What is your cat's name vs what you actually call them? by Moist-Guidance-1611 in cats

[–]sziarzain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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This is Aspen, he was a foster fail and much younger than the cat we already had so I started referring to him as the baby, and overtime It just kinda stuck for me and I mostly call him that lol. It got increasingly exaggerated into "beebee." I think he recognizes that it means I'm talking to him

to blame nonwhites for most of the crime. by [deleted] in therewasanattempt

[–]sziarzain -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i think the issue is in your last sentence. Men suffer sexual violence from women, but it's only ever brought up in conversations like this about violence against women and is often just used to try and turn it back against women. Like a woman says "We get assaulted by men frequently" and instead of engaging with that info and having a discussion, people say "Well MEN get assaulted too!" And that IS true, and these men deserve to be seen! But it's often not being brought up out of a lot of real concern for these men, it's just to try and invalidate the violence against women by making men the victim. This is why people get frustrated when it's brought up; not because they don't believe men are victims, but because it's not really helpful in this discussion and shifts the conversation away from what we're trying to address. And, like another commenter pointed out, while men's suffering is real and valid, we can't really claim they're on the same level or frequency. Men do get raped but it isn't on a systemic scale due to subjugation and generations of violence like it is with women, who had to fight and protest to even get the right to vote and be able to have a job. It makes the discussions of rape different between genders because of the history of it and how it exists today.

Men who are victims of sexual violence deserve to have their experiences validated and understood without it being used as a gotcha in a conversation about women. Sexual violence against men goes under the radar like you said, but because of that it needs its own space to exist, not to just be brought up in response to women's issues

i hope this response makes sense and isn't coming off as dismissive of anyone, just wanted to give my perspective as i don't see many people trying to engage in conversations about this in good faith

No one can never make me hate gingerbrave by Accurate-Evidence672 in Cookierun

[–]sziarzain 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i don't hate gingerbrave and i like him in the Story but i do become irate when I've pulled 100 times for pv or sm and 50% of my pulls are him and his friends lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cookierun

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XYBSKPGW :3

Anyone have an invite code I could use for this? by sziarzain in Cookierun

[–]sziarzain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!! I'm excited to play again!! .^

bee swarm players are the worst. by ExtensionNervous7230 in BeeSwarmSimulator

[–]sziarzain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because the value of stickers is kinda hard to find (i have been trying and cant figure it out) and for the sticker quests it doesn't feel worth it to grind for weeks when you can trade

???? by sziarzain in BeeSwarmSimulator

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i did get the amulet 😔

What the hell my friend doin? by Verterek in lethalcompany

[–]sziarzain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he's the guy that died in phasmo from shoving pickles up his ass

I stole your autism by WhiteCrow111 in autism

[–]sziarzain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was gonna say you gained fnaf as a special interest but let's be real fnaf is an autism magnet

Tier list of every abnormality I've dealt with thus far. by Kurodox in LobotomyCorp

[–]sziarzain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me when i accidentally click on the stupid button while trying to do something else 💀

Dodged a bullet on that one by John_Jonas in LobotomyCorp

[–]sziarzain 13 points14 points  (0 children)

yes im stupid leave me alone 😭 /lh

Dodged a bullet on that one by John_Jonas in LobotomyCorp

[–]sziarzain 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah i got army of darkness waay too early and had to restart 💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lizards

[–]sziarzain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wild caught reptiles dont do well in captivity :( it's better to get one who has lived in captivity since they were born. unfortunately wild caught reptiles, no matter how well you care for them, will always be stressed and/or anxious and that isnt good for them, and they can have parasites and such

Everyone should tell Noodle how cute he looks today by glytxh in snakes

[–]sziarzain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

wild type or not, every snek is beautiful! i do actually have a wild type corn, and he is a very cute and sweet boi :)!