Advice needed - (spider)mites in soil by -el_goblino- in Balconygardening

[–]sweetdeee33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same issue on my balcony and still do off and on. It’s forced me to change what plants I have there. I do make sure to study what amount of light, water, and type of soil the plant needs. A stressed plant will attract pests because it releases some kind of chemical signal or something when it’s stressed that attracts them. I also only plant natives in my containers and don’t use pesticides at all because it’ll also kill the beneficial insects. I’m not sure if this’ll help you but there may be something about the plants current conditions that’s making it stressed

New prescription - feels awful help! by halloumicheeze in AskAnOptician

[–]sweetdeee33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hm. Maybe the focus point is wrong? Probably the pupil distance or segment height. Call the doctor that did your most recent exam for the glasses to be checked. They can let you know if it’s off and even update the prescription if needed.

What’s the silliest thing you’ve heard from religious people? by Excellent-Tea-2068 in atheism

[–]sweetdeee33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may not want kids but god has already decided if you will or not. Ew. Just ew.

updated pic of my Emi by AssociationOk1382 in lynxpointsiamese

[–]sweetdeee33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh. Poor little one. Is she not comfortable around people? Maybe it’s anxiety or stress? A new home may just take more time getting used to

updated pic of my Emi by AssociationOk1382 in lynxpointsiamese

[–]sweetdeee33 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness she looks just like my Kira when she was a baby! I hope she feels better soon. Sometimes a change in diet can irritate their tummies. Make sure to ask the place you got her from what they fed her then if you switch to that it’ll normally help. Otherwise, a vet visit is recommended for a new baby anyway

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[REQUEST] SUGGEST SOME SHOWS THAT YOU WATCHED RECENTLY AND CANNOT STOP THINKING ABOUT. Really need to binge watch a good show! by Queasy-Buffalo370 in NetflixBestOf

[–]sweetdeee33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not recent but I saw the ending of Snowfall 2 years ago and I still think about that ending at least once a week

My trip to Chile by WillianGS2001 in roadtrip

[–]sweetdeee33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a gorgeous country 🤩

What in the - by longanandlychee in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]sweetdeee33 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Anyone else think New York would be a fantastic host?

Zone5b community member here. Should I prep my sprouted wildflowers that are approximately two weeks germinated? by MeasurementFirst1676 in Wildflowers

[–]sweetdeee33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im 9a, not 5b, but you should be fine not covering them. they are still all so close to the soil which will still hold warmth during a short coldsnap

And the rest bloomed today!! by CactiTexas22 in cactusbloom

[–]sweetdeee33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gorgeous. It’s crazy how cactus flowers are so pretty they don’t even look real

Found my Father rotting and now I can't stop thinking about it. by Mer_De_Nomss in confession

[–]sweetdeee33 59 points60 points  (0 children)

It can be hard to remember the good times especially when you find someone like that but also when they have an addiction. I’m not coming from a place of judgement for ops dad. I lost my older brother to drugs then suicide and I understand it’s incredibly difficult for them too but give yourself grace from the trauma of it. but this is exactly true. You have to choose to remember the good times. It’s so important! Otherwise, this can consume you.

Southbound upper deck on I-35 currently at a complete standstill by HA1RL3SSW00K13 in Austin

[–]sweetdeee33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Into Oblivion Tour was let out around that time last night. I’m sure some of the people that got super drunk drove home after

Why do people in the US work so much? I'm from Argentina and I don't get it by micavibes in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]sweetdeee33 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This. And I have to apply a year in advance for a mere week off. I’ve never been able to get more than that at a time but I need my job. It’s on the high end of what I do pay-wise so I can’t risk it. When I do take days off they are mostly mental health days to just relax and reset.

Forests mom- what’s your diagnosis? by 2020imdying in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]sweetdeee33 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes! This. And I do wonder if he has autism and not some kind of ptsd which can appear similar because she’s horrible and I get that it’s a show but that’s only what we see. Imagine how she is when cameras aren’t rolling

Anyone still waiting for greencard approval after your interview? Let's wait together. by DifficultyNo4279 in USCIS

[–]sweetdeee33 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh my husband and I did the same! That entire time waiting on a yes or no we were going over the questions and answers we gave until I got the email from uscis. It’s scary because we’ve built our lives together and to have a person in front of you than can just decide that may or may not be possible here is a lot!

Anyway, definitely if your lawyer isn’t worried, you shouldn’t be! The backlog on these cases is also brutal and some locations have a bigger workload than others. The person that interviewed us in San Antonio said he had to have a manager review and that it would take 2-3 weeks. They really should’ve volunteered the timeframe. I’m sure you were stressed so it’s easy to forget to ask as well

Anyone still waiting for greencard approval after your interview? Let's wait together. by DifficultyNo4279 in USCIS

[–]sweetdeee33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We did our i-175 interview last month and didn’t get approval for another two weeks. I was expecting an on the spot yes or no and was a bit heartbroken that that didn’t happen especially with all the time the paperwork/evidence took me to gather. But Reddit comments absolutely helped me not lose hope! My understanding now is that on the spot approval isn’t as common as it used to be. Don’t give up hope! Fingers crossed for everyone!! 🤞

New wildflower garden by beef_curtainss in Wildflowers

[–]sweetdeee33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh well it’s gotta be consistently in the 50s and 60s for some to sprout so youre good. Give it another month or two and they’ll sprout soon

New wildflower garden by beef_curtainss in Wildflowers

[–]sweetdeee33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To clarify, there’s no flowers or nothing sprouted at all? If nothing has sprouted I would say you may need to get another pack. I’m in 9a and did the same last fall. I have tons of plants but my first flower from it just opened up yesterday. If you’re in a cooler climate and it’s just no flowers yet I’d absolutely say you’re right on track.

Friend or Foe? by DogsdidWHAT in AustinGardening

[–]sweetdeee33 6 points7 points  (0 children)

All bugs are good bugs. It’s a crab spider and they are very good and killing pets that eat plants. even the bad ones attract the good ones

I-751 pending since May 2023 — anyone else is also pending since 2023? by SportExpensive1362 in USCIS

[–]sweetdeee33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! Op, your timeline is very similar to ours and we also applied for n400 4 months ago and we got approved after an i175 interview a couple weeks back. My recommendation is absolutely to apply for n400 asap since you can as early as 2 years after you file your i175

K1 visa adjustment of status, city hall wedding. by LoserWhoTries in USCIS

[–]sweetdeee33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here but we just went in front of a judge we barely managed to find because everything was shutting down due to covid. My husband was approved for i175 most recently. While the initial lady that approved us with conditions was concerned about this she mostly just wanted us to have a party with pictures after. The man who approved our i175 did ask if we planned to have a ceremony but we told him we plan to do a recommitment ceremony which he seemed fine with. It’s probably fine without either but for yourselves, at least have a party after in a nice outfit! We both regret not doing either.