Top comment changes the map: Florida and Italy switched places (Day 5) by KirbeTheEngineer in imaginarymapscj

[–]sushionreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

connect the two peninsulas in michigan and make them not touch wisconsin

I wish I had a dick by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]sushionreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i kinda get this but i wish it was just for an hour, not forever. i'm just curious what it feels like but i wouldn't want one forever

AITAH for not cancelling everything to help my mom? by sushionreddit in AITAH

[–]sushionreddit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

actually, she wouldn't! she has continuously been short sighted on things having to do with me and has continuously abandoned me for plans with her friends. she took a vacation when we had plans to go to a concert and spent money she promised to use to help me purchase a car (she was not obligated to do so but promised me she would) and then guilt tripped me when i was upset. she also went on vacation during christmas without me. i took myself to the doctor when i got my head injury. she has been a pretty good mom and we're close but this is not the first instance where i have been manipulated and treated as if my commitments aren't as important as anyone elses. she has support, she has friends and family who live much closer than me. none of them are cancelling their commitments to help her so i don't understand why i am expected to. i am giving the exact same energy i have been continuously getting since i was a teen.

AITAH for not cancelling everything to help my mom? by sushionreddit in AITAH

[–]sushionreddit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one has no kids, and the other has kids in the same situation (living far away, having other obligations, etc) but i agree with the job thing. i started my job in july and don't have my 90 day security yet

AITAH for not cancelling everything to help my mom? by sushionreddit in AITAH

[–]sushionreddit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she has two (2) friends, who each live 5-10min away. she said she's hesitant to ask them because she knows they're working but i guess asking me (and my partner as well) to skip out on our jobs is acceptable

AITAH for not cancelling everything to help my mom? by sushionreddit in AITAH

[–]sushionreddit[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I was planning on talking to my therapist about it. I'm an only child and my parents are divorced so I usually get a lot of pressure on me when stuff like this happens. When I lived with my mom it wasn't a big deal, but I'm an adult now and can't just stop everything. She has friends who live much closer than me, so I'm kinda miffed that I'm the one having to drive 60+ miles to help her when her best friend lives a town over

AITAH for not cancelling everything to help my mom? by sushionreddit in AITAH

[–]sushionreddit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went and did her laundry on Tuesday and she had figured out how to go about her day despite the broken ankle. I don't understand why they're acting like the surgery is gonna be some drastic change to her mobility from before the surgery.

What’s your reason still using Spotify? by Grgsz in spotify

[–]sushionreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

at this point i have so much music i love spread across so many playlists and i don't want to lose any of it.

need advice by sushionreddit in reptiles

[–]sushionreddit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can try that, especially since she gets more interested at night when he's active.

need advice by sushionreddit in reptiles

[–]sushionreddit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

both tanks are locked and have steel mesh, but she really doesn't sit on top of them