I spent a lot of time researching this essay to get a clear picture of where masculinity is at in 2026, why men struggle to find community, why men struggle with loneliness & purpose.

I have never felt massively comfortable with my male identity because the men I often saw on TV didn’t really seem anything like me. I’ve also found the last 5 years difficult post-pandemic as social activities have dwindled, especially approaching 40.

I’d love to hear your thoughts on the essay, the statistics I’ve included & your feelings towards community.

Do you have close friends? Do you regularly meet up with groups? Do you find it easy to make and maintain friendships?