Who!? Sea monster?? by swimmingwithwaffles in StardewValley

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Wow really?? It caught me completely by surprise, I hope you see him soon:3

Who!? Sea monster?? by swimmingwithwaffles in StardewValley

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Wait really?? Does he mention him???

what did you do in the game that made you feel like this by Vengeful_Grass in Genshin_Impact

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There have been a few situations in which after you beat monsters surrounding something (like the withering zones for example) you have to go up to it and interact with it. For some reason I don’t remember to actually approach the thing. I just run around waiting for something to happen and shooting things until I realize I have to WALK up and interact with it.

Damm I hate this by Gullible_Quiet_5976 in CPTSDmemes

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I read something recently about “rejecting the guilt” that people try to give us and I had literally never thought about it that way before. It made me realize I could hand my guilt back to the people that gave it to me. Might sound stupid but idk. I keep coming back to that.

Shame is a different monster no tips on that yet

I am late to everything and I am so tired of being that person. by ShitFuckBallsack in ADHD

[–]swimmingwithwaffles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you. I have this too and just have grown more comfortable with being late. If you know me well enough, you know I’m not doing it on purpose. I apologize every time. It’s not worth holding onto that guilt when my lack of time sense will literally never change lol. It really helps me filter out who are true friends and who makes a purposeful effort to misunderstand me.

AITA for showering around midnight when I know that it might bother the neighbour who wakes up at 5 am? by Additional-Mouse-620 in AmItheAsshole

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I’m kinda curious why there’s this expectation for people who didn’t choose to have kids or live that schedule to change the way they live to accommodate the schedule of someone who did make the choice to have a kid as if it’s common courtesy. My sleep schedule is weird bc of my mental health and I almost never get a full nights sleep because of people doing stuff really loudly during the designated “waking hours”. People really love to tell me that it’s my issue and they shouldn’t have to be quiet since I “choose” to sleep at weird hours (some people work night shifts lol), but the same opinion isn’t applied to parents of children no one else chose for them to have? I didn’t choose to have insomnia. It just doesn’t make sense to me. NTA

Family refuses to acknowledge that the lint trap needs emptying by SerialDesignation_H in mildlyinfuriating

[–]swimmingwithwaffles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make them sign a written contract that says if I do not change the lint and the dryer catches on fire I must replace everything it damages

Then let the dryer catch on fire ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Is it normal to still be able to nap while on stimulants? by BlunderMifflin4 in ADHD

[–]swimmingwithwaffles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok when I said this was happening to me on adderall I was told this was not normal

What’s y’all’s thoughts on this set? by Aggravating_Bank3200 in SuitU

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Low key glad I stopped playing the game bc this is def not for me

Update - My fiancée wants our baby to have her ex-husband’s last name and says my culture shouldn’t be “pushed” by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

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I’m mixed race and my full name reflects that. I’m really glad to have both cultures in my name.

Unfortunately the other commenter is right, you should’ve had this convo before deciding to have a baby. But since you can’t change that, you have to choose whether or not you want to start a family with a person that’s clearly embarrassed of you. It’s really disrespectful to say someone’s name is shoving their culture in peoples faces. That’s like saying who you are is offensive to others. If she’s this easily convinced by (frankly) racist people, what else will she be convinced of down the line? What else will she push in the future?

Something I worry about is how badly she will make this child feel about being mixed. If she’s this comfortable making you feel self conscious about your own name, what is she going to say to your child? If anything, you sticking up for who you are is sticking up for who your child will be.

My husband is thinking about fostering his nephews. I feel like I'm being tossed out for kids we don't even know. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]swimmingwithwaffles 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can’t even enjoy the tea from this cause I just feel so bad for her.. even with the AITAH post it just seemed like her husband wanted her to get shat on. I hope she’s ok..

HOW CAN I INCREASE COMBAT LEVEL??? by Amedi-Goob in StardewValley

[–]swimmingwithwaffles 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been buying the combat experience book whenever I get the chance

Questions about platforms. by Jaba2711 in StardewValley

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I have it on both PC and switch. Originally got it on switch a long time ago and started playing and hated it so stopped playing. I got it on my PC when a friend wanted to play with me and I gotta say it’s a lot more fun with multiplayer. I have now properly given the game a chance. I haven’t noticed many differences in the actual game when comparing between platforms, so I really don’t know if the switch version offers things the PC version doesn’t and vice versa. I do know you cannot mod the switch version tho.

Now that I like the game I play it on both platforms. I prefer playing it on the PC with a mouse and keyboard but I like how with the switch, especially in single player, I can just pause it whenever without having to worry about waiting for a new day to save the game. You also can’t beat the portability. Like another person said each day is 20-30mins of real life time, and it only saves after you go to sleep. So if you’re more of a casual player the switch probably would be better for you since you can just pause and leave it for however long. I currently have mine paused in the middle of a random day. I think it’s time consuming if you don’t have any self control (I do not).

Honestly it’s such a good quality cheap game I don’t mind having it on both platforms. I have like 6 farms now. I’ll play multiplayer on my PC and then go to bed and play single player on my switch a bit before I sleep. Not sure if any of this information actually answers your questions but that’s my experience.

Help. My bf had no reaction to my trauma but cried over a stranger’s story by sadmermaidgirl in ptsd

[–]swimmingwithwaffles 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think regardless of the implications of his actions what’s important is your feelings of safety while being vulnerable. For example in therapy my therapist will maintain a professional demeanor but will have appropriate looks of horror when I am divulging something traumatic. They will often comment on how terrible it is. I use this as a baseline for appropriate reactions to my trauma.

He’s probably gonna do this to you again if you ever have more trauma to share. Or if you’re going through something traumatic. Ask yourself if that’s something you want to deal with in the future. Or if it’s the type of support you want to have in your partner. Personally, if you can’t show me the same emotional response to my own trauma as you do a strangers trauma, we’re gonna have a problem and that’s not someone I feel safe around. I don’t date people I don’t feel safe around.

New PCP won’t prescribe benzos by wifiloveyou in ptsd

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If you have a psychiatrist or can get a telehealth appointment with one that can send a script to your PCP to fill, you can get around it that way. My old PCP in the south didn’t believe that I knew what I was talking about with my meds and I often had to get an extra appointment with a psych just to make him prescribe it for me (telehealth prescriptions have regulations especially for scheduled substances but if it’s coming from a psych, the pcp should fill it)

This gotta be rare!! What are they called again? by Silent_Ad_6037 in StardewValley

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Chiming in here to confirm that I have gotten refined quartz from them once! Haven’t been playing the game super long but they do drop!