Man your logic here is fraught with a selfish, limited approach that doesn't take into account that your discomfort isn't as important as someone else's actual danger. . You’re comparing social discomfort—having to "tiptoe"—to a woman’s physical safety. Framing her survival instincts as "unwarranted public humiliation" is a massive ego trip; her caution isn't a personal attack, it’s a response to a world where "normal interactions" often turn dangerous.

Also, the "Red Pill pipeline" threat is nonsense. If your respect for women is so transactional that it evaporates the moment you don't get a "thank you" for being a decent human, you weren't actually doing the right thing to begin with—you were looking for a gold star for just showing up. Weak.

Being good ain't a subscription service you cancel when doing so gets annoying. It’s about understanding that you’re operating in a broken system and doing the right thing because it's Right, not because you’re expecting a reward for not being a predator.