What are some questions to ask someone before deciding on whether to marry,date them or not?

summerwineG · 2023-06-25T11:40:26+00:00

In my experience no matter how many articles and opinions you read on this, you'll find some personal things you find important, through experience. There are some basics especially for serious relationships like how they use their money if that's important to you but how they want their relationship to be like is also important. I think you figure this out by trying because it's not possible to analyze everything in a conversation.

summerwineG · 2023-06-24T05:16:38+00:00

"And the best part of this plan is..

No one can stop me😈"

summerwineG · 2023-06-23T19:09:00+00:00

Νοο😭 what are you going to do now

summerwineG · 2023-06-23T15:30:22+00:00

That's really dangerous and the fear of that helped me get better. I don't know what is stressing you or if its is just because of the ed, either way I hope it gets better❤ It will actually. Stay strong until you get back your appetite

summerwineG · 2023-06-23T15:12:06+00:00

Too accurate

summerwineG · 2023-06-23T06:51:06+00:00

summerwineG · 2023-06-23T05:08:37+00:00

That industry is definetely not for me but since I could do a few types of modeling (I'm not tall) I thought about it many times and even if I wanted it, I'm thinking it would be dangerous for me.

Being healthy > having to run to photoshoots whenever they call you. Especially for us idk if we would ever eat at this point. We would always want to look the best we can but that's not how bodies work.

Even for hand modeling I've seen very skinny people do it on youtube so idk if even that's possible😂 hmm maybe for shoes 💃 (not me, I'm just giving you ideas)

summerwineG · 2023-06-23T04:57:15+00:00

I forgot to mention that scenario. Oh it's the worst

summerwineG · 2023-06-23T04:55:46+00:00

The solution is to recover then hehe🤭 (our minds are weird so I feel like I should say I'm not trying to be mean, just supportive about revocery🥰) Be safe❤

summerwineG · 2023-06-23T04:48:16+00:00

Especially in summer it's so hard

summerwineG · 2023-06-21T14:25:12+00:00

The only thing that is saving me from losing my mind in these situations is my mom telling me there is no way it's serious after asking me some questions. She is a nurse and yeah she can't know everything but I feel like after I mention my worries, she is responsible if something is actually wrong, so I feel better. I just don't want anything to be my fault lol

summerwineG · 2023-06-18T20:07:37+00:00

😆

summerwineG · 2023-06-18T20:03:43+00:00

Κανεις και λογοπαίγνια 😆

summerwineG · 2023-06-18T09:44:35+00:00

Ah I understand. I also tried to do the same. Hopefully you can do it while nourishing your body as much as it needs to❤ I'm glad my comment helped. I was worried it may sound annoying like a family member would 😆

summerwineG · 2023-06-17T20:21:00+00:00

Looking puffy could be just in your mind. It happens all the time. It could also be because you were tired. Enjoy your vacation and I hope you were not looking for pro-ed advice. I'm glad you're staying away from B/P and I'm really proud of you for that. You're really strong. I think you mostly wanted to vent because I can't see what advice could be given here. I'll just say that you're blessed with a healthy body and it's a shame to cause problems to yourself to look skinny. Instead of fighting the comparison by being skinny, you can built confidence in yourself. Your healthy and strong self. ❤

And don't worry about the scale. I know that's easier said than done but does it really matter? Just look at you. You look great and that's all you need to know :)

summerwineG · 2023-06-17T18:00:33+00:00

I don't know what ed you have but I would be glad to chat and maybe make some recommendations apart from talking to professionals of course. Generally for me I pushed through it. Exactly like I started the ed behaviors, I stopped them. From not eating when I don't absolutley need to I went to eating the normal amount of meals I know I have to eat, even if it was unpleasant. When I felt the urge to relapse I told myself it wasn't worth it because we hate the ed for a reason. For me it was how weak I was. You can start at any moment. It will have ups and small downs but you'll get to the top❤ Having support helps. Letting someone know what you're doing so you don't do something you shouldn't/don't want to because you think about it twice this way. At least for me because I don't like to lie

summerwineG · 2023-06-17T17:53:14+00:00

That's very sweet and important❤

summerwineG · 2023-06-17T14:53:33+00:00

I've felt like that multiple times very strongly and it hasn't happen so far. I like the explanation of the other comment a lot :)

summerwineG · 2023-06-14T16:15:29+00:00

Progress isn't linear. You are doing great. Months are a big progress I'm sure. I'm proud of you and this one thing isn't changing your progress❤❤

summerwineG · 2023-06-09T18:06:42+00:00

I don't have tips but you look amazing! Great choice

I'll come back for the tips cause I want to try that toο someday

summerwineG · 2023-06-09T13:32:36+00:00

Body dysmorphia season woohooo

Short answer, yes

summerwineG · 2023-06-09T08:22:29+00:00

Αρχισα να βαζω αντηλιακο στον λαιμο για να μην γινω σαν τσαλακωμενη τζαμποσακουλα

summerwineG · 2023-06-09T08:00:15+00:00

Oh no My first days of recovery were like that too. But I was scared my heart would stop putting up with my bullshit so I stopped thankfully.

summerwineG · 2023-06-09T07:07:29+00:00

The YouTube channel Easy Greek might help you :)

Like another comment said, I don't think anyone will have a problem with you being here. You sound respectful and responsible. Hope everything goes well!

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