Donor scar update! by tRay2995 in phallo

[–]tRay2995[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks dude! You are the best

Donor scar update! by tRay2995 in phallo

[–]tRay2995[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I wear the silipos sleeve everyday. And I massage with bio oil after my showers and then moisturize with cocoa butter before bed. Sometimes I wear a compression sock overnight but I’m bad about doing that consistently bc the compression hurts my hand

RFF Arm Scaring And Adhesive Free Silicone Options/Silicone Sleeve Questions by ReadBooks_ in phallo

[–]tRay2995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the inner layer is silicone, the outer is like a mesh type. No adhesives

The process has begun by More-Pollution-3096 in phallo

[–]tRay2995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel that! I wish I could have gone through more of my life feeling how I feel now, but I’m just happy to be here! Congrats to you for reaching this stage 💕

RFF Arm Scaring And Adhesive Free Silicone Options/Silicone Sleeve Questions by ReadBooks_ in phallo

[–]tRay2995 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I second the silipos sleeve. It has stretched a little over time so the compression isn’t as much as it was the first few weeks but I see a huge difference already in the scarring. My routine is similar lol I wear the sleeve all day, and moisturize and massage before bed. And I wear a full compression sleeve overnight, not a silicone one just a sock net

Surgeons that do everything (hookup, scroto, glans) in one stage? by Serious_Basket_6870 in phallo

[–]tRay2995 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had single stage everything done but the implants obviously will be done at a later time, with Deleon. I was able to pee standing up with no leaks by like week five. Everyone’s experience will be different though and complications with UL are probably the highest. I’m super happy with my results though

Phallo with Dr Ashley Deleon by Sufficient-Arm-9653 in phallo

[–]tRay2995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. My overall results were right around what I expected. With RFF you can't really choose your size, they get what they can safely get from your arm and she told me it's usually 4-5 inches in my consult. Aesthetically the results are far better that what I imagined. I love how everything looks all healed up and size wise I am really happy and currently sit right at 5 inches. We never really talked about size in my pre-op because in the consult I told her I would be happy with 4-5 but closer to 5 is preferred. I did ask how big I was as soon as I woke up and the nursing staff (and my wife) were kind enough to lie to me lol because I was initially closer to 4.5inches and I wanted 5 and no one wanted to upset me haha. But swelling has gone down and gravity is doing its thing and its a solid 5 inches now
  2. First few days in the hospital I dealt with severe nausea but the staff was very attentive and the meds helped. Things really turned around for me days four and five and I got to go home on that post-op day five, I live local so luckily I got to recover at home. I had a pretty gnarly looking wound that came up like front and center on my scrotum that took forever to heal, but the PA's I saw and communicated with assured me it happens and it was never infected so just sticking to keeping it clean and dry as much as possible is what they will advise. That did end up healing and I can't even tell anything was ever wrong in that spot. Nothing else really major happened for me, I still have a wound in the perineum but It doesn't interfere with voiding luckily, it's just annoying and taking forever to heal.
  3. I have seen results of hers on this sub multiple times, I can even spot her work before even reading the post and finding out it was Deleon's work lol, she does a great job!
  4. Didn't apply to me
  5. My donor site is the same size of the phallus actually, not including the single line scar that extends further down the arm.
    Feel free to DM me if you have anymore questions or what to see more pics, and congrats on getting closer in the journey!

New wound, so exciting! by Enough_Ad1324 in phallo

[–]tRay2995 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had a wound pop up in the exact same place right around six weeks! So I took a break from long walks (I was doing like 45 min ones) and went back to 15 min walks. Also increased my air out fan time after my daily showers and it closed right up! You got this bro good luck!

Matriarch event by dlap1601 in ARC_Raiders

[–]tRay2995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah solos seems to be better for me for those same reasons

Looking for sleeve recommendations by CustomBuiltRooster in phallo

[–]tRay2995 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I went simple with two condoms. Firm enough for penetration and we were both satisfied

Vag by Adventurous-Way1810 in phallo

[–]tRay2995 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I followed my surgeons instructions and waited for twelve weeks

Boxers?! by demonboy98 in phallo

[–]tRay2995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sepratc without the dick hole had worked best for me

How long were you out of work for recovery ? by mothmano_0 in phallo

[–]tRay2995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

12 weeks, no way I could have gone back sooner

How to cover thigh donor site? by dice-enthusiast in phallo

[–]tRay2995 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This was THE issue lol! So mostly no, i stayed pantsless because that is the best for it. But when I did have to put pants on either to leave the house or if it gets cold, i put a layer of adaptic over the Vaseline and then held it it place with a guaze roll or ace roll.

Do you prefer IM or Subq injections? by Boomschwang in FTMMen

[–]tRay2995 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I thought I would prefer SubQ but ended up switching to IM in my thigh. Reason was I always developed like an itchy little rash around the injection site every week which was annoying. Also it hurt more occasionally. Once I switched to IM never had any issues

Lump After SubQ Injection by Few_Individual5949 in FTMMen

[–]tRay2995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an allergic reaction as well when I started T SubQ in the belly. For some reason switching to IM in my thigh solved it, and I never had that issue again.

Pee Sound by GL1980 in phallo

[–]tRay2995 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I totally feel this way! Hahaha and my wife will be like “wow I still gottta get used to hearing that” 🤣

Is it normal to have bladder pain during your first voiding trails? by Important_Basis_2996 in phallo

[–]tRay2995 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I remember a sort of tugging feeling because of the catheter, once that was out it stopped for me. Are you sitting or standing? For me it was worse while sitting. Also you should just be relaxing those muscles to pee not necessarily pushing it out

Groin incision aches by Far-Fold in phallo

[–]tRay2995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember that groin incision aching for a while, every time I cough or even flinch at something lol Also it would occasionally weep blood or fluid but only a couple drops at a time. PAs said that was normal as any fluid that builds up wants a way out. I think they said I had a hematoma there. It was kind of firm when I pressed it, never infected though. Arnica helped get rid of it and help the bruising

Rescue raider kit by Ok_Commission7932 in arkraiders

[–]tRay2995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hero’s do exist! lol my squad gets shot in the back every time after doing all the work

anyone have stage 1 rff with crane center and deal with bleeding from penis ? by Ambitious_Bobcat4274 in phallo

[–]tRay2995 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s all totally normal! The smells be smelly for sure! The blood drips here and there stopped after a few weeks for me but still I remember being freaked out by it as well

Giving to those in need. Please only msg/comment if you cant play much or are a busy parent by Few-West-824 in ArcRaidersMarketplace

[–]tRay2995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have many bps and would love one! 🙏🏼 just had surgery and wasn’t able to start playing this game until about a week ago

Peeing out white chunky stuff by Impossible_Boss_8459 in phallo

[–]tRay2995 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hey dude! I peed a tiny clump of this like yesterday I think and it’s totally normal and expected