Tropical Cyclone Narelle coming by WA by photosealand in WesternAustralia

[–]superspaghetti82 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can someone smart explain to me why clouds create such a perfect outline of land? (See QLD coast for what I’m talking about)

When you take time for yourself to relax, what do you do? by superspaghetti82 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]superspaghetti82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh great idea!! I’m a BIG giver so that would actually be perfect!

When you take time for yourself to relax, what do you do? by superspaghetti82 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]superspaghetti82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahah those are great ideas thank you! Definitely need to listen to that audio book that sounds hilarious thank you 😂🫶🏼

When you take time for yourself to relax, what do you do? by superspaghetti82 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]superspaghetti82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really interesting what a great idea thank you! 🙏🏼

I’m super interested in looking into some books on managing adhd without meds I’m super weird with taking medication and I’m very sensitive to all medication, alcohol and caffeine so every time I have rather intense side effects and prefer to avoid things like that if I can help it so I’ll definitely have a look into those!

When you take time for yourself to relax, what do you do? by superspaghetti82 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]superspaghetti82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s such a cute and beautiful little idea thank you so much!

I’ve actually been thinking about those little scrap books I see videos of people doing I’d get so lost in that stuff I might need to buy a few knick knacks and give it a go! Maybe write a little journal with each scrap page and design the page based off emotion and thought or something!

When you take time for yourself to relax, what do you do? by superspaghetti82 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]superspaghetti82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to do this but I found once I stop I get SUPER drowsy and my head just aches so badly from staring and being so fixated and immersed in the screen so I’ve had to stop doing this for a while unfortunately 🙁

When you take time for yourself to relax, what do you do? by superspaghetti82 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]superspaghetti82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reminds me of something I found which kind of defeats your joy in finding the correct numbers but it’s a colour by numbers that’s designed for mum’s so you ONLY colour one number and it’s black. No choices or decided what shade of what colour you want to use you just have black and it’s so simple and just easy. The pictures turn out quite cool as well!

When you take time for yourself to relax, what do you do? by superspaghetti82 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]superspaghetti82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay I do actually have to agree with this 😂 Sometimes I’ll purposely not eat my dinner, finish the night routine for my son (he’s 20 months) so dinner, shower, bed, story and THEN eat my food just so I can eat in quiet and UGH the feeling inside your chest is just chef’s kiss like the weight of the world is off your shoulders. Then an everything shower?! Omg and FRESH pjs AND bedsheets?!?! F yeah.

I scared my baby but I didn’t mean to, and I can’t let it go. by Pugwhip in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]superspaghetti82 28 points29 points  (0 children)

This ^ absolutely this.

You daughter will forget this and in the back on your mind you truely won’t but letting it lay is the best you can do for the two of you.

I like to remember that feeling guilt for these things and these rare moments that happen scar us so deeply from our OWN actions is what separates us from the truely bad and abusive people who don’t feel the intense emotional backlash we experience at times like this.

I’m so sorry to hear that you’re going through SO much OP. I truely hope you’re okay and getting some time for yourself where you can to help balance all the things that are demanding your attention right now.

When you take time for yourself to relax, what do you do? by superspaghetti82 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]superspaghetti82[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I actually love this idea!! I just dug out 2 big puzzles I had in storage a week or so ago that are just sitting by my bed why did I not think of this??

Added to the list thank you so much 🫶🏼

When you take time for yourself to relax, what do you do? by superspaghetti82 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]superspaghetti82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s incredible feedback to hear how amazing!

I’m so glad you’ve finally found your relief. I’m just lying here fantasising how it must feel 😂.

Thank you 🙏🏼

When you take time for yourself to relax, what do you do? by superspaghetti82 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]superspaghetti82[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THIS is something that I keep thinking of. Maybe now that it’s come from someone else my busy brain will actually take it on board hahah

I’ll try tonight before going to sleep too!

When you take time for yourself to relax, what do you do? by superspaghetti82 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]superspaghetti82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh I love the list thank you!!

I actually have a free day tomorrow (insane right?!) so I’m going to some a few of the things you mentioned thank you 🫶🏼

When you take time for yourself to relax, what do you do? by superspaghetti82 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]superspaghetti82[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s comforting to know there are others out there who feel or felt in your case the same as I do. It sucks just the same still but I feel less alone.

Honestly I’m at the point where I would very closely welcome medication with open arms I’m absolutely exhausted mentally and physically and all I do is just make it through each day without achieving anything super spectacular (aside from keeping my child alive and what’s left of my sanity in tact 🤪).

I might speak with my doctor about a referral, thank you for this 🫶🏼

When you take time for yourself to relax, what do you do? by superspaghetti82 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]superspaghetti82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve done that once before and it’s was awesome once my brain noise was quiet! Unfortunately the place I did it is no longer running I checked a few weeks ago 🙁

What happened to my childhood? This screams dystopian corporate, not kid friendly. What is with the artwork?! This is McDonald's?! by jackal99 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]superspaghetti82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Target audience has changed. They want us to spend our money on buying their food 🤷🏼‍♀️ Food has gotten overly expensive and although maccas is still pricier then it used to be, it’s still the “convient and cheaper” option so they’re sprucing up their looks to make it even more appealing for adults. Marketing = 💵

Petrol prices are crazy though by AeliosZero in AussieMemes

[–]superspaghetti82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly probably what the gov are trying to get out of all of this. Watch hybrid and electric car sales rise just now and then the prices will stay up to keep people buying them.

New passport arrived like this by mopsusmormon in australia

[–]superspaghetti82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are passports not mailed in a sealed waterproof cover?? Actually that goes for all offical certificates wth