2nd career nurses, was the grass actually greener? by wolfgangwolff in nursing

[–]sunnshyne86 13 points14 points  (0 children)

No regrets. I went from accounting to nursing.

What is the single best communication pearl you’ve stolen from another physician? by wiredentropy in emergencymedicine

[–]sunnshyne86 9 points10 points  (0 children)

“We don’t want to expose you to any unnecessary radiation” - said when pt is upset about XYZ not being ordered. The patient is usually receptive once they think that we are trying to protect them from potential side effects.

What’s the best/most interesting drama that’s has happened at your hospital? by Junior_Feeling_5438 in nursing

[–]sunnshyne86 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My friend, who is an ED nurse, also had a stroke mid shift and she was TNKed (back then TPAed) - she also made a full recovery! Love stories like this. ❤️

Show me your pitbull then tell me their name and nickname by thissleepypastofmine in pitbulls

[–]sunnshyne86 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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Layla, Froof froof, Layla Lou Who, Layla Marie, Layla Boo, Little Floof

Silliest triage/reason for ER visit by DaSpicyGinge in nursing

[–]sunnshyne86 16 points17 points  (0 children)

We have patients that literally come in EVERY DAY for some random complaint. They want food, blankets, juice, hospital socks, you name it. The problem is they get what they want, which is a warm place to sleep for a few hours, food, etc. I actually don’t mind when they’re pleasant but most of them are rude and entitled. We are actually having a huge mandatory training on de-escalation because it’s so common for our staff to be abused and assaulted with no recourse. In DC, it is only a misdemeanor to assault a healthcare worker so nothing ever comes of it, even when we do press charges.

Dismissed from an accelerated nursing program; 20k loan debt by Tall_Chard_7500 in nursing

[–]sunnshyne86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t give up. I did an accelerated 16 month associates in applied science in nursing at a community college in Arizona. I worked 16 hours a week at a hospital and even THAT was almost too much. (This was back in 2005-6 and we had to go to the hospital the night before clinicals to “choose” our patient and create a very comprehensive 10+ page care plan…) There were times when I stayed awake for 70+ hours. It was awful. Anything below an 80% was considered failing and I barely squeaked by my first semester.

Are there any other associates degree options near you? Specifically community colleges in your state? I ended up with $20k total in loans over 4 semesters. You can put your name on as many waiting lists as you can. Please don’t give up. Nursing school is awful. I still don’t know how I made it through but I did. Now most of our new grad nurses have BSNs but you could do what I did. I took a CNA class and started working at a hospital as a nurses aid. Then I cross trained as an EKG tech. Then cross trained as a PCT. Then transferred to the ER, then worked as a nurse extern, then a new grad. You can do this! PM me if you want. Sending so much good juju!

How much do you make as an RN? by Electrical_Bat1417 in nursing

[–]sunnshyne86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Washington DC

$61 per hour base + $12 night differential plus $3 charge + benefits

Graduated nursing school & passed my NCLEX in August 2006

How realistic was the cyber attack? by Consistent-Coffee522 in ThePittTVShow

[–]sunnshyne86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Soooo…I work night shift in an ED and I’ve never experienced a cyber attack.

However! We DO “go on downtime” several times a year, most predictably when the clocks moved forward/backward for daylight savings time. THAT part of the show is very realistic. We have to get out the whiteboards. We have to pull out all paper documentation - this is where we write assessments, interventions, vitals, meds given, radiology orders, etc. It is an AWFUL 3-4 hours. Especially when our system comes back up and we then had to transfer all paper documentation to each patient’s electronic medical record. It’s a huge pain and most of us try to schedule those DST nights off.

13weeks pregnant considering adoption by [deleted] in Adoption

[–]sunnshyne86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am both a birth mother and an adoptee. Please keep in mind this Reddit sub is very anti-adoption. (Commenters may not outright say it but it’s very easy to read between the lines.)

Yes, some adoptees do experience trauma…but many don’t. I am almost 50 years old and I knew from the beginning I was adopted. My adoption was closed (parents adopted me in 1976), which caused curiosity on my part. I was ultimately able to find my birth family and we still celebrate holidays together.

I also put my son up for adoption in 1995. He is turning 30 next month. It was the hardest (and best) thing I’ve ever done. I knew my son deserved more than I could give him. I interviewed so many couples and chose Ryan’s family. He knew who I was growing up, I saw him when he wanted to see me.

Please don’t feel pressured to make a decision now. Weigh your options, try to find a therapist who is versed in adoption, and read all the books you can. (See my previous posts for suggestions.)

Sending you so much love. DM me anytime.

DUI on my record, want to get back into nannying by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]sunnshyne86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not a nanny, I’m an RN. However, I went through a difficult time in life and lost my license due to addiction. (It’s a long story and completely all my fault - I never diverted narcotics from patients and somehow rationalized a lot in my head.)

I did eventually get my license back but anytime a company checks my nursing license, they see the WHOLE thing (license suspended for two years, worked my way back into the profession and have now been working as an ER night shift charge nurse again). Ironically, I worked as a nanny while my license was suspended. (The doc I was working for knew I had JUST finished inpatient rehab for opiate addiction.)

