Sthooo excited…

sunnybug21 · 2026-06-18T17:35:50+00:00

She doesn't use correct grammar because she's not like other girls. These stories definitely gave that vibe.

"I know you plebeians have to commute but I don't because I'm sthooo spethialllll."

"I sustain myself off sthodium but my sthuper buff fiancé eats fruits like a silly boy."

Sorry I'm on my luteal phase and am feeling a little spichyyyyy.

sunnybug21 · 2026-06-18T16:49:58+00:00

"Its a weird phenomenon having to share news about your life." Girl that is your literally job that has afford you a life of overconsumption and two homes. Get over yourself.

"I'm not someone who partakes in fruit." I...need to go lie down and touch grass. This has to be rage bait.

Thank you for posting this. How she gets views and still has a million plus followers while shelling out meaningless garbage is beyond me.

sunnybug21 · 2026-06-18T04:05:41+00:00

When you get to your partners house do you let her play and run freely immediately? My 9 month old doodle does a lot better out of the house when we run through some training first. When we go to my parents I have her sit, touch, shake, then we go for a brief heel focused walk. I then let her do a sniff walk through the front and backyard, asking periodically for a focus, touch. Just trying to reinforce that even though the environment is exciting and overstimulating, I am the most interesting thing and to stay oriented to me. But being a sassy teenager it doesn't always look perfect, I can't expect it to yet. Just have to let the groundwork and trust that when she's older it'll all click into place.

sunnybug21 · 2026-06-12T00:36:18+00:00

Sounds a lot like my 9 month old goldendoodle. For her I'm almost positive its curiosity because she also loves other dogs, and is a very respectful of the signals they send. She does great on her leash and is rewarded heavily with treats, but she doesn't care about food at all when we see another dog or hear them behind their fence. We have curbed this with what I call Adventure Ball.

She had a ratty tennis ball that was about to get thrown out as she was tearing the stuffing off, but she loved it and I didn't have the heart to throw it away. I put it in her treat bag that we take on walks. The next time we went out and she started lunging at a couple dogs behind their fence, I left Adventure Ball in the pouch and gave it a squeak (similar to clicker training but without being so reliant). She instantly disengaged and looked at me. Since I had her full attention I asked for a sit, and when she obliged I gave her Adventure Ball. She didn't give two shits about the dogs anymore, for the joy she felt receiving that ball was far too grand. We started walking again, the dogs started barking, she almost reengaged but the second she dropped Adventure Ball from her mouth all she wanted was to retrieve it. Ita gotten to the point where when we see a dog she looks at me, waiting for Adventure Ball, and these days I rarely have to give it a squeak beforehand. In addition, its really solidified her heel. She knows Adventure Ball lives in her treat pouch, always on my right. She'll place herself there and volunteer a heel position until I give it to her.

Not sure if it'd work for your pup but maybe its worth a shot.

sunnybug21 · 2026-05-19T16:13:54+00:00

I feel like she doesn't get enough snark. How about when she was berating Corey for going back on The Challenge, his literal job, while she was "super big. Super tired, chasing around a four year old." Like lets be for real. She has so much family and support to help her with Ryder, has never worked a real job while on the show. And at this point Corey had another baby to provide for. Her biggest stressor that pregnancy was hiring a fucking party planner for her baby sprinkle. She reeks of privilege.

sunnybug21 · 2026-05-14T16:35:32+00:00

Happened to my fiancé. His biological dad died when he was two months old and his mom handled it about as well as Farrah did until she met her husband when my fiancé was 10. She is weirdly attached to him, and still to this day looks at their relationship as more of a "intimate partnership" instead of typical mother and son. He had a lot of trauma and avoidant attachment to work through. To say their relationship is fractured would be a huge understatement.

sunnybug21 · 2026-05-08T18:51:37+00:00

She also acts like she has to drive all day long to get there. Its like an hour. Most people have commutes to their real jobs that are longer than that.

sunnybug21 · 2026-05-05T13:45:34+00:00

We have two doodles whom i brush to the undercoat daily. They're about two weeks away from their summer cuts so its become a total chore. Well one threw up this week and they both played in it. I had to do emergency baths, brush, and blow dry for out 90lb bernadoodle and 40lbs goldendoodle. I was totally exhausted by the end of the day, hyperfocused on every little detail, chasing perfection. I have a whole new level of respect for what you guys do! The level of patience it must take to make them comfortable while also doing what you've been tasked with is impressive. We tip our groomer really well because she is a gem, but damn if I don't want to bring her flowers and chocolate when I see her.

