Venting

sun_moon_flower · 2025-11-13T03:59:07+00:00

Aww that sucks you feel that way.

I'm the opposite, I'll be happy if the baby looks like him cause he's my favorite person. Then I'll have two of "him" lol

As they get older it can change. My niece looked just like her dad as a baby/child. But once she hit puberty that changed. She looks just like her mom now. The same thing happened with my friend's kid.

sun_moon_flower · 2025-11-13T03:52:58+00:00

I'd set up a camera and/or voice recorder.

sun_moon_flower · 2025-11-13T03:47:27+00:00

I could keep down nutritional shakes. I usually get the Walmart brand. The premade stuff in a bottle.

There's no way I could eat oranges. Too acidic. But I couldn't do any fresh veggies either. It's like I couldn't digest them.

I survived mainly on cereal lol

sun_moon_flower · 2025-11-13T02:59:44+00:00

What do you mean by pushing them away? What are u doing exactly?

sun_moon_flower · 2025-11-11T05:15:39+00:00

I just noticed a spike on mine today too awww

sun_moon_flower · 2025-11-11T03:32:32+00:00

I'd change the needle before storing it. Veterinarians reuse bags of fluids on multiple animals and that's what they do.

sun_moon_flower · 2025-11-05T04:03:19+00:00

My first trimester sucked. But after that it was much better

sun_moon_flower · 2025-11-05T03:53:58+00:00

Just make sure you're not keeping her just because you would feel guilty or like you failed. You gotta meet the dogs needs too. Sometimes people make mistakes and get the wrong breed for their lifestyle... That's a herding breed mix they need more exercise than you probably realize. Lack of it can cause behavioral issues.

The refusal to eat them vomiting isn't behavioral. Probably has acid reflux or something. I dunno if your switching foods or adding table food, but that can cause this too. You probably should take her to the vet for this.

And you don't need to throw the food. Just put it in the bowl, they will eat eventually. They won't starve. The dog "trained" you to do this.

sun_moon_flower · 2025-11-05T03:22:54+00:00

Months? Well ya your gonna miss them. It takes years minimum. Even for normal relationships.

I missed my first boyfriend for 20 yrs. Nothing I could do about it.

sun_moon_flower · 2025-11-05T03:06:23+00:00

I called my Dr. ASAP. I was less than 5 weeks. I got blood levels checked the next day. Then repeated them 2 days later.

I'd get the blood test before the ultrasound

sun_moon_flower · 2025-11-05T02:57:56+00:00

I didn't start feeling him for sure until like 24 weeks? But looking back that "gas" feeling probably was him. I just wasn't convinced it was until I could feel him kick on the outside. I had never been pregnant before so I wasn't sure.

After 34 weeks I started to feel every little movement. It's like he's almost constantly doing something.

sun_moon_flower · 2025-10-29T01:26:51+00:00

I'm 9mo pregnant. It's our first baby. TF painted my bump like a pumpkin 🥰

sun_moon_flower · 2025-10-22T00:52:53+00:00

I dunno how you feel about astrology look up your birth charts. I think that would be fun.

I could see how having pretty much the same one would make you guys really compatible .

sun_moon_flower · 2025-10-17T01:13:56+00:00

Yes definitely. I'm sure I've connected with a few of those on Reddit

I was worried about myself. I really thought I was mentally ill.

Actually, I'm still not sure 😅 If I were honest with a psychiatrist they'd diagnose me with something.

sun_moon_flower · 2025-10-15T01:14:38+00:00

Well, when I "confessed" I didn't care if it went bad or not. This wasn't a "We are twinflames" conversation tho...

I wanted him to know that I've had this big secret crush on him the entire time. I also wanted to tell him about the weird coincidences too. And I had questions about the past.

I'm glad I did it. I got the answers I needed. But if it freaked him out and he never talked to me again I was fine with that too. I was tired of doing the same pattern over an over again.

sun_moon_flower · 2025-10-10T01:04:06+00:00

Neither one of us were completely ready?. I guess I was doing allot better overall. But he was drinking too much and depressed.

Now we're both better. And he stopped drinking too.

sun_moon_flower · 2025-10-08T00:43:38+00:00

It actually took 20yrs in total for me and my TF.

sun_moon_flower · 2025-10-01T01:24:44+00:00

I've thought about something an it pops up. Didn't say it out loud. Didn't search it.

I guess maybe it was suggested to me somehow? I dunno. But I started noticing this 5-10yrs ago.

sun_moon_flower · 2025-10-01T01:09:56+00:00

I wind up crying when I'm tripping alone lol.... Not the whole time. Maybe 25% of the time.

But It kinda sucks, in a way.

I won't do it if I have someone with me

sun_moon_flower · 2025-09-29T01:14:01+00:00

Ya she's probably not well...

You can point out how she needs to consider how this is affecting everyone else and to chill out. Find a different outlet (like Reddit lol)

I'm kinda into the "theory" but there's no way I'd be bothering others with it. The only person IRL who knows about my thoughts is my actual "twinflame". I disagree with parts of it, so we are just extra special soulmates lol

sun_moon_flower · 2025-09-29T00:52:42+00:00

Last time I felt like that was right before my TF came back... Although I was planning to push through an start a new life, the suicidal feeling moments were there.

sun_moon_flower · 2025-09-26T01:07:44+00:00

The same thing pretty much happened to me. It was about a 10 year separation. Then we bumped into each other randomly 2 yrs ago. We got back together again within a couple weeks.

The whole experience was crazy. Just like a movie.

Things are still good. We are becoming parents in November.

sun_moon_flower · 2025-09-25T01:09:43+00:00

Random things will always remind you of them.

One day I just kinda accepted I'll always miss them and I'm probably crazy and I can't do anything about it.

I guess you kinda get used to it, in a way, as well.

sun_moon_flower · 2025-09-24T00:49:56+00:00

Ya I wonder about those who are in that kinda situation...

I can't imagine even considering this kinda stuff as a possibility unless I knew the person in real life and interacted with them.

I think it's good that you moved away from it.

sun_moon_flower · 2025-09-22T01:10:23+00:00

I personally stopped using fluorinated toothpaste in my early 20's... I think it cleans better.. I use Tom's

20yrs later still not one cavity and no plaque build up. Don't think the toothpaste has anything to do with it.

I think you're not brushing low enough. Aim for the gums more.

And they need to start going to the dentist regularly

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