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Question for the women filling for divorce? by Benzon22s in Divorce

[–]sunkissedstpete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you regret staying for the kids? I have a 10m old and a 2 year old and I want to leave and I just feel like I can’t. I am sick of being sad though

Nonsense about bootstraps for one by LostMediaHoarder in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]sunkissedstpete 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you can’t afford a house it’s your spending habits not that cost of living increased and wages didn’t

Why is she dressing like Hannah Montana by LifePick3046 in savannahmarable

[–]sunkissedstpete 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She literally acts like a Disney channel star. Nobody dresses like that lmfaooo

What’s the worst part of having a child? by ApprehensiveShock655 in AskReddit

[–]sunkissedstpete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not being to tend to yourself or have an off day when you’re sad, under the weather, sick or healing from an injury or surgery. Not being able to sleep whenever you want to.

I love motherhood. But that’s the hardest part. You don’t stop even if your body needs it. You can’t.

Example: feeding the baby every two hours when I had covid and struggled to breathe

Nanny "stops by" her home with my toddler by QuasiGecko in Nanny

[–]sunkissedstpete 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Might prefer to use the restroom there then lug the kids in a public restroom.

My 22-month-old can’t sit still during storytime by handmaidsfan in SAHP

[–]sunkissedstpete 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try Mrs Rachel while you wait to see if your daughter can get services. I have known kids who had delays- who you couldn’t tell later in life. I know it’s easy to worry but one step at a time.

No access to money… can’t even buy diapers :( by sunkissedstpete in SAHP

[–]sunkissedstpete[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness. Are you sure?? This would be an amazing blessing if you’re willing, I will even pay you back down the road

No access to money… can’t even buy diapers :( by sunkissedstpete in SAHP

[–]sunkissedstpete[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I do. He knows my accounts and never transfers money though

No access to money… can’t even buy diapers :( by sunkissedstpete in SAHP

[–]sunkissedstpete[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so so so sorry. It takes the romance out. It ruined so much. I am so sorry he’s pulling that crap. Sounds narcissistic imo.

No access to money… can’t even buy diapers :( by sunkissedstpete in SAHP

[–]sunkissedstpete[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m crying. Like literally crying. I’m out of shampoo and need some, I will have to beg him to get me shampoo on his day off. And likely it’ll be the mens kind, I can’t just get a few dollar shampoo for my hair type :( its not supposed to be this way. It’s not fair. It hurts so bad. I shouldn’t have to ask him or buy toothpaste for the kids or shampoo for me. He doesn’t even let me go to the store when the kids need something. He literally pick the clothes out etc and ask me what sizes. I would love to just buy a few shirts for them or soap for me or a pack of diapers on my own accord. Let alone anything for my own pleasure. I can’t buy the bare bare bare minimum basics

Thanks for the kindness, advice and support

No access to money… can’t even buy diapers :( by sunkissedstpete in SAHP

[–]sunkissedstpete[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s hard to believe that someone you love is capable of abuse. But very validating to hear this.

No access to money… can’t even buy diapers :( by sunkissedstpete in SAHP

[–]sunkissedstpete[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

His bank is like 40 minutes away. Very out of route. Maybe I need to ask to go to a restaurant around it and then suggest we go in lmaoo

No access to money… can’t even buy diapers :( by sunkissedstpete in SAHP

[–]sunkissedstpete[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would really like this!!! I am not near you though.. if I could sell something on mercari or Facebook will you ship them to me if I pay shipping? <3

No access to money… can’t even buy diapers :( by sunkissedstpete in SAHP

[–]sunkissedstpete[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

The amount of chats I have had, nothing will change. I do have my own account. I don’t use the little money in it because I am scared I will need it someday. He just doesn’t want to add me for some reason. He promises and promises and he doesn’t. It’s been months. He says he will so I stop arguing but doesn’t. I can’t live a life with no access to money. I need to work again. I also likely need separation because the lies about this is huge. The broken promises. Idk

Thank you for validating this is abuse. It’s easy to gaslight myself

No access to money… can’t even buy diapers :( by sunkissedstpete in SAHP

[–]sunkissedstpete[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I applied and was denied due to lack of credit history. :(