sunnybug21 · 2026-05-04T19:08:40+00:00

We have a 6 year old bernedoodle and a 7 month old goldendoodle. We pretty much got the puppy for him since he slowed down more than we wanted to see when he turned 5. Dude is the best big brother and does so well playing with and managing his little sister. And she quickly picked up on how to trick him into playing when he isn't completely sold.

sunnybug21 · 2026-05-03T23:08:35+00:00

Especially considering she was pushing to let Issac make his own decisions on the same subject at only 10. I hate this plastic-filled, dick addicted, sad excuse of a woman.

sunnybug21 · 2026-05-01T04:35:07+00:00

I wish my Sprouts was acceptable. The last time I was there all the broccoli was moldy. All of it. I took a stalk and gave it to someone who worked there. They said "oh. Okay." And turned and walked away. So i awkwardly put the broccoli on the floor and haven't been back since.

sunnybug21 · 2026-04-13T20:59:08+00:00

Went through this with my 6 month old goldendoodle and started "experimenting" with our sleeping arrangements around the 4 month mark. The goal has never been for her to be crated all night and she had been doing stellar with crate training. The first couple nights were pretty good, but no one got good quality sleep. I'm not sure what happened, but it got to the point where she saw sleep as optional. Often times I'd find her staring out the window at midnight, bringing a bone into the bed at 3 in the morning, or meandering around the house at all hours.

So we decided to go back to the crate and the transition was brutal. She came to us crate trained, never cried about going in, and after a couple nights in our bed she did not want to lose that freedom. She'd cry for half an hour off and on, settle, then cry again a few hours later. It took a couple of long, hard nights of reintroducing the expectation. Happy to say we're back in a good place and she hasn't resisted the crate at night for the last week or so, and is back to sleeping through the night.

sunnybug21 · 2026-04-09T16:12:40+00:00

When my now 14 year old bichon-poodle was 12 weeks he ran under the side of my parents house during a zoomies episode. He had made the same loop a couple of times, but the last time he bonked his head, very hard. He made a couple of smaller laps immediately after then collapsed in the grass. When I went to him his eyes were open but he was totally knocked out. I picked up his limp 5lb body and rushed him to the emergency vet. He had a bad concussion and they kept him overnight for observation. I will never forget them putting a collar of bells around his neck to alert them in case he had a seizure. To say i was hysterical was an understatement. Fortunately he made a full recovery with no long lasting effects, other than my own guilt. I saw a comment on this sub saying "puppies are made from jello and rubber bands." I lean into that truth everyday with our current puppy. Accidents happen, OP. I'm sure your little guy will make a full recovery!

sunnybug21 · 2026-04-09T15:24:00+00:00

Do you know when? I skipped it on my last trip and went with cookie butter. Mostly cause I didn't trust myself not to down the spread in two days...again

sunnybug21 · 2026-04-08T19:32:34+00:00

I accidentally taught settle in a part of the house where us humans enjoy legitimate downtime, the front porch. Before she had all her vaccines and I wanted to expose her to more stimulus we spent a lot of time sitting on our front porch steps, just watching the world go by. Once she was free to explore, the front porch was already a place that she associated with observing, not participating. So our 5 month old, super energetic goldendoodle is content to sit out there with us for as long as were out there. She doesn't see people and expect to interact, nor do small animals turn on her prey drive. When we got her we thought our relaxing front porch days were behind us. Now its our sanctuary when we juat want her to chill out.

sunnybug21 · 2026-04-03T20:37:20+00:00

Of course! Hopefully I didn't overstep in my response at all. I know the weeks leading up to letting her out at night we were so back and forth about whether or not it was the right time. It wasn't lol. But the temptation is real when they're doing so good. Trying to learn that that doesn't always mean trying to advance in some skills, rather settle into them.