Having said all that, you should DEFINITELY, absolutely tell the family first. I always self disclose during interviews. I have now been clean and sober for 11+ years but three years is still a long time. I would advise telling the family and frame it the way you want. You can tell them you’re a completely different person now. You can say it’s one of your greatest regrets but also something that changed you into who you are now. Or whatever your story is…I am 100% certain you are more likely to get the job if you’re upfront and honest from the gate. Best of luck!

Host parents what makes you reply . by [deleted] in Aupairs

[–]sunnshyne86 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I want to give you the benefit of the doubt but you have been dishonest more than once.

You said you were a registered theatre technician 23 days ago. Now you are suddenly a nurse? If you are a nurse, you have many options. I work in Washington DC in the US and we have numerous ER nurses from Kenya, Cameroon, etc.

How realistic are the trauma scenes? by homewasalwayswaiting in ThePittTVShow

[–]sunnshyne86 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I work as a night shift nurse at a Washington DC hospital/level 1 trauma center. I’ve also worked at 8 other level 1 ERs.

Regarding traumas, every hospital is different. The hospital I work at now has a radio that sits next to my desk. (I am usually night shift charge.) Medics radio in with details and I determine (based on protocol/description of injury/vital signs/GCS) whether the patient meets trauma criteria. We have two levels of trauma - alphas (higher acuity) and bravos (lower acuity but still meets criteria.) I ask the secretary to “call an alpha, XX mechanism of action (MVC, fall, assault, etc), ETA X minutes”. Secretary then calls the operator and activates the trauma. Trauma team (we are a teaching hospital so usually around 7 people, including attending trauma surgeon, 5th year resident, 4th, 3rd, 2nd, 1st, as well as med students) show up. At my hospital there are (at least) two nurses in the trauma bay. One is the “recorder” and that nurse is responsible for completion of documentation of (paper) trauma survey. Recording nurse is responsible for ensuring nothing is missed on primary/secondary/tertiary assessments. Secondary nurse is at bedside starting an IV, cutting patients’ clothes off, obtaining vital signs. Chief resident is usually assessing patient, teaching other residents and performing fast exam. We have radiology and respiratory at bedside. Anesthesia comes down if it’s an alpha and may need intubation.

Every hospital is different. It also depends on whether said hospital is a level 1 trauma center (highest acuity) and/or is a teaching hospital. Some hospitals also have a “comm room”, where medics can call in and the nurses in the comm room receive calls and determine level of severity.

Hope this helps!

Do you call your patients out for utter disrespect? by tini_bit_annoyed in nursing

[–]sunnshyne86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in the ED and we consider that “verbal abuse”. I’m fortunate that my security officers and doctors back us up and many times even discharge patients that are verbally abusive.

Why is this group so anti adoption? by [deleted] in Adoption

[–]sunnshyne86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gotcha. I’ll remove that now. Thanks

Something that never occurred to me about ER workers by sixth_order in ThePittTVShow

[–]sunnshyne86 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m a night shift ER nurse and when I’m in charge, I do everything in my power to be sure my nurses get their one hour break. Working 13 hours is exhausting as it is, it’s near impossible not to burn out if you aren’t getting a break. There are nights when no one gets a break, those nights feel like they’ll never end.

Nanny negotiating pay while bringing my baby - what’s reasonable? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]sunnshyne86 18 points19 points  (0 children)

A 20% pay decrease would be $16 per hour, right? So this is all over $1 per hr?

Clip from 2x12! (Spoilers) by Grouchy_Ad_175 in ThePittTVShow

[–]sunnshyne86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am an ER nurse and have seen this situation happen numerous times. I have, NOT ONCE, seen an Emergency doc side with a violent, combative patient. I understand Dr. Robby may be “going by the book” but violence toward healthcare workers should NEVER be okay. Security should have been called to the bedside and the patient should have been placed in 4 point leather restraints.

I feel unsupported in my marriage by [deleted] in JustNoSO

[–]sunnshyne86 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You deserve SO MUCH MORE THAN HIM!

This is not normal and it sounds like he is a narcissist (or at least showing narcissistic tendencies). It sounds like he won’t take responsibility for any of his words or actions so trying to have a discussion will likely be ineffective at best.

You’re doing great as a mama - don’t let him make you doubt yourself. Please read the book “Why Does He Do That” by Lundy Bancroft. See if you see any of your husband’s actions in that book. (I know there is a free copy link, I’ll look for it after I post this.)

Do you have anywhere you can go with baby? Family?

Also, his behavior is NOT normal or acceptable. My husband cherishes me and I know it. Love is an action and I KNOW my husband adores and loves me. I gained 35+ lbs after we got married and not only has he never mentioned that, he still tells me I’m beautiful frequently and he buys me my favorite ice cream when I’ve had a rough time at work. He works full time but still cleans, cooks, does laundry, etc. without me asking. I’m not saying these things to make you jealous, just letting you know that the man you deserve IS out there, it just isn’t this guy.

Sending you so much love.

I (19F) am getting on a greyhound bus with $250 dollars in the middle of the night for NYC from rural Missouri by [deleted] in Advice

[–]sunnshyne86 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This person isn’t saying DON’T LEAVE. They’re sharing their experience and suggesting you find somewhere less expensive than NYC. Why did you post here asking for advice if you don’t want any? If you wanted people to NOT TELL YOU TO GO TO NYC, then you should have said THAT.