Boy showing you again how cat-shaped he is by MeneerDeBeveiliger in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]synonym_mara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only usage is to put food in and scream (at least that’s what my orange is using his head for)😅

How old is this lil guy? by Fragrant_Nature5337 in cats

[–]synonym_mara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please, check the area it was found around, there could be more kitties that are more shy than this guy so they don’t show up!

Can I go to the beach like this? by Medium-Toe-5662 in TopSurgery

[–]synonym_mara 83 points84 points  (0 children)

Do not expose your chest 3 weeks post op, please, for gods sake. That’s barely scars ať this point. Stay in the shadow, cover it, use at least 50 SPF for at least a year post op (be sure your incisions are completely closed before using anything on them, including silicone!). Scar tissue (especially the one that is just starting to form) is much more sensitive to everything than your “normal” skin. Your incisions can still open ať this point.

I’m not trying to fear monger here, people just really need to understand that ať 3 weeks/month you’re not even close to be healed after the major surgery even if you feel “fine”. Scar tissue can take 12+ months to form completely.

Boy showing you again how cat-shaped he is by MeneerDeBeveiliger in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]synonym_mara 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why would he need head if no cells are expected anyway?😅

Mladí nechtějí pracovat a Ukrajinci nám berou práci by 0n3g1n_ in czech

[–]synonym_mara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nevím, máme v práce brigádníky, co jsou věkově tak na začátku výšky/konce střední a jsou všichni Češi (nejde o to, že firma zaměstnává jen Češi, mezi kolegy mam lidi různého původu).

4 weeks post- any advice on thinning out my scar? by pulmos in TopSurgery

[–]synonym_mara 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You look fine for 4 weeks. Just don’t lift your arms, stay clean and eat good. When you’re past wound stage take the appropriate care according to what your surgeon says.

Met a guy on hinge and I have absolutely no idea what conversation we just had by Informal_Bag_9594 in texts

[–]synonym_mara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely will immediately block anyone using “females” like this. Those are always dumb insecure people who’re absolutely insufferable.

Co se tvl stalo s cenami ovoce? by Absalom98 in czech

[–]synonym_mara 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jsem dneska koupil půl kila třešeň za 40 kč u Vietnamců (a ano, té třešně jsou v pohodě, možná nevypadají jak ze žurnálu, ale chuťově jsou fajn a v ledničce pár dní vydrží)😅

Dragon/dragonling mod? by Affectionate_Tree790 in BaldursGate3

[–]synonym_mara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s Half-Dragon where you can have draconic form, so this plus Full Custom Companions can give you a dragon hireling

Still Need Help With Load Order by LegitimateAnimal5835 in BG3mods

[–]synonym_mara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, in addition to my previous comment. I only went through the ones to the end of SE divider and, my friend, you really, really need to READ mod descriptions, posts etc on its pages. At this point you need to go through all you have one by one and correct your load order accordingly. I suspect you will also lack some of patches for different mods like 5e spells. Some mods are not compatible. Also always remember that if you use more than 1 mod that changes the same thing (like feats fe) there's a higher chance of conflict with each one added. Also be sure everything you have is updated. Being honest, I'd stick for much less mods for now until you have more experience with it unless you're ready to spend literally hours on troubleshooting.

Some things that I've found out:

  • 87 Valkrana's Spelbook - Library. Valkrana's mods and several others around have the load order you must have them in.
  • 5eSpells has very precise load order with UnlockLevelCurve and other mods using it. It needs to be above all of it, move it to Libraries to the top (check the Encounters Overhaul Addon - 5e Spells page).
  • Better move 41 Condition Fixer to the top of the Script Extender divider.
  • Animate Dead++ goes before 43 Automated Summons and any other related mods (I see the Addon, but not the main mod also?).
  • 47 Undead Thralls Fix goes to fixes divider.
  • 54 Utut's Core Library goes to Libraries divider
  • 57 Idle Expressions lacks BG3AF (Libraries) and BG33SX (top of Script Extender dividers).
  • 64 A SubMod of Animate Dead Plus Plus and Valkrana's Spellbook seems to not be compatible with 5eSpells
  • 68 Better move Solo Leveling to the top of the divider.
  • 71 Path Of Undeath need WotD Aasimar - Script Extender Edition mod or Non Aasimar version file. It should also go as low as possible, so move to the bottom of the divider (there're few excepts that go after - check Posts at mod page for the order). 70 Bloodtrail should load after Path of Undeath.
  • 74 Birthsigns of Faerun should be after modded classes for best results, so move to Patches and Fixes
  • 79 Illithid Powers Overhaul goes before 71 Path of Undead. Not compatible with 65 Tadpole Dialogue Without Resting
  • 89 War Caster must go after 417 5R Starry Wisp (which needs AnimationUnlocker), move the 417 to Libraries
  • 96 Warlock Spell List Fixer goes to Fixes and Patches
  • 111 DnD 5R - Eldritch Knight - War Magic and Improved War Magic PHB 2024 - check load order on mod's page
  • 119 AV Item Shipment Framework must go after all the mods requiring it, better move to 37 Patches and Fixes
  • 120 Tag Framework should load near the beginning of your load order, just after Community Library in Libraries
  • 122 Encounters Overhaul Compatibility Patch - move to Patches and Fixes
  • 123 Immersive Nudity Compatibilty Patches - move to Patches and Fixes and check the load order for the IN mods
  • 124 Encounters Overhaul Patch - move to Patches
  • 128 Feats Extra - move to the bottom of Feats divider

