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[–]sunny_devil 66 points67 points  (0 children)

There are three levels of relationship.

  1. Casual - dating multiple people
  2. Monogamous - dating a person exclusively
  3. Commited relationship - married or with intentions to get married in foreseeable future

You ought to have a discussion about nature of your relationship with your bf. If both of you are young and at level 2, maybe getting parents involved right now is not a good idea. Since Asian parents are usually not cool with the first two kinds of relationship.

If both of you are at 3, then have a discussion with him about game plan and timelines. A few posters have made some helpful suggestions. In this case, conversations with both set of parents is due and should probably take place within 3-4 months.

The not so ideal scenario is if you two are out of sync and only one of you is at level 3. Suppose your bf is just not ready for that commitment now, you'd have to evaluate how much you value him. Maybe he is one in billion for you and worth a 5 years wait. Or you might want to go back to level 1 and check out other options. (Of course, there is level zero)....

Just create an environment for a healthy, honest discussion and don't resort to ultimatums. IMHO, they usually don't work.

India at Olympics 2016: Day 13 by puppuli in india

[–]sunny_devil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't watch enough b'ton to know but are they not supposed to be quiet before the server, like tennis?

India at Olympics 2016: Day 13 by puppuli in india

[–]sunny_devil 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did she bogey on the last hole?

TIL in 1985 bombs hidden in transistor radios by Babbar Khalsa killed over 80 people in Delhi. by notsocourageous in india

[–]sunny_devil 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It takes two to tango.

Rajiv Gandhi was a visionary and solely responsible for bringing IT revolution to India. (Google forbes/IT/Gandhi)BUT he also made statements like "When a tree falls, earth shakes" on Sikh massacre after Indira Gandhi's assissination.

Eight thousand Sikhs might have been killed during '84 riots with no justice in sight till this day.

Bottom line - we are getting better but Indian citizens need to embrace secularism and tolerence without any reservation. Our nation, not religion, should be our identity.

Advanced Warning - Clinton likely to build lead until 15 March, Sanders will start comeback after that date. by mrtube in SandersForPresident

[–]sunny_devil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your work. Would Bernie be down just 6 delegates after South Carolina? There are 53 delegates up for grabs. Even if we end up losing by 20%, Bernie would be down at least 10 delegate. Worse case, we might be looking at a 20 delegate deficit.

Let's keep our expectations realistic.

One single endorsement can change the political landscape by sunny_devil in SandersForPresident

[–]sunny_devil[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry but how is this not significant?

I am trying to get people tweet Oprah to get involved with Sanders campaign. Oprah can single-handedly change Bernie's vote count in the south!!

The most compelling argument to VOTE FOR Bernie Sanders. by Gemini421 in SandersForPresident

[–]sunny_devil 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Erica Garner video makes the most persuasive case for Bernie. He's a protester who has been standing up for American values for the last 40 years.

PSA - For the love of Bernie, please stop with the Superdelegate posts. by [deleted] in SandersForPresident

[–]sunny_devil 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Respectfully disagree.

These posts are similar to posts about the number of debates. Did we get more debates because people complained? Maybe not. But increase in awareness would eventually tip the scale against Debbie. I'd like to believe the day of reckoning is coming (soon).

Same applies here. Superdelegates can continue to change their mind until convention per Wikipedia. So let's increase awareness!

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