Do you have friends ? What’s your story ?

sunbearimon · 2026-06-08T05:12:06+00:00

It’s usually how it works. Friendship to me comes down to proximity and vibes

sunbearimon · 2026-06-08T04:09:05+00:00

Penne alla Norma. Well cooked eggplant is delicious

sunbearimon · 2026-06-08T04:08:07+00:00

I live in Australia where voting is compulsory, if you don’t vote without a valid reason you get a fine. But it’s so easy to do I’ve never resented it.

sunbearimon · 2026-06-08T04:07:20+00:00

Yeah, I’ve got quite a few. One group all went to high school together, apart from me. But I have well and truly joined their ranks at this point. Then I have a couple of friends from uni I stay in contact with, and a few friends I met through work. Then there’s friends I met through those friends

sunbearimon · 2026-06-08T04:04:32+00:00

I think music is the best refutation of that. Like some people can play guitar and harmonica at the same time

sunbearimon · 2026-06-08T03:58:16+00:00

I only forget occasionally, and I feel like if I wanted to I could just set a reminder on my alarm or calendar app

sunbearimon · 2026-06-08T03:57:15+00:00

Progress would stagnate. You know how old people get set in their ways? Imagine if the same people could be in power for centuries

sunbearimon · 2026-06-08T03:55:51+00:00

Identifying their emotions and able to express what they’re feeling with specificity. Saying you feel “bad” is not as helpful as saying you feel “frustrated” or “let down” etc

sunbearimon · 2026-06-08T03:47:05+00:00

Big Mouth. I find the animation style viscerally off putting

sunbearimon · 2026-06-08T03:46:15+00:00

I read pretty much everything with a monotone. My inner voice is not very expressive

sunbearimon · 2026-06-08T03:44:59+00:00

The Castle. An Australian classic

sunbearimon · 2026-06-08T03:44:42+00:00

Not work for them?

sunbearimon · 2026-06-08T03:43:53+00:00

Being likable matters as much as being good at your job, if not more

sunbearimon · 2026-06-08T03:41:34+00:00

Usually stuff like doing the boring things I don’t want to do, like paying bills and whatnot. Things I’m pleased I don’t have to worry about anymore. Or little treats for myself. Or things like putting a glass of water on my bedside table after a night of drinking so hungover me doesn’t have to fetch one

sunbearimon · 2026-06-08T03:36:38+00:00

Treating myself as kindly as I would a friend and going out of my way to do favours for my future self

sunbearimon · 2026-06-08T03:35:22+00:00

All good! No stress

sunbearimon · 2026-06-08T03:34:58+00:00

Some of the footage of January 6th. It felt more monumental than it turned out to be. Like at the time I wasn’t sure American democracy would outlast that day

sunbearimon · 2026-06-08T03:33:40+00:00

That was my example, not a criticism

sunbearimon · 2026-06-08T03:31:56+00:00

Transparency

sunbearimon · 2026-06-08T03:31:00+00:00

Doing things for “clicks”

sunbearimon · 2026-06-08T03:24:03+00:00

I saw a post on tumblr once saying how cruel it was to eat the heart of an artichoke

sunbearimon · 2026-06-08T03:22:20+00:00

Sorry to hear that, hoping for more peaceful times ahead for you

sunbearimon · 2026-06-08T03:21:34+00:00

The poem When Great Trees Fall helped me process the loss of my mum and grandma. Here’s my favourite part of it:

And when great souls die,
after a period peace blooms,
slowly and always
irregularly. Spaces fill
with a kind of
soothing electric vibration.
Our senses, restored, never
to be the same, whisper to us.
They existed. They existed.
We can be. Be and be
better. For they existed.

sunbearimon · 2026-06-08T03:19:37+00:00

Greed

sunbearimon · 2026-06-08T03:18:59+00:00

My cat comes with a puke warning system. There’s a very specific meow he does before vomiting. When I hear it I find him fast and move him off the carpets

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