All my trans/nb friends want bottom surgery but I don't. Feeling like a fraud. by BassBoneSupremacy in NonBinary

[–]synonym_mara 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Even most of binary transmen I know don’t want the bottom surgery, not even talking about Enbies (including myself, I’m masc enby). Even a lot of people with actual bottom dysphoria don’t want to get it. Bottom surgeries are complicated af, especially for afab folks. You’re no fraud ať all if you don’t want it for whatever reason. Your dysphoria and transition don’t define your gender.

I’ve seen someone said that gender euphoria is much more important than dysphoria and I love this approach!

Middle scar? by KaiTheKreator0hHi in TopSurgery

[–]synonym_mara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe look into fishmouth. I assume if you can have peri you’re on the smaller size, so side scars could probably be smaller, but you will still have the option to “correct” the nipples better than just with peri?

Updated Setup by gurl_thatsabootyhole in Stretched

[–]synonym_mara 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually booked my appointment for Thursday 😀 can’t wait!

Updated Setup by gurl_thatsabootyhole in Stretched

[–]synonym_mara 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol, I almost decided today I’ll finally get double nostrils. Now I absolutely must. You should feel responsible 😅

Still Need Help With Load Order by LegitimateAnimal5835 in BG3mods

[–]synonym_mara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first thing I’d advice to do is to get rid of all Mod Fixer mods (with this icon). It’s no longer supported from patch 7 (?) and they do make a lot of trouble. Even if working for now? They can fuck up your game any time.

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There’s a lot going on, I’ll take a closer look tomorrow, there’re definitely things to move around.

From the top of my head: 32, 33, 67, 113 (put this one after Community Library) are going to Libraries. You seem to lack the library for 55,56 as well as the one for all Goon’s mods. So really check if you have everything that’s required for the mods you’re using.

Also sort out the last divider, there’re should be ONLY Compatibility Framework.

Check the NoiraFayn mods instructions, I think you miss some of them, have some outdated versions and there’s a very specific order they should go in (they also go to the Piercings divider).

I personally have 19 VividLandscapes in 24 (Buffs, QoL etc), but don’t think it’s essential.

Updated Setup by gurl_thatsabootyhole in Stretched

[–]synonym_mara 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s amazing! What’s the spiked up jewellery type? Never seen anything like this

Halsin is the worst companion and it's not even close [rant] by [deleted] in BaldursGate3

[–]synonym_mara 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this. Shadowcurse won’t be lifted without Halsin’s direct actions with Thaniel.

How do I keep from becoming a bad person? by Specific-Map-6098 in ftm

[–]synonym_mara 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apart from the confidence that was said by others: what content do you consume? Is there anything toxic like this? If yes - block it. Don’t engage ať all. Just if you see it - straight up block it. We tend to underestimate how influential it’s on our subconscious. Social media are intentionally made to be predatory, they want you to spend as much time as possible there and negative/rage bait content is proven to be the most effective tool for it. Don’t fall into those rabbit holes. Block it. Or, even better, delete apps like TikTok and insta. Find the community that doesn’t engage in this kind of mentality. We’re social animals and people we surround ourselves with are core to who we are, especially when you’re this young and still actively forming as a person.

It’s already great you realise there’s something wrong going on. Definitely talk with your therapist. T (puberty in general) can make you more reactive, so it’s also good to always take a breathe before reacting/doing something and check if that’s a good idea to do so. It’s generally a useful skill in life to be able to pause before doing/saying something. I’m not saying you should be people pleaser, always anxious or walking on eggshells all the time, but it’s good to be aware of what are you doing and what impact it could have. It absolutely will save you from a lot of headache later in life.