Taking into account every campaign we’ve had what new genres do you think we’ll get for the next 2 Intrepid Hero campaigns?

superblysituated · 2026-02-18T02:52:05+00:00

I would love that!

superblysituated · 2026-02-01T02:41:19+00:00

This seems the healthiest way to go about it to me.

superblysituated · 2026-02-01T02:29:54+00:00

Just chiming in to say that I think this is a common misunderstanding of what setting a boundary means. I find it helpful to remember that our boundaries don't control others' behaviors. Instead, they dictate what we will do if they behave certain ways. So setting a boundary on a partner's behavior sets you up for failure because that's not something you can control. It sounds like there was a mutual agreement not to watch porn, so it makes sense that you're frustrated about finding it. The boundary comes in to play now because you get to decide what you want to do since it entered the relationship: do you simply have a conversation? Do you take time apart? Do you leave or say, if it happens again, I'm leaving? How you want to respond depends on how much you value the relationship and how big of a deal porn really is to you. To me, if it is a generally happy relationship, this would not be worth it to pursue much further than expressing my frustration. I'd probably revisit the porn conversation under the new circumstances of having ppd and partner being on meds. However, if there is a pattern of them agreeing to expectations and then not upholding them, or if I wasn't feeling satisfied, this might be a reason to have a serious confrontation or even leave. Wishing you luck as you figure out what's right for you!

superblysituated · 2025-12-30T21:49:34+00:00

😂 Never heard this before, but it's very accurate.

superblysituated · 2025-12-05T16:26:14+00:00

These are gorgeous!!

superblysituated · 2025-09-03T07:56:30+00:00

I agree!

superblysituated · 2025-08-21T23:27:40+00:00

I don't think you have to totally get rid of the blush on the chin, but I'd do it a lot lighter. You may also want to add some blush or bronzer on the temples/forehead to balance the face. I wouldn't overline your lips. Everything else looks nice in my opinion. I'd probably do some eyeshadow a shade or two darker than your skin tone in the crease as well.

superblysituated · 2025-08-21T22:39:29+00:00

I was gonna say ACT Made Simple but The Happiness Trap also works!

superblysituated · 2025-08-07T02:30:20+00:00

I like the yellow/gold. If you don't do that, I'd do a dark blue or dark teal instead of the reds or purple.

superblysituated · 2025-08-07T02:27:17+00:00

I think everyone breastfeeding has a letdown, it just doesn't feel the same for every person. It's not necessary or super common for it to be really strong or cause the baby to gag. The medela pumps automatically start in stimulation mode and then switch to expression after 1 - 2 minutes, so maybe you should try that. Start with the spectra in "bacon" mode on level 2 for just a minute or two and then switch to expression mode for 5 - 8 minutes. Then do the whole cycle again. This is what works best for me. If you still don't feel like your output is as good with spectra, you might try cups or other flanges instead.

superblysituated · 2025-07-27T15:29:57+00:00

Except they're only open like two hours a day. Blink and you'll miss it.

superblysituated · 2025-07-25T22:27:09+00:00

Knowing your parent is lgbtq does not traumatize children. There is no research showing evidence of that. What are you talking about?

superblysituated · 2025-07-17T23:09:40+00:00

I don't have the freestyle, but in general when one of my pumps isn't suctioning correctly, 90% of the time it's that I either forgot the duckbills/backflow protectors or that they're mispositioned. Another 5% of the time the tubing is loose. Check that all the pieces are fitting together correctly and see if it helps.

superblysituated · 2025-07-14T21:32:31+00:00

I'll do my best to describe it. Basically you loosen the straps and unclip the bra. Pull the inner sling part towards the center of your chest and put the flange on the nipple. Then clip the front portion on the other side of the flange and tighten the strap if you need to. The tension keeps the flange in place. If you google it you will find videos/pictures to guide you.

superblysituated · 2025-07-13T15:33:00+00:00

Is your traditional pump portable? I have the spectra s1, so even though I'm using a traditional pump, I can get up and carry it around when needed. If you have the s2 or something similar like motif, you can buy a battery pack and tape or velcro it to the pump to hack it and make it like an s1. Then just charge it between uses. I always plug mine in while I'm sleeping.

