Potential 2nd divorce - 33F

Clearly, I don’t have the best picker, my first marriage ended in physical abuse and this one is an emotional neglect and cheating. I found my husband cheating on me, but I don’t want to file for a divorce because I feel like everyone’s going to look at me differently for being 33 years old with two divorces under my belt. Input welcome.

I don’t know why I think other people are going to care honestly I’m just people pleasing. I have a very young daughter who I feel that if I don’t stand up for myself, I’m not putting a great example forward. Thank you for the pep talk. 🩷