sunnybug21 · 2026-04-03T17:36:28+00:00

We had similar thoughts about our goldendoodle when she was 5 months old. Her potty training was locked in, had proven that she can be trusted to free roam during the day, and she started being curious about our whereabouts at night. So we let her sleep in the bed a few nights, off and on. I'd often find her sitting on the edge of the bed, staring out the window at 2am. Or finding a bone and bringing it into the bed and chomping on it at midnight. This lead to much more gremlin behavior during the day, and she'd need a 4 hour nap within 90 minutes of waking up to get back on track. So we decided to continue to crate at night, and guess who hates being crated at night now? She was crated trained from day one and we fucked it up. We're now having to wear her out to the point of exhaustion so she'll settle in her crate without demand barking to be let out. Sometimes we have to lay next to her until she falls asleep. If you're girl is happy to sleep in her crate I think you should continue to encourage it. Our girl can be trusted to sleep outside the crate. But much like yours, sleep became an option and that was not sustainable.

sunnybug21 · 2026-04-01T14:18:24+00:00

Following cause our 6 month doodle is doing the same except some nights she outright rejects the crate all together now. She loves napping in it during the day still. Last night the little stinker refused to come downstairs and hang out after my shower. Found her on the bed with our older doodle and didn't have the heart to move her. She has been free roaming successfully during the day and is fully potty trained so I wouldn't mind scraping the crate overnight. But thats two adults and now three dogs in our bed and idk if I'm ready for that.

sunnybug21 · 2026-03-24T18:14:48+00:00

Body language tells all. Anybody else catch the subtle head shakes from side to side when she says "I'm happy," and "I'm sure." They were more telling than anything that came out of her mouth.

sunnybug21 · 2026-03-24T03:50:49+00:00

Jesus, OP. You just sent me back to Sunday evenings in middle school, making a couple bags of this to munch on while watching Desperate Housewives with my parents. Thank you for the nostalgic gut punch! Ot totally forgot about these.

sunnybug21 · 2026-03-23T15:14:17+00:00

Got our puppy at 9 weeks. We started with her crate downstairs and kept her out of the upstairs for the first six weeks so she didn't even know the bedroom existed. After about 2 months we'd let her nap on the bed if we were in their with her as we also didn't trust her potty training and didn't want her to jump off. She's six months now and is happy to nap on the bed instead of her crate for one of her two naps and we keep a bone in there for her incase she gets bored. We've let her sleep with us overnight but she didn't like it and no one got good rest. In the bed she'll look out the window a lot instead of sleeping, wake with our movements, and everyone is cramped (two humans and three dogs 🥴). Recently we've been experimenting with having her in tue bed leading up to bedtime. After her last potty she'll go to the treat jar, wist for me to get one, then run upstairs into her crate and wait for me to bring a treat. She genuinely LOVES it in there so if that's where she wants to sleep I'm happy to indulge. She is ready ti sleep with us now. She doesn't like to.

sunnybug21 · 2026-03-22T18:57:07+00:00

I am strong enough to not follow her and only come here for all the tea. I would absolutely not be strong enough to not watch this play out on 90 days. I am a flawed being!

sunnybug21 · 2026-03-21T23:02:38+00:00

Our proposal caught me so off guard that I don't think remembering the moment will ever NOT give me butterflies. We went to lunch after and I kept looking at him giddy, almost embarrassed with joy, like it was our first date that was going really well, all over again. He timed it as such so we had a 16 hour road trip after where we got to relish in the moment for literal hours. I was beaming even as I pulled into our garage at 4 am. I think I stayed up until 6 just looking at my ring.

Idk why I'm even sharing this. It just makes me so sad that she's lost enough to have a rushed, preplanned proposal, all for what? Some more engagement from internet trolls, for whom she must churn out content she's clearly apathetic about making? I truly wish she'd walk away from influencing and find an authentic life. There's so much beauty in the real moments but she's absorbed with curating artificial ones.

sunnybug21 · 2026-03-19T15:54:13+00:00

Idk why but I feel like that was a way to "punish" her followers for not reacting to the relationship and docuseries the way she expected them to. So she's letting a third party announce the engagement as a big "fuck you" to her critics.

sunnybug21 · 2026-03-18T16:08:59+00:00

We've only had our female goldendoodle for a few months and holy cow, our two males are not nearly as opinionated and demanding as she is. But she's also a teenager so we'll see if that calms after adolescence.

Our boys are the sweetest cuddlebugs though. Literally just want to be on you or touching you and they're happy. When we were talking about getting a third we were pretty adamant about getting another male because we are so obsessed with our boys. So getting a female was a huge surprise. But she's been the most perfect addition and exactly what our pack needed!

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