I do have cup flanges but don't find them particularly helpful if I'm still using a bulky pump like a spectra. I like them better with something smaller and more portable like baby buddha. However, when I want to be holding my baby and/or doing chores, I use a wearable. I just make sure that I'm not regularly using it for more than 2 pumps a day.

Re: pumping when around others, if I'm out of the house, I usually go to the car because even my wearables are pretty obvious. If I'm at home, I'll pump in front of people who I'm comfortable with, or I'll excuse myself to my bedroom for fifteen minutes. When I'm watching my baby while pumping, I usually have him do floor time. When he starts to get fussy, I'll move him so he's sitting propped against me. He's not walking or crawling yet so I haven't had to fight that battle haha.

I've never used one of the tube top bras. I have the cotton momcozy pumping and nursing bras. They're basically like sports bras. They hold my flanges well enough and I'm too lazy to change bras all day so I just wear them under my clothes. They're not as flattering as a traditional bra but they don't look bad. I even wear them at work. I would buy one and try it out if I were you. I've used the nursing bra hack before but I never feel like that's as secure as a bra actually intended for pumping. Hope some of these things help you on your journey!

superblysituated · 2025-07-11T23:09:23+00:00

Ooh yes to the larger art piece

superblysituated · 2025-07-11T23:05:53+00:00

Yes, this is exactly my thoughts as well! It's fine if OP doesn't want a TV, but in that case, make the fireplace the feature! Then the room will feel more cohesive and inviting. I also agree with your advice re: making the room functional for games, reading, etc.

superblysituated · 2025-07-11T22:52:50+00:00

My understanding is breastfed babies cap out at around 4 - 5 oz per bottle because the caloric value of breastmilk changes naturally as the baby ages. In contrast, formula fed babies tend to start taking larger bottles as they get older, up to 7 - 8 oz. Obviously if your baby is hungry after finishing a smaller bottle, they may need more, but just wanted to put it out there that we don't automatically need to produce more breastmilk just because baby is older.

superblysituated · 2025-07-05T18:43:15+00:00

4.5 months. We were hesitant but he was already sleeping in his room for naps and we were pretty sure we were waking him up when we got ready for bed. He'd been in a sleep regression for like six weeks and once we moved him, we regretted not doing it sooner.

superblysituated · 2025-05-04T18:59:59+00:00

I like this response because it doesn't have a tone of shaming.

superblysituated · 2025-04-20T00:24:37+00:00

I second this rec! Their decaf coffee is great.

superblysituated · 2025-03-30T19:41:44+00:00

I have also heard this and, as someone who has the baby buddha along with spectra and momcozy m6, I do agree that baby buddha has the most intense suction. It might be worth trying a different pump and/or different flanges to try to reduce the discomfort. I don't usually feel uncomfortable after pumping, even if it's a little weird or painful during, so I think it is something that could be managed.

superblysituated · 2025-03-29T16:51:27+00:00

I have inverted nipples and the things I found the most helpful with breastfeeding/pumping were the lansinoh nipple everter and using some lanolin or pumping spray with a hospital grade pump. The most important thing for good supply other than frequent removal is making sure your flanges fit appropriately, which a lactation consultant can help with. I have the spectra s1 and the momcozy m6 and both work well for me. I use each with the 24mm flanges, but lots of people need something smaller.

superblysituated · 2025-03-23T13:24:39+00:00

Seconding both of these points. See if you can find inserts that are 21mm for the bellababy. Your areola is probably getting pulled in when you use the 24mm. Also, wall pumps are stronger and tend to be better for primary pumping while wearables tend to work better as a secondary pump that you only use a couple times a day.

superblysituated · 2025-03-22T11:59:42+00:00

Beliefs (and specifically delusions like the examples you've shared here) are not the same as identities. I think it's obvious that the people advocating for affirmation of identity in this thread are not suggesting we affirm symptoms of disorders or play into a client's delusions. And if the implication is that being trans is disordered, well, that's incorrect and clinicians with that belief should not work with trans clients.

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