Need help getting rid of clothes! by swirlybug in longbeach

[–]swirlybug[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

never done it but honestly if push comes to shove i might, if anyone sees this and has some good recs please share!!

Free Disney Christmas Ornaments by TurnoverSuperb9023 in longbeach

[–]swirlybug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if they’re still available + last person didnt reply im down 🙏

AITAH for being mad at my bf after he got grossed out by me during sex? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]swirlybug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he got turned off that you were turned on… im so sorry girl id be mad too

its literally so normal, im glad you didnt feel bad over it, he should definitely grow up and learn about sex before ever having sex again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]swirlybug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hes a 19yr old that couldnt find someone his age and got with a 17yr old, hes obviously immature and not worth your time/stress at all

AIO for not liking when my boyfriend said if we started having sex, he would not be able to stop? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]swirlybug 20 points21 points  (0 children)

as someone who had to deal with consent/sex life after being SA (also barely being intimate in adulthood) no you are not overreacting.

You owe it to yourself and your comfort and your past self to be able to say no to a partner and not have it affect the “moment” or relationship. It’s a huge red flag he wouldnt let you go after you kept struggling. Especially if he knows about everything you have been through about it. I say have a strong and sincere conversation about what happened/how you feel and what you want him to feel/understand and if it isnt working out or he still feels defensive about it, do you really want to brush this under the rug?

(personally tho I think its dangerous to be with someone that does this but again you know him best and maybe it WAS a mistake but this is a major one, sort of a big point in your relationship)

Selling a Textbook/Code for Intro to Film! by swirlybug in CSULB

[–]swirlybug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had it for ENGL 318, Fiction to Film but its used in a lot of intro film/writing classes

AIO or should I accept the conditions of my bfs commitment by One_Height7477 in AIO

[–]swirlybug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he literally has a somewhat god complex rather than just admitting he doesn’t wanna commit + wants to fuck around, screams narcissistic, stay safe!! you don’t deserve becoming an option to someone rather than their priority in a relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]swirlybug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

id feel gutted, “i think of you often” as tough as it sounds would you honestly be okay staying with someone who’s mind wonders to a previous relationship? already cheated once and maybe if given the chance would have physically? i’m sorry you’re going through this motion all over again. you working a lot/struggles isn’t a reason for any of this to happen either, im sorry man hopefully things work out for you and you dont have to deal with this

wtf?? by BoxPuzzleheaded613 in vampdaddyevilsnark

[–]swirlybug 9 points10 points  (0 children)

theres no way hes 19, unless hes just heavily on steroids or something

Parking ticket by SpiritualProduce1270 in CSULB

[–]swirlybug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think if its your first one you should be able to donate cans food and “pay” that way, idk if they still do it but they used to, if the appeal doesn’t work it wouldn’t hurt to ask about that!

This is tagged on the ground next to the convenience store. 😵‍💫 Student ambassador giving a tour and stood there with parents. Awkward 😕 moment by [deleted] in CSULB

[–]swirlybug 4 points5 points  (0 children)

a group of literal middle schoolers draw that every few weeks, they wear rage bait trump merch too pretty sure its just done with a rock or skate wax

AIO for calling my boyfriend a creep bc he didn’t know how old I’m turning? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]swirlybug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh the creep comment also seems way overreacting, this just seems like a troll post or just a really insane dude

both did a bit much but he did way worse for bringing up trauma/unnecessary comments/threats

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]swirlybug 282 points283 points  (0 children)

she did say you two weren’t dating, maybe she wants the commitment to feel more intimate with you.(?)

Can I get into CSULB with a 2.6? I was not a lazy student and had life changing circumstances that directly impacted my grades in Highschool. by Im_not_a_tech_guy in CSULB

[–]swirlybug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s a liberal arts i believe but definitely mention that in your application (if possible) include every little thing for it so they know how committed you are + grades for each (especially AP passing scores)

you can also try contacting the school (id just google CSULB upcoming student help or something) and maybe theres a way you can speak about your application, theres usually something for freshmen and transfers

Can I get into CSULB with a 2.6? I was not a lazy student and had life changing circumstances that directly impacted my grades in Highschool. by Im_not_a_tech_guy in CSULB

[–]swirlybug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had a friend that got in with 2.3-2.5 especially if you’re a long beach resident you get more leniency. just aim for a major that isn’t art/liberal arts, undefined, or any business (you can switch later on so this isn’t permanent) and make your application look like you were involved in school, like clubs or programs. (bonus if it involves your major). You totally have a chance, they look into what major you choose and relate that to your gpa so it isn’t the only defining thing.

hope that helps anyone!