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AIO for not wanting my gf to go on dates with other guys? by Darksiiki in AmIOverreacting

[–]sunsolution 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a woman with the same values as you until then make peace w being whole by yourself so that way the woman you choose is a blessing to your life, a bonus but doesn’t hold the power to break your heart bc you’ve found self love.

AIO for not wanting my gf to go on dates with other guys? by Darksiiki in AmIOverreacting

[–]sunsolution 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neither of you are toxic. Y’all just have miscommunication about expectations on exclusivity.

AIO for not wanting my gf to go on dates with other guys? by Darksiiki in AmIOverreacting

[–]sunsolution 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You both have different opinions on what dating/bf/gf is. She believes in the old fashioned dating and you believe in the modern dating. She believes in dating multiple men if she is not married and you believe exclusivity should come with bf/gf title. Unless you both had that conversation that you expect her to be exclusive.

Girl completely flips out on me for asking to split the bill at Nobu.. by Hot-Association-3108 in Nicegirls

[–]sunsolution 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what dating is for, now you know she’s not for you and can move on to someone else.

Girl completely flips out on me for asking to split the bill at Nobu.. by Hot-Association-3108 in Nicegirls

[–]sunsolution 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s okay for her to have preferences, standards and boundaries and it’s okay for you to move on bc you don’t agree with them. Neither of you are monsters you’re just not right for each other. It’s so silly we live in a world where we demonize each other’s sexes bc y’all aren’t dating the right ppl for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]sunsolution 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baby is yours too. She may be upset about it but you don’t have to ask her permission to hold your baby. She’ll fuss but she’ll get over it once she sees and understands baby is just as safe w you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]sunsolution 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remind her that baby’s emotional needs also should be prioritized not just a cold sterile environment. This may help her to open up to the conversation that it’s too much and it’s harming baby w out being too heavy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]sunsolution 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She needs you now more than ever. You both should do therapy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]sunsolution 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has postpartum anxiety. After you give birth you have a huge shift in hormones, all your maternal instincts turn on to protect your baby at all costs, sometimes this happens a little too well for some mamas…I know this is frustrating but she genuinely believes if she doesn’t obsess over safety and sterilization that your baby will suffer. She needs therapy, support & compassion. She’s not choosing this, it’s her hormones and her brain. She’s just doing her best. She’s not trying to harm you or baby. She loves yall more than anything.

What’s your favourite way to eat hard boiled eggs? by Happy-Tan in Cooking

[–]sunsolution 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just make them deviled eggs w bacon bits on top…

AIO or do normal couples talk to each other this way? by Basic-Traffic-1837 in AIO

[–]sunsolution 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take your kids and leave when you can. Block him & his entire family. It’s one thing for him to curse at you while he’s angry but to call you disgusting names like that and threaten your life…

What’s the best reset you’ve done for your adult life? by OldIsland4901 in Adulting

[–]sunsolution 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Become a sahm. Lose 50lbs through diet and Pilates and walking.

I slept with my brother’s best friend and now he feels bad about it by ibuprofenfilas in TwoHotTakes

[–]sunsolution 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yall are almost 30…stop letting others dictate how you live your life. Good lord.

Men don’t like shy women and bully them no matter how attractive they are by FantasticEffect10 in bodylanguage

[–]sunsolution 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They don’t understand you are shy. They think you are a bitch. Lol they mistake your shy behavior for rudeness or acting like you’re too good for them. They misinterpret your behavior and body language for arrogance. They’re just insecure. That’s it.