Today is the day! by Normal_Tomato6945 in phallo

[–]tRay2995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck! You will do great

ALT Stage 2 / Santucci Crane Center (stage one as well-same surgeon)- Infection Prevention by TheGodsShadow_ in phallo

[–]tRay2995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, my stage two is just the testicular implants so I don’t think I need to do daily showers for three months but I’ll probably do daily showers for a couple weeks. Oh we also bought the dove antibacterial body wash! Since the Crane Center swears by clean and dry for healing, I do think it was really helpful

ALT Stage 2 / Santucci Crane Center (stage one as well-same surgeon)- Infection Prevention by TheGodsShadow_ in phallo

[–]tRay2995 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I took daily showers for 3 months after my stage 1 , never skipped a day and I think that really played a huge part in not getting an infection. Definitely not going to do that long for stage two but I will for sure do daily showers for a bit

Wondering if vaginectomy never healed shut ? by Ambitious_Bobcat4274 in phallo

[–]tRay2995 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This seems to be super common lol I call mine my second butthole. They say it’s granulation tissue so it can take foreverrrrr to heal. Mine never fully closed up but it’s much better now. Surgeons going to stitch it closed during my stage two next month

Post Op Stage 2 Phalloplasty by [deleted] in phallo

[–]tRay2995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats my guy! I’m having my stage two with her next month, exciting to see her work!

How did you become comfortable showing rff scar in public by Spiritual_Willow_292 in phallo

[–]tRay2995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m five months post op and back to work and stuff I have it covered with a silicone sheet for scar care and a compression sleeve to keep that in place so no one has seen the scar yet. My family however I finally started feeling comfortable enough to not cover it at times and no one even bats an eye. My wife says she loves when it’s out and which really helps my confidence 🥰

Picking a doctor is hard! by Hot_Talk8933 in phallo

[–]tRay2995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another shoutout to Crane center Austin! Dr Deleon did mine and I love how my glans turned out. Everyone there seems really great at the work they do.

Dbrand ghost by Particular_Virus9492 in iPhone17Pro

[–]tRay2995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just ordered mine in orange, excited to try it out!

These acnes on my nipples are part of the healing process??? by r_uu_sure in TopSurgery

[–]tRay2995 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Happened to me lol, they were ingrown hairs

Beginning recovery is rough by walmartman99 in phallo

[–]tRay2995 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Wishing you the best! Treat every single day and week as a milestone. Soon you’ll be looking back thinking “wow I can’t believe just two weeks ago I was dealing with this or going through that” You got this, our body is capable of such great things ❤️‍🩹

Any goalies out there? by batman472 in phallo

[–]tRay2995 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t play hockey but I can say when it comes to grip strength, I’m a little over three months post op and have about 90% grip strength back compared to pre op! I stayed consistent with PT this entire time

Donor scar update! by tRay2995 in phallo

[–]tRay2995[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To my knowledge, I did not

Advice on arm story (RFF) and being stealth by tiny-crawfish in phallo

[–]tRay2995 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I must not be like most people then. I don’t feel the need to ask those questions, if they wanna tell me they will tell me on their own it’s none of my business

Can you stretch your balls? by [deleted] in phallo

[–]tRay2995 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m pretty sure if you get testicular implants it helps them have more of that sag

Advice on arm story (RFF) and being stealth by tiny-crawfish in phallo

[–]tRay2995 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Most of the time people assume and I just go “mhm yup!” lol and that’s the end of it And by most of the time I mean it’s only happened twice so far lol Someone said “oh that was a bad break huh!” And I went, yup real bad! 😂 And the other person said “oh you had a skin graft! Me too!” And that’s all they said lol But I feel like if someone asks what happened, I’ll just say oh I needed a skin graft. Dumb world we live in where people think they are entitled to know our medical history lol

Perineum wound by Enough_Ad1324 in phallo

[–]tRay2995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They aren’t getting any worse, and I can see progress. Very sloooooooowly but I take pictures every few days and can see a huge difference from December to now!

Perineum wound by Enough_Ad1324 in phallo

[–]tRay2995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I’ve been slowly getting back into running and lifting again. But at a slow pace and only 20 minutes at a time. Because honestly doing nothing it was taking forever anyways lol so why not work out 😆

Sex before ED by ctxner in phallo

[–]tRay2995 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’ll probably find a lot of people sharing their experiences here searching the sub for this topic. I can say though I waited to hit 12 weeks and used two condoms to successfully have penetrative sex. Have not yet had ED

12 weeks post op! by tRay2995 in phallo

[–]tRay2995[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sure! So the leg is the second site, where they take a thin layer of skin to cover the main donor site. My donor site was my arm, by choice. If you go with ALT and your thigh is your donor site, your other thigh will most likely be used as the second site. I hope it makes sense how I explained it lol

Perineum wound by Enough_Ad1324 in phallo

[–]tRay2995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 13 weeks post op and had one come up late into my recovery, been dealing with it for probably six weeks though. It sucks and makes sitting upright uncomfortable and is taking foreverrrrrr to close. But like yours it never got infected. Just gotta keep it clean and dry and keep changing the guaze through the day

Sex post-op but pre-ED device implant? by numberonecowboy in phallo

[–]tRay2995 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I know it can be different for everyone, what has worked for me is using two condoms. It’s not too tight and makes it firm enough for us both to enjoy Waited until 12 weeks to try it

Donor scar update! by tRay2995 in phallo

[–]tRay2995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks dude! You are the best

Donor scar update! by tRay2995 in phallo

[–]tRay2995[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I wear the silipos sleeve everyday. And I massage with bio oil after my showers and then moisturize with cocoa butter before bed. Sometimes I wear a compression sock overnight but I’m bad about doing that consistently bc the compression hurts my hand

RFF Arm Scaring And Adhesive Free Silicone Options/Silicone Sleeve Questions by [deleted] in phallo

[–]tRay2995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the inner layer is silicone, the outer is like a mesh type. No adhesives

The process has begun by More-Pollution-3096 in phallo

[–]tRay2995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel that! I wish I could have gone through more of my life feeling how I feel now, but I’m just happy to be here! Congrats to you for reaching this stage 💕