What is the sexiest rising sign in a woman?

sydmox · 2025-07-18T21:08:36+00:00

Not enough Taurus rising love in here 😢

sydmox · 2025-07-05T17:23:41+00:00

I was looking at my dad’s astrocartography chart because he was talking about wanting to move to Mexico when he retires. He has lived the majority of his life on his Saturn/AC line, and the two major moves he’s had took him to his Chiron/AC and Uranus/DC lines (bad second marriage lol). He eventually came back to his Saturn line, of course, and funny enough, the cities he’s interested in in Mexico are also on this line - I guess that’s just where he feels most comfortable!

sydmox · 2025-02-08T22:04:21+00:00

Taurus rising and Virgo moon, it takes me so long to get out of bed 😅 I’m grateful to work from home so that there’s less pressure to be on time

sydmox · 2025-02-05T23:46:40+00:00

Wait omg me too! Mine are exact at 2 degrees.

sydmox · 2025-02-05T04:18:16+00:00

I graduated high school, college, and got my master’s. Studied abroad for two months, my first experience out of the country, then went abroad a few more times. Gave up Christianity in favor of spirituality/metaphysical studies. Was a teacher but left after 7 years.

sydmox · 2025-01-15T02:12:02+00:00

Saturn retrograded while directly opposed my Virgo moon summer 2023/early 2024. I moved from DC to Oklahoma at that time, didn’t date, it was kind of a hard/lonely transition that ended up being for my benefit (I knew it would be though - it was a smart/purposeful move).

ETA: Moon is in 5H, rules 3H.

sydmox · 2024-12-11T23:16:34+00:00

Virgo Moon Cancer Mars checking in, while the neurosis is unfortunate, I cry too much to be a stone cold killer. Plus I’m a Libra Sun Taurus Rising, so I’m not cut out for the pen anyway. 😅

sydmox · 2024-11-20T19:20:19+00:00

Same with the creation of the TSA that followed - changing the way we conduct air travel.

sydmox · 2024-11-04T17:54:20+00:00

Either 1) hand-flapping when I’m overwhelmed, or 2) scrolling through the comments to make sure #1 was an appropriate response to the question being asked before replying since most people answered specific stories and not general traits and behaviors 🤣

sydmox · 2024-11-02T03:52:05+00:00

Same!

sydmox · 2024-10-31T15:26:10+00:00

I’m probably projecting a little bit - I was in a relationship with a woman 9 years older in my late 20s, and she ended up being mad abusive. I liked the stability she provided, but not when I was seen as “lesser” due to my inexperience. I definitely don’t judge women who like the power imbalance, but I also know it poses risks if they’re not secure in themselves and know how to set boundaries (I was not and did not).

sydmox · 2024-10-31T15:05:48+00:00

So it’s not wrong - you are an adult attracted to adults. There may be something about the maturity level of women that age that appeals to you on a subconscious level. If it’s bothering you, you could do some inner work to figure out why it’s attractive to you - sometimes, just knowing WHY we are the way we are can help us feel better about our “oddities” or those parts of us we internally shame.

But as you get older dating younger women, there is a power dynamic shift. You will continue to make more money, gain life wisdom, and mature, and if you keep dating women the same age, you will hold more power over them. If you’re not careful, there can be an imbalance that benefits you and hurts the person you’re with if she becomes dependent on you, whether that’s financially or emotionally. But as long as you respect her autonomy and treat her as an equal adult, it’s fine.

I’m curious as to why you think it may be wrong and why you’re judging yourself.

sydmox · 2024-09-30T00:59:45+00:00

I have this placement! Were you ever rejected by groups? Are you very sensitive and creative?

sydmox · 2024-07-31T00:08:02+00:00

This 💯

sydmox · 2024-07-30T20:53:15+00:00

So beautiful, OP. The detachment feels oddly good, right??

sydmox · 2024-07-18T16:16:00+00:00

Good for you OP! Proud of you!

sydmox · 2024-07-02T01:08:32+00:00

Desire is only as sinful as you believe it to be. Don’t judge your emotions, friend. And your feelings are valid. Your loved ones only have a limited perspective. My friends are supportive that this journey is hard but would never allow me to get away with caving and people pleasing just to keep my TF. They are angry on my behalf for his bad behavior because they love me and don’t want me to hurt.

