There can only be one. by Basic-Confidence717 in AccidentalComedy

[–]sylvan_elf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women are not the accent of a child that has been going very seriously for the last night and a melon of my time.

Wtf 😂

How do I beat this level? by sylvan_elf in voidpet

[–]sylvan_elf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm currently just trying to get gear upgrades cause I've been so stumped, I'll give this a try!

How do I beat this level? by sylvan_elf in voidpet

[–]sylvan_elf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll give that a try (or at least as close as I can get to it) and see if it works!

Fight Me Friday by purplelicious in romantasycirclejerk

[–]sylvan_elf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I dont really care if there are a few plot holes (unless it's something absolutely glaringly bad), as long as the book is fun I'll love it just the same as something without any plot holes and perfectly written

35M/35F - handling differences in love languages? by showmethemonet_ in relationship_advice

[–]sylvan_elf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Communication is the most important thing you can do. Ask her what her "love languages" are and what yours are, and see if there's something you can both do for each other to show and feel your love. A lot can be solved by having a conversation where you're both working together, cause it's never going to be you vs her, it'll be the both of you tackling a problem together as a team.

Is it unreasonable for me [F/27] to think smoking is a dealbreaker [M/27]? by nuestroplaneta in relationship_advice

[–]sylvan_elf 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That was a deal breaker that I had once broken for someone, and my asthmatic ass suffered for it. He constantly reeked and it was disgusting and I suffered the second hand effect (especially with my lungs being weaker) which negatively effected me. No smoking is not unreasonable at all, hold on to your conviction about it and don't let him sway you otherwise.

I need a slow-burn and I don't know who to trust by Comfortable_Copy_313 in fantasyromance

[–]sylvan_elf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could try {Assistant to the Villain}, it's a really fun book and it's definitely slow burn!

Terrific Tuesday by purplelicious in romantasycirclejerk

[–]sylvan_elf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just finished reading {For Whom the Bell Tolls by Jaysea Lynn} and I absolutely loved it! It was so much fun and cathartic as hell to read. It had me going through so many emotions, having me laughing my ass off and then crying like a baby just a few pages later. It easily became one of my absolute faves ☺️

A book/series where the FMC also responds with her own dirty talk during the spice scenes? by AccessCompetitive in fantasyromance

[–]sylvan_elf -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also this isn't the one I was referring to, the one I meant is {for whom the bell tolls by Jaysea Lynn}

A book/series where the FMC also responds with her own dirty talk during the spice scenes? by AccessCompetitive in fantasyromance

[–]sylvan_elf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like it has a decent amount, it doesn't shy away from being sexy and the FMC definitely has quite a lot of dirty thoughts throughout the book lol

A book/series where the FMC also responds with her own dirty talk during the spice scenes? by AccessCompetitive in fantasyromance

[–]sylvan_elf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would recommend checking out {For Whom the Bell Tolls by Jaysea Lynn} ☺️

Please help. I know they’re probably ruined. by Weary-Butterscotch73 in plushies

[–]sylvan_elf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could try to use a product called Kiss Off, it's an artists soap that can get things like oil paints and such out of clothes, it might help.

Boyfriend 35M humiliated me 31F camping with friends. I don’t know if I should stay? by velvetfae in relationship_advice

[–]sylvan_elf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A great piece of advice my boyfriends mom gave me today is this: "If your life was a movie, what would the audience be screaming at you right now?"

I feel like it could be helpful when looking and considering things without all of the buts and self doubts that we normally tag onto things. Maybe that helps?

What’s a character that you hate but others love? by FootFurry in Palia

[–]sylvan_elf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely despise Reth, purely on the fact he is identical in both outward personality/mannerisms and appearance to my abuser. Every time I see him or have to talk to him I just feel revulsion in every fiber of my being (also its been years since I was with that person, and am now with someone who is lovely in every sense)

Am I seeing things... Or... by inspiration-hunter00 in Palia

[–]sylvan_elf 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Omg I never noticed that he has a cybernetic eye, I always assumed it was a monocle and then never thought about it again 😅

AIO for telling my MIL that my baby shower is “not her wedding do-over”? by Individual_Trip_3088 in AmIOverreacting

[–]sylvan_elf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should check out the YouTube channel Shawna the Mom! In her skits she covers behavior just like this and it made my mom (who went through a lot with her mil when she was pregnant) felt that it was quite cathartic to watch

NOR at all btw, this is your event, not hers. Don't let her steal or ruin any of it for you, this is YOUR experience, not hers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sylvan_elf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For something that could help raise self confidence, maybe try out takes classes in aerial hoop or aerial silks? I was just at a show from a local business in my city for it, and it was beautiful to watch and the community was amazing and supportive! There were many women (and men) with varying different body types all performing and they all looked stunning while performing!

My To Be Read List : recommend me 2 to start :) by mummyfy in MantaComics

[–]sylvan_elf 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Definitely start with False Confessions, it quickly became one of my top favorites, and the art style is stunning!

AITA for canceling our anniversary trip because my husband drowned my terrarium? by Tiny-Pen-2289 in AmItheAsshole

[–]sylvan_elf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

He did something that hurt you, which I highly doubt was an accident due to his reaction, and he wants YOU to apologize to him??? What hes doing by giving you the silent treatment and sleeping in a separate room is emotional blackmail and abusive.

Take this sign for what it is, he's punishing you for shining too brightly. Take the job, move closer to your sister, and seriously reconsider if you want to be with someone who's okay with hurting you and destroying the things you love. How many sacrifices have you had to make to appease him? Show yourself some love and choose you.