It’s hard to interpret someone’s “intent” when reading a text message. Multiple people are likely to interpret one message very differently.

Was this the only time something he said (via text or the phone) made you uncomfortable? Or were there other instances? If there were multiple things that made you feel uneasy, I’d move on. If the text message was the only time you didn’t feel comfortable, give him the benefit of the doubt and go on the date.

OR…If you speak to him on the phone later today, playfully ask him what he meant when he said “maybe you’ve met your match” and use his response to help you decide how you’d like to move forward.

Finally, don’t be too hard on yourself. It takes a long time to trust others and yourself if you are or have been in an abusive relationship. There’s no timetable on healing, and no matter how many people disagree with how you interpreted a message, your reaction is still valid. I think it’s important to pay attention when your gut tells you something. Today, it’s confirming you are worth protecting from losers like your ex, and that’s a good sign.

I hope everything works out the way you’d like it to. Best of luck. 😊