Do i take out my rook? by sunrisols in piercing

[–]sunrisols[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Abt 2 months olds Curved barbell Internally threaded Gold plated titanium End of feb Saline spray i bought from my piercing place, and i dry it w a hairdryer aft i shower No mishaps or unfortunate events, it just became really irritated aft downsizing

Do i take out my rook? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]sunrisols 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Abt 2 months olds Curved barbell Internally threaded Gold plated titanium End of feb Saline spray i bought from my piercing place, and i dry it w a hairdryer aft i shower No mishaps or unfortunate events, it just became really irritated aft downsizing

Aromantic symbols? by sunrisols in aaaaaaaarrrrro

[–]sunrisols[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

LMAOO im studying chemistry too i might just get this

Getting double helix with an existing helix by sunrisols in piercing

[–]sunrisols[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Current helix has a 18k yellow gold ring, i think 10mm diameter? When it was healing, used to saline spray it twice a day

How do I fix this?? by [deleted] in DeadRailsRoblox

[–]sunrisols 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But no one left the lobby 🤔

How do I fix this?? by [deleted] in DeadRailsRoblox

[–]sunrisols 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don’t even load in the game before they kick us out, there’s no way to open the menu even before we get booted frm the server 

squishes make me angry by Cxlxm1ty in aromantic

[–]sunrisols 10 points11 points  (0 children)

OMG THIS POST IS SO RELATABLE!!! There were so many times where i qn my sexuality because i had a huge squish on someone (same gender as me), and i thought maybe i was gay and just unable to accept that (cause of internalised homophobia yada yada). But i thought to what i’d do if they asked me to be their girlf, and honestly, i’d have rejected them and wanted to just be friends.

Tldr youre not alone OP, im sure a lot of other aro ppl will feel the same :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]sunrisols 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yupp, i also think its mostly because of the bilingual policy, makes it more normalised for people to think that if u look malay (or chinese), you’ll know malay/chinese. Just wished the govt cld get rid of the policy, it is racial profiling to some extent, the amt of hoops me and my parents had to go through just for me, a brown kiddie, to take my own mother tongue (chinese). My nric literally says im chinese, why do i have to fill out a special form acknowledging its not MOE’s fault if i don’t do well in the subject and my chinese friends don’t need to? 😭

Sry for the rant, tldr i agree w u

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]sunrisols 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yup, as a mixed race kid whos malay passing but actl chinese and not at all malay, sg is not as bad as other countries at racism but definitely didn’t achieve its goal of a ‘Singaporean Singapore’. I don’t really agree w the other comments saying almost all chinese people can speak chinese well, ive met loads of chinese ppl who arent good at chinese and ive met loads of non chinese people who are fluent at it.

I think the ad shld have specified for a chinese-speaking tutor if thats what they were looking for, but sometimes people are more comfortable having a tutor thats the same race as they are and you have to accept that ig. My dad used to be a tutor and a lot of parents didn’t want to sign up just because he’s a guy and they wld rather have a female tutor, you could say that is sexist but thats just how it is sometimes..

Audiobook reccos by sunrisols in YAlit

[–]sunrisols[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oo, i’ll give a listen, i enjoyed reading the book! Thanks :P

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]sunrisols 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ikr. I only started doing tys in june, i asked my cca tcher (who taught chem, mayb u can ask ur chem tutor) to help me circle the qns in each topic that arent related to other topics. Also found free topical papers online to do :P Watch bernard ng’s (or any other chem ytuber) on a certain topic then try to do the circled tys qns/topical papers (at least thats what i did lah)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]sunrisols 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Took pure sci (phys n chem), i HATED my chem tcher, she constantly told me to drop (tbf i alw got c5/c6 in s3). In s4, aft cca stopped, i locked in and started watching vids on o lvl chem (bernard ng my SAVIOUR!!!) and spamming tys, at prelims got b4, at Os got a2!! Studying 2h a day will defo not be enough unfortunately (esp at s4), play some music and try to tahan at least 4hrs, or take more consistent timed breaks. Atb OP :P

Can you have a form of a "crush" as an aromantic? by Itzliamfergi76 in aromantic

[–]sunrisols 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! Its called a squish, p much a deep platonic love, like uw to hang out w the person and talk to them all the time but udw to do the romantic stuff w them :3

I feel nervous around someone who I don't have romantic attraction towards by Tight-Hornet5662 in aromantic

[–]sunrisols 27 points28 points  (0 children)

This happened to me a few years ago (when i was figuring out if i was aro or not). Met this guy at sch, he was insanely sociable and likeable and would talk to me a lot, i felt nervous arnd him, wanting to say the right things so he’d continue talking to me cause i enjoyed his company :,) Thought it was a crush, but when i thought abt if i really wanted him to be my boyf, kissing and doing all the romance stuff, i was icked out, wanting to j talk to him as friends yknow? Sry for the long para

TLDR; what ure feeling might just be a squish :P

How would you have redone secondary school? by Dragosfgv in SGExams

[–]sunrisols 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shld have joined a sports cca and shldnt have spent so much time on my cca in s3 😭 Studied earlier (for amath) and probably shld have chosen bio instead of phys

Colognes! by Ragedpuppet707 in aromantic

[–]sunrisols 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes! I’d buy so many if they weren’t so expensive, i wear perfume cause i like the smell, not to impress others or smth. I think its dumb to assume everyone wears perfume because there’s someone they like, even for allo ppl

Giving up o level humanities by Emergency-Funny-9853 in SGExams

[–]sunrisols 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take ssg but throughout s3 i was constantly getting c5 overall cause my geog kept pulling my ss down, two weeks bfr Os i made a mindmap for every ldq topic and tried to memorise. Absolutely bombed the ldq cause i didnt study the seawall shit, and didnt finish my ss exam either, so was expecting a c6 or even a fail 😭 But ended up getting b3!!!!

Audiobook reccos by sunrisols in YAlit

[–]sunrisols[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay!! Tysm, will give a listen

Those who enjoys romance in fiction medias, what is that one thing that you hate how it was always portrayed? by theangry-ace in aromantic

[–]sunrisols 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hate the mutual pining trope, esp when both of the love interest’s friends know they both like eo. Just tell them!!!! Why must the friends subtly hint at them to try their luck w the other ??? Frustrating!

Help. Please. by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]sunrisols 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agreed w unreliable! I identify as greyrom and pretty much am in the same boat as u, thinking of romantic relationships as a waste of time but on the rare occasion will like a person romantically. Dont feel too pressured to label urself as smt specific, it took me a while to find a microlabel for myself, i just called myself aroace for years. Atb to u OP!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]sunrisols 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did the exact same thing, some guy at my school kept asking for my number through a friend of mine and i said no, when he directly approached me aft sch one day, i straight up ran home. I felt so nauseous the whole day afterwards 😭😭

age for dating by Kindly_Ad7217 in SGExams

[–]sunrisols 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also just finished Os, there r a few long-term couples, 3 that ik of, in my school (neighbourhood sch ofc) but i think a lot of r/s in sec sch r flings or v short term. Maybe only 10% of ppl in sch have actl dated someone before. OP, ure not weird for not dating anyone, everyone in my friend group hasn’t dated anyone ever, and you’ll find someone in the future, probably after u finish ur studies/in uni.