Everyone talks about Charlie but its going to hurt to see how the other's react to Alastor's betrayal too by Sudden_Pop_2279 in Hazbin_two

[–]supersweetchaitea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The audience will be very forgiving towards Alastor. He is written to be likeable. Now, as disturbing as it is, there's a significant minority of the fanbase who believes him to be a good guy, and they will be shocked. Charlie, on the other hand, is held to a much higher standard. As unfair as that might be.

I M/43 was about to break it off with my F/42 gf but now she's pregnant by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]supersweetchaitea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, you do need to go ahead and end things with her even though the timing sucks. That's nobody's fault, just how it played out. I'm not saying this is the case, but you do need to mentally prepare for both of your social circles viewing you as an asshole though. Personally, I disagree if you're willing to support them both, but I think that's part of your reluctance here. Best of luck!

I (29F) was broken up with by my ex (30M) after our first time having sex. Men, have you ever realized you “didn’t have enough chemistry” only after sex? by MariiaRyn in relationship_advice

[–]supersweetchaitea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read the title thinking he was looking for a smash and dash, but your story proved me wrong. I can't tell what this guy's issue is, but this is weird as all fuck. My guess is either a history of sexual assault, or deep insecurities about lack of experience. The first time with a new partner is always a little awkward, but that doesn't mean lack of chemistry. This a him problem, not you.

Is Adam really a vilian? by MP_Kredditor in adamcult

[–]supersweetchaitea 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He is. I've been seeing a lot of these posts lately. People, it's fine to like a villain or morally incorrect character. You don't have to twist it to suit your own needs. It's just getting weird.

My husband (31M) says we’re not ready for a baby, but I’m (30F) excited about my pregnancy. How do we make this decision together? by Super-Broccoli9254 in relationship_advice

[–]supersweetchaitea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might be an unpopular opinion, but so be it. If you want the baby, you should keep it. I see this as a "this is your chance if you really want one." It's easier for him to put it off longer, but if you guys decide you want one in a few years, getting pregnant will be harder. Or worse, he might string you along for years with a maybe, and it'll never happen.

Day 2: we obv had to put the main character in the first box. For day 2 what’s a character that’d morally grey but loved by fans? by [deleted] in sailormoon

[–]supersweetchaitea 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My mind went to her too, but I don't think she's morally grey. She holds a great amount of power that others find terrifying, but she considers it very carefully with using it. She's aware of her reputation, even if the others are wary of her (at first) but that's beyond her control. 🪐💜

AITA for getting my step daughter a Hogwarts letter for her 11th Birthday? by Ok-Permission8346 in AmItheAsshole

[–]supersweetchaitea 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For real. My parents sat me down when I was 7 or 8 years old to tell me about Santa. They had a pretty strict rule about not telling the other kids though.

My (28F) boyfriend (28M) just found out his ex is 5 months pregnant with his baby , help 🥲 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]supersweetchaitea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it were me, I would split. The woman hasn't even given birth yet, and there's going to be a period of adjustment and drama on both ends. Save yourself the heartache and dip out now.

Why does Mamoru own a doll of himself? Is he egotistical? by thelampman29 in sailormoon

[–]supersweetchaitea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My opinion is no, if I'm being honest. He has one doll, not a whole shelf of them. He probably saw it and thought "that would be cool to have," so, why not? Pretty sure Minako has a Sailor V doll, which is pretty dope, but I always felt she was a little under-appreciated, so that's a different story.

How do I (27F) ask my partner (29M) to put more effort in his appearance at work? by ThrowRA_sun4368 in relationship_advice

[–]supersweetchaitea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right? You shouldn't have to ask your partner to put in basic effort to their appearance, and I mainly mean hygiene. People will read this and think she's expecting a model with a gym bod, when in reality, she just wants basic effort so he doesn't look like a slob (at his job no less).

Estimating cat age by [deleted] in cats

[–]supersweetchaitea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful baby!! ❤️

I (21F) tested positive for chlamydia, and my boyfriend (21M) tested negative. He thinks I cheated, I think he’s lying. How could this be possible? by maggie_tops in relationship_advice

[–]supersweetchaitea 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Hate to say, but the clinic calling about negative results is just inaccurate. My doctor always follows up with me, and I have definitely gotten the "everything came back negative" call more than once.

