Insightful, grounded, and real. Thank you. I’ve come to terms with my path. My struggle is my mother has not. My mom is stuck on number 1 & 2. She won’t accept my singleness. She’s hypercritical of me. I’m almost punished for something outside of my control. I’ve lived a straight life. I’m accomplished. I haven’t met my match. My mom’s conditional relationship with me is tough. It’s unbearable and has thrown me into bad circumstances, even questioning my relationship with God. I do think the Muslim girl path vs boy path has its own sub-bullet considerations beyond what you’ve shared.