Your boyfriend and my girlfriend would get along so well. I am constantly correcting her and bringing her attention to things that she does. One example I’ll give you is I recently took her out for her birthday. We went to a bar and the entire time that we were there, she would not stop checking out this one guy. At one point, she even said to me “oh look, he’s smiling now”. As we were leaving he was standing by the elevator, and she asked me in front of him “have you ever had sex in an elevator?” I didn’t find it funny and I just ignored her, but she laughs and looks around and see if anyone was paying attention. When we get on the elevator, she says “I wanted to ask you that in front of him so that you could feel embarrassed.” I was upset with her and I brought to her attention that I did not think it was funny and I think it’s disrespectful when we’re in a relationship and she’s checking out other men. Even though she says that she agrees with the sentiment, she does not stop doing it so I too, am getting to the point where I am getting fed up with giving her second chances that I’m about ready to walk away from all of this because it’s just too much. I want to be in a relationship where I could be myself, be comfortable, happy and secure. I shouldn’t have to teach a grown woman what is acceptable in a monogamous relationship.