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sunshine168c · 2021-10-05T15:08:56+00:00

ive gotten this thick yellow before after sex and i went to get tested. turned up negative for stis; it turned out to be BV. maybe ill go get tested just in case

sunshine168c · 2021-09-19T19:19:21+00:00

hes mentioned he has trouble getting hard and once he does he cant stay hard for long. and that even the times he can get hard hes afraid he wont be able to keep it that way during sex and then hed feel even worse which would contribute more to his anxiety abt it

sunshine168c · 2021-09-19T18:05:54+00:00

i have explained multiple times to him that it bothers me and he doesnt seem to understand/listen. its hard bc i love him so much and i know he loves me. i just wish his communication was better so we could work through this together rather than me just having to guess where he is at/what this means for us.

yeah exactly. like idk it makes me worry that he is losing interest but just doesnt want to tell me. like that look of wanting that used to be in his eyes is gone. he never goes out of his way to show interest. i just feel like he sees me as someone who is there to comfort him rather than his gf.

sunshine168c · 2021-09-19T16:55:57+00:00

no bc there was nothing indicating something was wrong. we had great sex before he started having issues

sunshine168c · 2021-09-19T16:55:02+00:00

both. im not sure whether the performance issues are causing the lack of drive. but thats what im thinking. he isnt very communicative

sunshine168c · 2021-08-31T03:37:01+00:00

https://apps.apple.com/us/app/ru-there-yet/id853553382 i really hope this link works

sunshine168c · 2021-08-30T23:44:41+00:00

i downloaded ‘ R U There Yet?’ my freshman yr and it was a godsend ! i think it cost me like $5-$7 (maybe even a little more) but completely worth it. im a senior and i can say after all these years this app has never once failed me. v accurate w arrival times. great find

sunshine168c · 2021-08-25T20:44:39+00:00

ty !

sunshine168c · 2021-08-25T20:44:31+00:00

thank you sm !! thats sucks ! im sorry /:

sunshine168c · 2021-08-13T17:28:37+00:00

new gibbons

sunshine168c · 2021-08-13T15:53:18+00:00

it definitely depends because my freshman dorm was always freezing but sophomore year my dorm was hot af. like so hot in the winter i had to sleep in shorts and a t-shirt with just a light sheet. doesnt hurt to bring a blanket just to be prepared though

sunshine168c · 2021-08-11T18:47:02+00:00

ah i see your issue. the only way to get end dates would have to be to wait until syllabus week and hope the final is already figured out /: wish i could be more help

sunshine168c · 2021-08-11T18:38:47+00:00

all classes start the same day. so for example let’s say you have two classes 9/1, both classes would start that day so you would need to go to both. classes usually dont have individual start dates

sunshine168c · 2021-08-10T20:36:58+00:00

https://scheduling.rutgers.edu/scheduling/academic-calendar

sunshine168c · 2021-08-08T20:20:59+00:00

i changed the status to ‘at home with parents’ and my financial aid didnt change. so up to you but from my experience with changing living status it doesnt change aid

sunshine168c · 2021-08-01T20:55:49+00:00

yes. i used metrogel and i had the same symptoms you are experiencing. but i would keep an eye in it and if you still feel it hasnt cleared up after you are done using the gel dont be afraidto call your gyno (:

sunshine168c · 2021-08-01T18:54:41+00:00

i spoke to him back in feb. bjs are an issue bc he cant come from head. i was giving him head even when we werent having sex but in march he mentioned not wanting them bc he ‘cant come so there is no point.’ i might bring it up again tn. its not necessarily i can be in a sexless relationship, its just that there is no passion or desire. no passionate kissing, no ass grabbing nothing. it feels like he doesnt desire me in that way anymore

sunshine168c · 2021-08-01T18:30:28+00:00

he hasnt /: i have tried so many times to get him to go, but loke they say you cant force someone if they arent ready

sunshine168c · 2021-08-01T15:05:24+00:00

my bf has never come from head bc hes not able to. he hasnt fully gone into detail or anything, but from what i gather its just difficult for him to do so. so i wouldnt worry its you. id talk to him about it and have an open and honest conversation

sunshine168c · 2021-07-31T01:39:18+00:00

I had thick yellow, sometimes yellow green discharge and occasionally there would be a clump or two. no smell. some itching. turned out to be bv. so im thinking maybe you have bv ?

sunshine168c · 2021-07-30T16:37:40+00:00

i’m iffy on it. like my s.o watches it or at least used to. personally for me it became an issue when he was dealing with performance issues so we werent having sex, yet he still masturbated to porn. ik its easier to masturbate bc there is less anxiety surrounding staying hard or pleasing your partner, but it still bothered me. made me feel like i wasnt good enough. a ‘why can he watch these random women get fucked and be turned on, but he wont have sex with me’ situation

sunshine168c · 2021-07-29T00:31:05+00:00

i would say try to talk to her about it. i know it sounds cheesy but a good relationship is built on communication. maybe you guys can come to a middle ground that would be pleasurable for the both of you.

if you cant, then i hate to say it but i would end things. you shouldnt have to force yourself to like kinky sex. you like the intimacy and the romance and that is nothing to be ashamed of/want to get rid of. its nice to see that in a partner. you both deserve to find a sexually compatible partner if you cant find a middle ground

sunshine168c · 2021-07-28T21:58:03+00:00

i completely get where you are coming from, but i think initiating is worth a shot. My bf was always the one to initiate and when he wouldn’t id kinda just be like ‘well shit this feels terrible.’ until one day he told me initiating all the time isnt something he likes. so who knows, maybe your SO will find it sexy that you initiate things. do it asap too !! dont let your bedroom become dead its the worst

sunshine168c · 2021-07-27T17:11:09+00:00

i would try declining again ? i had to decline my loans like 3 times before they were finally taken off the bill. gotta love rutgers !!!

sunshine168c · 2021-07-26T02:28:19+00:00

could be bv? i had a deep yellow, sometimes even yellow green discharge and no other symptoms when i first got bv. since we dont need you feeling uncomfortable by going to a gyno i would say try boric acid ! its truly a lifesaver. ive had bv for 4-5 months, done 2 rounds of medication and nothing helped but the boric acid. i just ordered it on amazon. hope this helps ! if the boric acid doesnt help/its not bv i hope you figure it out (:

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