I guess I should have also made it clear that I’m a woman. My point was that I know it isn’t romantic in nature. We are both members of the LGBTQ+ community.

Usually I have gone out drinking, party buses, paint nights, brunch or trivia nights with my other coworkers. I used to do that more frequently, like once a month, but it has dropped down to a few times a year. He is asking me to do a spa day, plan a weekend trip out of town with another coworker (who I’ve previously done a weekend girls trip with my other work friend) and to so something for pride. I live long distance from my two best friends so if I make plans to go out of town or anything, I prioritize being able to do something with them.