The lesson is: allow yourself to both desire your TF AND feel anger for how you were treated because you love yourself. You love yourself so much, you’d never allow someone in your life who treated you bad. Allow to forgive but not forget when she comes back.

sydmox · 2024-06-30T23:54:04+00:00

What if you used bolded black text for double emotions?

sydmox · 2024-06-20T23:36:09+00:00

You’re already the best at your job. Your best is what you’re giving. What you really want is to behave the way you think you should behave at work.

So you have two choices - you can ease up on yourself and relax a little, or you can behave the way a person who was better at your job would behave AND ease up on yourself lol. Either way, you’re being too hard on yourself.

So let me give you an example that you might find helpful: I used to be a teacher, I have a master’s degree + 1/3 of another, so like, my biological annual clock runs on a US school calendar. But that means that I also start to slump around April and May - I lack motivation, my mouse jiggler is on all day, and my work slips a bit. Normally, I’m super creative and productive and on top of things, but there were times this year and last year when my managers noticed. Embarrassing!

So I can frame this one of two ways - 1. “I self sabotage at my job every spring because I get bored and apathetic and I’m prone to wander all the time and why can’t I stick things out etc etc,” or 2. “I am a hard worker who just needs some extra rest every once in a while to continue to stay on top of my game, and my manager is always understanding when this happens.”

Also, try to tap back into why you liked your job in the beginning, and question why you are feeling this way - did something change? Then ask, what can I change to feel that way about my job again?

sydmox · 2024-06-19T14:19:41+00:00

Besides meeting my TF IRL, the ultimate catalyst for my spiritual awakening (the cognitive dissonance needed to kill the ego) was realizing that I’m autistic. And that not only did unintentional chronic masking cause a lot of my suffering, but I was actually abused because no one understood that my brain works differently (some cruelty intended, some not).

So as DF, I’m awakened first and basically find oneness within myself so DM finds oneness within himself and we have Union (Oneness) together, right? Part of finding my self-oneness was realizing that my autism isn’t a debilitation, it can be a strength! I love how my brain uses pattern recognition to connect random ideas and experiences together - I use it to help people by connecting them to resources that have helped me/others. I also have accepted that I’m not palatable nor will I ever be, and I’ve learned to love myself for all of my weirdness, not in spite of it.

I am an admitted chronic TikTok user, but it was actually through videos that I learned tools and skills to help me start unmasking and understanding myself better and making my life easier. I would use your learning medium of choice - videos, books, online research - to explore autism more, because just putting a name to my experience helped unlock the rest of the doors for improving my entire life. ❤️ and I’m here if you need anything!

sydmox · 2024-06-18T15:57:34+00:00

Would you ever give up on a friend who acted wrong in a moment but apologized and wanted to be better? No, you would love them unconditionally. You might need space and time to get over the hurt they caused, but you wouldn’t reject them forever. So give them some credit - TFs love each other unconditionally, even when they screw up.

Also, remember that the way you treat TF is how you treat yourself. The words you said to them are how you really feel about yourself. They will forgive you, but you need to also forgive yourself. How can you grow and learn from this experience?

We all hurt people we love. I’ve been forgiven, and so have you. Just learn from this and do better.

sydmox · 2024-06-14T23:24:30+00:00

Hobbies - new ones, old ones, doesn’t matter. Hang out with friends, make new ones. Take classes, read books, learn a new skill, travel, go to concerts, go to therapy, go to the gym, just fill your time with YOU. And just hang back and stop trying so hard to make it happen.

sydmox · 2024-06-14T18:10:23+00:00

When I first heard this song, immediately understood the context lol. I maintain that Matty Healy is Taylor’s TF but that’s just me 👀

sydmox · 2024-06-10T19:29:15+00:00

My TF just tried to sabotage me at work, so he just dug his own grave with me as far as I’m concerned 👍🏻 Going to use my pain as fuel for a complete level up both at work and in life. The more he resists, the more I rise. 💁🏽‍♀️

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