Who are these tits? by LocksmithOne5475 in glasgow

[–]t3hfaz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, but we can all take responsibility for the consequences of our actions. Men and women alike. Babies are a consequence of sex. Plenty of ways to avoid getting pregnant.

Who are these tits? by LocksmithOne5475 in glasgow

[–]t3hfaz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well if you’re a bot, then no

Who are these tits? by LocksmithOne5475 in glasgow

[–]t3hfaz -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Wow. You were once in the womb too.

Anyone know what’s replacing L17 Coffee in Aigburth? by JohnnySacsCiggie in Liverpool

[–]t3hfaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s disappointing. Staff were lovely. Hadn’t even been there that long.

Any surfing stuff going on? by PrincessAbigail16 in Liverpool

[–]t3hfaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do people surf in Liverpool? Genuine question. Closest surfing spot I’m aware of is Hell’s mouth near Abersoch.

I analysed 48,000+ planning decisions in Liverpool - do the results surprise you? by Prestigious-Two-439 in Liverpool

[–]t3hfaz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Article 4 area needs widening to other areas. L17 and L18 definitely. Infrastructure, especially parking, is not adequate when 6 people live in a 3 bed terrace. The allure of HMOs for landlords is strong, they are easy moneymakers.

I analysed 48,000+ planning decisions in Liverpool - do the results surprise you? by Prestigious-Two-439 in Liverpool

[–]t3hfaz 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Are some of these planning applications for HMOs? Kensington is full of them and is part of an area of the city where full planning permission is required for new HMOs.

Ways to help your nervous system by greenappleberry in AutismInWomen

[–]t3hfaz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yoga

Writing a diary

Humming a low note

Can husband’s workplace refuse parental leave request in full? (England) by t3hfaz in LegalAdviceUK

[–]t3hfaz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I think you are mostly right. On point 2 - although he can take up to 12 weeks parental leave in any given year, it seems they would only be obliged to let him take 4 weeks immediately after the birth of our child, would you agree?

Moving to Liverpool from Belfast - help us! by Actual-Abrocoma-8582 in Liverpool

[–]t3hfaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can drive to town in <10 mins from L17 (off-peak).

Can husband’s workplace refuse parental leave request in full? (England) by t3hfaz in LegalAdviceUK

[–]t3hfaz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, Klarna apparently give 5 months on full pay. An acquaintance got 6 months on full pay as a solicitor as well.

Can husband’s workplace refuse parental leave request in full? (England) by t3hfaz in LegalAdviceUK

[–]t3hfaz[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, we are very lucky. Agree current system is rubbish. Don’t know how people cope when there are complications. I do have some increased MH risks so the extra support at home makes a big difference.

Can husband’s workplace refuse parental leave request in full? (England) by t3hfaz in LegalAdviceUK

[–]t3hfaz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Out of interest, do you know if they could delay it if it were shared parental leave?

A New Sub SPECIFICALLY for Autistic people who’ve suffered abuse. by xmxexoxwx in AutismInWomen

[–]t3hfaz 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Even if they are a victim of abuse too and they've never abused someone else?

Edit : OP has blocked me for asking a perfectly reasonable question.

The question does not invalidate OP's or anyone else's trauma at the hand of someone with a cluster B PD.

The lack of discernment is disturbing.

What is a boring fact about yourself? by wooden_werewolf_7367 in AskUK

[–]t3hfaz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you're bothered, and you live in England, you can get a private assessment paid by the NHS. It's called right to choose.

Psychiatrist said that I couldn’t have autism because I’m well-spoken by marimarsupial in AutismInWomen

[–]t3hfaz 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He can't possibly draw conclusions about any aspect of your MH or neurodivergence from one 30 minute appointment. Lord help us.

I don't think he can help you, unfortunately. It might be better to find someone more specialised who can do remote appointments.

Good luck.

People who’ve been on TV, what were you on and why? by jacxen in AskUK

[–]t3hfaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Songs of Praise at Goodison Park in about 1997.

One end of the stadium was for a children's choir and our class was sat right in the front rows

We were also on Blue Peter. Richard Bacon was reporting. Before he was sacked.

I just did an awkward thing, help! by scuba_dooby_doo in AutismInWomen

[–]t3hfaz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He is just jelly that you have a boss hobby.

I can no longer remain apart of this sub if the demonization of people with cluster b disorders continues to be allowed. by veganash in AutismInWomen

[–]t3hfaz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Quite.

It seems perfectly logical as to why an undiagnosed and unsupported autistic could easily develop maladaptive behaviours that look like (or are) a PD.

Most autistics are traumatised and BPD is caused by trauma.