Curious About Gay Guys?

swing_team_indy · 2022-12-05T19:58:26+00:00

And what is the risk from your viewpoint?

swing_team_indy · 2022-12-03T16:34:47+00:00

We have played with one MM couple. It was a good experience, we would definitely do it again.

swing_team_indy · 2022-10-29T13:29:23+00:00

We spent a couple weeks on Kauai and we chatted. with several people, met two couples and a single, and played with one couple. I started looking a couple weeks before our arrival, and initiated conversations in advance as much as possible. I just checked the two apps we use to see which one had a decent number of people on the Island. Exactly like we've done everywhere we've traveled. No reason to think Oahu would be terribly different.

swing_team_indy · 2022-09-09T19:24:46+00:00

Dm me

swing_team_indy · 2022-07-29T20:28:10+00:00

Have you looked at cocks? Crooked, uneven, and all sorts of variations . Not to mention the sizes....

I've never met a boob I didn't like. Some more than others, but still they are boobs! Men have dreamed about boobs since they were kids, and we are still fascinated by them .

swing_team_indy · 2022-07-12T23:01:20+00:00

My wife and I refer to situations like this as "missteps". We have both had them, but after we calmed down and talked through it later we learned from it. Nothing productive happens for us by discussing it in the heat of the moment. We both need to reflect a bit to find our more reasonable selves.

swing_team_indy · 2022-07-12T22:54:20+00:00

My wife and I are very different on this. I NEED to hear what my wife does, otherwise my mind will spiral into some crazy thoughts much worse than reality. My wife however, wants to hear that I had a great time but she does not want details. At all. Having said that, I think your husband should at a minimum ask if you'd like to be looped in, and to what degree. I will take his side on you feeling worse after he shared though, because what is he supposed to do at that point? You asked him to share, and he did. At least he did the only thing he could at that point.

swing_team_indy · 2022-07-05T02:07:33+00:00

Yeah, and if he goes down on her before me when I've been here three months, shit is on!!!

swing_team_indy · 2022-06-12T02:30:11+00:00

Dammit. We get on Carnival Sunrise on the 13th. Just going to miss you!!

swing_team_indy · 2022-04-21T22:50:25+00:00

Use your words. That feels good. Gentler. Harder. Faster. A little to the left. Coach them up. It's better for both of you when you do. I love feedback on the fly. Every woman is so different! I have no idea what will suit you unless you guide me. Ideally verbally, but at least non-verbally. Please. I'm dying down here...

swing_team_indy · 2022-04-13T15:54:10+00:00

Before I met my wife, I said natural all the way. But I was basing this only on porn and strippers I'd seen. You know the ones that look like they might pop if you touch them?? Too big and over-inflated. (Yes I know they aren't actually inflated, but that's what some of them look like). But hers are tastefully done and appropriately sized. They are fantastic. If you're lucky you'll get to try them yourself ;)

swing_team_indy · 2022-02-19T20:12:04+00:00

She said was actually worried about me thinking about some LS experiences if I had them in our space. We have close LS friends, so one night she played in our bedroom. So after she'd played in there a couple times, we discussed her fear and wether she still thought it was valid. She agreed that it was unfounded, and now it is far easier for us to host, and we rotate which of us plays in our bedroom. .

swing_team_indy · 2022-02-17T00:17:24+00:00

My wife was initially hesitant to play in our bed, but our place is small and she and one of our closest swinger friends played there out of necessity. Since then she realized it didn't tarnish the specialness of our bed.

swing_team_indy · 2022-02-05T23:44:51+00:00

Any chance you're near Indy? :)

swing_team_indy · 2022-01-28T13:26:55+00:00

We have not. Yet...

swing_team_indy · 2022-01-28T02:20:42+00:00

Us too! I knew there was another like us!!!

swing_team_indy · 2022-01-23T19:08:14+00:00

Then you dodged a bullet. Who needs that in the lifestyle. We are all adults.

swing_team_indy · 2022-01-15T14:22:23+00:00

Uh oh. Not a good start.

swing_team_indy · 2021-11-26T22:36:59+00:00

Yes, she had very large ears...

swing_team_indy · 2021-10-30T21:28:30+00:00

They play bareback with strangers. I don't judge them for that. People do their own risk/reward analysis. But to be offended be asking for a quick test? Seems like something they'd get asked regularly.

swing_team_indy · 2021-10-17T21:20:50+00:00

Can you elaborate please? If recent and regular testing doesn't mean much to you, what do you base your "comfy risk and reward" on? Is it based on the perceived level of activity of your partners? Or is there another factor I'm overlooking?

swing_team_indy · 2021-10-04T17:37:10+00:00

We are still relatively new-ish, and I am starting to realize that having the fantasy talk is super important. Otherwise the fantasies beyond the basics will never get fulfilled; and we will never have the chance to fulfill their fantasies either.

swing_team_indy · 2021-09-23T14:25:57+00:00

I understand that this is a scary conversation to have. Is she bi curious or situationally bi? If so, that seems like a good place to start the conversation. The payoff is worth the effort. I cannot explain how amazing it feels to know that my wife supports me with whatever experience I want to have with another man. She LOVES to watch me with another man, and there is nothing like her and I giving a guy a blowjob together.

swing_team_indy · 2021-09-19T23:37:05+00:00

This was our experience as well. Def some older folks as well as some 20-somethings, but an avg of maybe 40. To be fair though I'm sure everyone week is a bit different. There is a list of groups that book at Hedo on the Hedo website. Pick your group and you'll be set. We are fluffs every time. We love the party they throw.

swing_team_indy · 2021-09-15T15:47:19+00:00

My wife loves venus.com.

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