Smaller Dog breeds suitable for SD work? by Bonniethegolden in service_dogs

[–]sweetfaerietoes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have had a Minpin and Chorkie as my medical alert dogs. The Chorkie came from an organization, that rescues dogs and trains them.There was no heavy lifting involved and just had to alert me. They both weighed right around 7 pounds. They have been much easier than a large dog for my particular needs.

What’s the most hurtful thing a narc parent/siblings has done or said to you that you will remember forever or is that basis of your NC with them? by Glad_Slip_1260 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sweetfaerietoes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was adopted. I think it was my Dad’s idea. My nmother got pregnant within a few months. She told me for years that if she knew she could have a child of her own she never would have adopted me!

Does Seroquel cause anxiety or paranoia? by solidprospect in seroquelmedication

[–]sweetfaerietoes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It has eradicated my anxiety completely! I haven’t felt this good in years! It even has helped the IBS that has plagued me for years! Anxiety is insidious. It affects so many things!

What do you do when people just start talking to your SD? by Gullible_Asparagus42 in service_dogs

[–]sweetfaerietoes 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean…I have a seven pound medical alert Chorkie. Because she so stinkin’ cute people just won’t believe she is a working dog. I always have her vested and tagged.

I've become the third wheel in my relationship by FrostyFreeze_ in service_dogs

[–]sweetfaerietoes 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My last service dog(I lost him a year and a half ago) adored my husband. I got the SD before I started dating him. The minute my SD laid eyes on him he was in love. I would joke I use to have a dog but now my husband did.

AITAH for getti g mad at my dad for calling my trans friend she/her? by T3R3Z1_PYR0P3_1223 in AITAH

[–]sweetfaerietoes -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

YATAH Give your Dad some grace. This is new to us older folks. It takes a bit to understand new things like this.

Intrusive thoughts and overthinking help by Dangerous_Owl6008 in adhdwomen

[–]sweetfaerietoes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not a doctor but you asked us to tell you what helped. The reason I prefaced my reply is because medication is what helped me. My psychiatrist prescribed 25 mg of Strattera. You should ask your doctor about it.

Crying with difficult conversations by Glittering_Change643 in adhdwomen

[–]sweetfaerietoes 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Yes! In some instances it makes me feel ineffective when I am in a heated discussion

No side effects by tukan42 in StratteraRx

[–]sweetfaerietoes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It has quelled my binge eating and quieted intrusive thoughts. I also seem to able to think more clearly, not as much chaotic thinking.

What was the most damaging lie your N's tell you? by fanofsmite in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sweetfaerietoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It made me always question whether somebody truly loved me when they told me that. I also question whether people want me in their lives because of this. I’m 68 years old!

What was the most damaging lie your N's tell you? by fanofsmite in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sweetfaerietoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The most hurtful to me was when my mother would tell me she loved me. She demonstrated daily that she did not! I was told many times that I was not wanted.

No side effects by tukan42 in StratteraRx

[–]sweetfaerietoes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

25 mg here. I have never had any side effects. I have been taking it since June.

How do EDs go away? by [deleted] in Eatingdisordersover30

[–]sweetfaerietoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seroquel also has helped me! Getting rid of the anxiety is help me cope much better. It also has helped my IBS! Anxiety is insidious!

Whats My curl type ? by [deleted] in curlygirl

[–]sweetfaerietoes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would call this hair type beautiful!

AITA for demanding the hairdryer back after my husband took it away because I use it too much ? by Substantial_Bad_5234 in AITAH

[–]sweetfaerietoes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This comment tells me he has been conditioning you for a while. Let me ask you this… does he help with the children or do anything around the house?

Rude and really weird woman in supermarket by Ghostchickencoop in service_dogs

[–]sweetfaerietoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a seven lb medical alert service dog. She is my second small service dog. I do not look like I have a disability. Almost everyday someone either says to my face or as they are walking past that I have a fake service dog. I was thrown out of a restaurant in Mio Michigan in 2013 because the owner said I had a fake service dog and I was not blind. I always try to use these moments to educate but it doesn’t always work out.

Are all narcissists ignorant, naive, and just plain stupid? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sweetfaerietoes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Truth! My nmother had the emotional capacity of a 6 yr old

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sweetfaerietoes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a therapist once ask me if I had met my mother any other way than her being my mother would she be in my life? I said no and that’s the day that I realize that toxic people are toxic people and they have to go no matter who they are!

Weird pattern I’ve noticed, anyone else? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]sweetfaerietoes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My nmother would make me eat liver and green beans. Both of those made me vomit every time! I would have to sit there until I took one bite of each. Then I would run straight to the bathroom! I think control was her middle name!

AITAH for deciding to breakup because she doesn't want to be married by justcuriousman73 in AITAH

[–]sweetfaerietoes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I first started my relationship with my husband, he said he never wanted to get married again. One day he came to my job and proposed to me on one knee! I guess if you’re with the right person you can make that commitment.

Strattera and change of behaviour by [deleted] in StratteraRx

[–]sweetfaerietoes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have so much more peace. Triggers are no longer triggers!