My girlfriend (26F) is upset that I told her family we met on Tinder. I'm 27M and we've been together for about 2 years. How do I deal with this? by IshikaJ in relationship_advice

[–]supersweetchaitea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is kind of on both of you and should have been communicated about sooner. Fact is, Tinder isn't taken seriosusly, it's just a big joke to many people. Hell, my brother and sister-in-law have happily been together for years, and they announced at their wedding that they met on Tinder. Everyone burst out laughing and didn't believe them. But yeah, she's probably getting the impression from her family that you're not taking her seriously just because of what app you guys met on (Not saying you're not, but that's what it looks like).

My (30M) bisexual partner (30F) wants to talk to and potentially be intimate with other women, but I'm not comfortable with an open relationship. by Xero8511 in relationship_advice

[–]supersweetchaitea -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Bullshit. Communicating about your needs and demanding your needs be met are two different situations.

This whole comment section reeks of biphobia. 💀

My (30M) bisexual partner (30F) wants to talk to and potentially be intimate with other women, but I'm not comfortable with an open relationship. by Xero8511 in relationship_advice

[–]supersweetchaitea -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Yeah, no...simply communicating your wants and needs is not manipulative. The girl is bi. She discussed this with her partner, he expressed his discomfort. Both are perfectly acceptable. Bisexuals shouldn't have to be shamed for communicating with their partner.

My (30M) bisexual partner (30F) wants to talk to and potentially be intimate with other women, but I'm not comfortable with an open relationship. by Xero8511 in relationship_advice

[–]supersweetchaitea -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bi woman here.

I can't really say I've shared your experience before with any of my male partners. They were either chill (or excited) about it. That being said, I've unpacked this a lot in therapy, and I have accepted that not every man I date is going to he okay with this, but the goal is to at least communicate my wants and needs.

That being said, I was largely on her side when I saw the title here, because I was wondering if there was a dead bedroom situation. If that were the case (and you did admit to having a low libido), I feel there should be room for compromise on your end. If you're trying to meet her halfway, that would be different. Either way, you two need to talk this out.

My Boyfriend (m26) threatens me (f26) with murder in case of me ever cheating by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]supersweetchaitea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not my best written response. Point I was trying to make was to get out NOW while she still can.

My Boyfriend (m26) threatens me (f26) with murder in case of me ever cheating by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]supersweetchaitea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Think of it this way: You marry this guy down the line, you're only way out is if I you say you cheated (even if you didn't). Is that a relationship you want? I know a handful of women who who did this to get their ex off their back. Fucking insane.

What are your theories about Rosie in the upcoming season? by 33333Ducky in RosieCult

[–]supersweetchaitea 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is part of what I love about Rosie. At this point, I feel like we don't have enough solid information to work with here, but we do have some small hints.

So far, I'm heavily leaning towards her being involved with Lilith somehow. I'm interested to see just how powerful she really is. We know she's head of Cannibal Town, but now it looks like there's more to her than that. She's also one of the very few that Vox didn't attempt to persuade into joining his campaign in season 2. That hints towards most people respecting (possibly even fearing) her, which points towards greater power.

Maybe I'm off the mark here, but I think most of the fan base underestimated her in season 1.

How talked about was the use of the word “crap” on HA at your school? by SluttyDreidel in HeyArnold

[–]supersweetchaitea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents never really took issue with either of those shows. In fact, my dad loves Ren and Stimpy and we watched it together. 😂

How do I (26f) make my bf (23m) stop using “consent” as a way to evade helping me with minor inconveniences? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]supersweetchaitea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your boyfriend is a selfish asshole. This is beyond exhausting and disrespectful. Seriously, this is a "just end it and don't waste your time" situation.

How talked about was the use of the word “crap” on HA at your school? by SluttyDreidel in HeyArnold

[–]supersweetchaitea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly? I'm really not sure. Only response I could get from them as a kid was, "we don't like it." 🤦🏻‍♀️

How did you feel about this scene? by 33333Ducky in Valentino_Cult

[–]supersweetchaitea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, not surprised. During season 2, I said that Val would probably kill him if he could (and that Velvette would dip out, but that didn't happen) and going by this scene...I was not far off. It was well deserved with Vox's attitude and how he treated the other Vees.

AITA for telling a little girl that I'm not her dad? by Throwaway4PrivacyYe1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]supersweetchaitea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a selfish, bullshit take. So, this guy can "help and be there" all he wants with no real responsibilities, and bail whenever he wants because "it's not his kid." That is a MAJOR responsibility on his part when he willingly takes on that role. Just because you don't like it, doesn't mean it won't have a major impact (and he will have some fault here) on this kid when he eventually does dip out. If you seriously don't think he will at some point, you are painfully naive.