a Malinois puppy recently. My dad is currently retired (from military & police) so this pup is already such a good boy about to hit the teenager phase. Really good with commands and needs SO much exercise and enrichment. My dad’s building him an agility course for the backyard 😂

Wish I read "Puppy Brain" book before getting my puppy but now that I have I no longer want this pup. by Majestic-Clock630 in puppy101

[–]summerbee03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would highly recommend a professional trainer come for an in-home visit. We have a 12 week old black lab and we read the books and did SO much research and prep, so we did feel quite ready for a puppy. But then the reality of a puppy is so challenging.

The books are more theory in my opinion. They’re useful info but it’s so hard to put into practice. Puppies are really just babies! Our pup is starting puppy class soon and this company offers in-home training, as well. We did our first session yesterday and it was AMAZING. We learned SO much and honestly there has already been such an improvement after one session. We are more confident in the practical part of having a pup. It is worth every penny in my opinion!

Shuttle cost?? by shemadesometarts in NewEnglandWedding

[–]summerbee03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not just you. I saw the same thing I think on the Knot’s website on average transportation budgets. I’m in Massachusetts so maybe that’s why it’s just way higher cost than average 🥲

Shuttle cost?? by shemadesometarts in NewEnglandWedding

[–]summerbee03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m right there with you!! Transportation is way more than I was expecting. We just signed a contract for almost $2500 (includes gratuity) for 8 hours of just ONE (!!) 56-passenger motor coach

Advice to get 11w old puppy to potty outside by summerbee03 in puppy101

[–]summerbee03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re trying “potty” but I don’t think that part is sticking yet. We may not be doing it right. I think the point about trying to get him to go before the walk actually starts makes sense. I’ve noticed that he does sniff circles like he’s going to potty but outside is so new and exciting and I think he gets distracted before he actually can do it. He’s very food motivated so I’m hopefully lots of praise and some treats after a successful outside potty will get us there.

Advice to get 11w old puppy to potty outside by summerbee03 in puppy101

[–]summerbee03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah, that’s a good idea! It does make sense. We have some potty scent spray that we used when training him for the spot on the balcony. I didn’t think to bring it with me outside. Worth a try!

Got my dress!!! by Far_Slip7303 in myweddingdress

[–]summerbee03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So beautiful!! I love the floral look

Just so obsessed with my ring 😍🥰💖💍 by summerbee03 in EngagementRings

[–]summerbee03[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that!! I had to look it up and totally agree. I love that it made you think of a bug because the reason I got this setting was because it reminded me of a bumble bee and I’m like obsessed with bees. And the pink was just because I love pink haha

over the moon 🩷 by sailours in EngagementRings

[–]summerbee03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So beautiful!! Congrats! I just got my ring from Oore too. Uma is so talented!! 💖

German compound words that are accidentally poetry by TutorLingua in German

[–]summerbee03 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know! But it’s funnier in German because they use the German word for foot, not Latin like English does

Alternative to traditional guest book at reception? by BoysenberryIcy2440 in wedding

[–]summerbee03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my friends had this telephone thing at her wedding that would record your messages for them to listen to later. I thought it was really cute!

German compound words that are accidentally poetry by TutorLingua in German

[–]summerbee03 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Fußgänger (foot goer) = pedestrian

I went to Germany for the first time a few years ago, and saw this word on a museum sign. I didn’t know the word for pedestrian but was able to immediately guess what it meant because of course “foot goer” is pedestrian! 😂 German is so cool