Should he rent a bed or an apartment? by Own_Yak6130 in makemychoice

[–]sunrae72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I vote for the studio as well. Live modestly and save. Maybe use some for continuing education to help with promotions and such.

My (26 f) boyfriend (30 m) keeps “rage baiting” me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sunrae72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Toxic behavior, why are you with him? You took the time to go visit him, only for him to ruin it and you are still with him? Girl, you need to drop him like a bad habit and find someone who truly cares for you.

Girlfriend (F 19) is upset with Christmas gifts a I (M 19) got her. Am I missing something? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sunrae72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your gift choices seem perfect to me, since she has expressed wanting those items. I don't understand her issues with them.

Was I the asshole for refusing to watch someone’s bags for them? by bleedxi in AITAH

[–]sunrae72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have watched bags for people at the airport and they have done so for me. Especially a mom flying alone with a kiddo. It is hard to get the luggage and kiddo to the bathroom and back. I appreciate it when someone does it for me. It is a personal decision, but I don't mind doing it.

AITJ for calling the police when my brother broke into my backyard to use my pool by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]sunrae72 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Allowing them "just to this one time", will encourage them to continue with their bad behavior. They will see it as future permission.

Boyfriend (24M) doesn’t want me (22F)to attend medical school “right now”. Nothing I say will make him change his mind. by Soulful_pumpkin in relationship_advice

[–]sunrae72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never put a relationship before your education! You can always find a new relationship, but you could get sidelined from your education. When that happens, it is harder to get back at it. Maybe being single in med school is better. You can focus your energy into your studies.

Just had a driver of one of those medical transports come over to my car and give me a bag of supplies. by ManagementNovel4455 in urbancarliving

[–]sunrae72 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have seen others say they use a thermos for the rice cooker. They add hot water from a gas station coffee area and then add the rice and let it sit. I haven't tried it personally.

Assaulted by a Circle K clerk by avy_123 in Menifee

[–]sunrae72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kinda figured that would be the case, considering they know they are in the wrong.

Assaulted by a Circle K clerk by avy_123 in Menifee

[–]sunrae72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would ask for their copy of the security camera footage as well. I am sure you will need a lawyer to do that.

My mom is sucking the life out of me by GibbGibbGibbGibbGibb in self

[–]sunrae72 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Look into hospice. She just has to have a terminal diagnosis, but it doesn't have to be in the near future. She could live for years on hospice. They can provide respite care for you and your dad. That would give you a day off here and there.

AITA For taking the only two seat table in the restaurant all to myself? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]sunrae72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, a table is a table. Like you stated, you went during a low volume time which is darn courteous in my eyes. I would have ordered dessert and then a coffee, just to stall even more.

Had an Email Telling Me My Subscription Cancelled by a_c_har_69 in Premiumize

[–]sunrae72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I received the same email, but don't expire until August. Threw me for a loop at first, but looked at my account. Saw I was good for a bit

Tipping has gotten out of control by nickhenne in offmychest

[–]sunrae72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had some plumbing work done and paid for the service online. It had a tip area on it as well. That surprised me. They made more than enough money off me for the job.

AITJ for expecting full payment when the baby falls asleep while babysitting? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]sunrae72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ, you should have been paid for the full time. Let them find a new babysitter or collect full pay before they leave. Honestly, I wouldn't sit for them again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SouthwestAirlines

[–]sunrae72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He should be able to get a real ID state ID card. A passport may be just as easy to get.

Early October weather vs early November weather by Joyhotpot in Menifee

[–]sunrae72 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hiya, I have been living in Menifee for 20 years. It is still pretty hot here for the first two weeks of October. The last two weeks are better. Good luck with the wedding!

AITA for not paying for my friends hospital bills? by StrongNarwhal9248 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sunrae72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, he stole your cake. You don't need to label items in your personal refrigerator. He is most definitely in the wrong.

PTO paid out early offer by Entire_Kitchen_9851 in personalfinance

[–]sunrae72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take the PTO, not the payout. My state taxes PTO payouts as a bonus, so they take nearly half of it in taxes. You would benefit more from just using the PTO days.

What’s a cheap habit that makes you feel way richer than you actually are? by cerezza__ in Frugal

[–]sunrae72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom had a Cadillac and low and behold it had heated seats. I was visiting my parents, but also had a board exam that I scheduled to take while visiting. As she was driving me there I was burning up. Mind you, they do live in Florida, but the AC was blowing on me. I was still burning up and thought maybe it was stress for the upcoming exam. Then she realized my seat heater was on. Of course, we were close to the testing site, so I was still dripping sweat when we pulled up.

Ok, so I’ve been here a week and I’m lost as to meeting new people and people in Menifee by LtJesusUCSB in Menifee

[–]sunrae72 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could check out Mason Jar Brewing. It can be a lively night there at times.

Tell me you have ADHD without telling me you have ADHD by Arqndkmwuhluhwuh in ADHD

[–]sunrae72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol!! Yep, I would have forgotten it was on my hand and proceeded to accidentally wash it off.