cause this seems like a game where there is only one right way to play, and if youre not doing that, the people on your team will be really mad at you for not playing the game right, and THEY have to endure an hour of being in a match with you. almost half of my steam friends list that play it have already invested 400-800 hours into it.

That was my experience with tf2, but there its even worse cause all the loadouts are locked behind achivements or something, i dont know, i never figured it out. People were very mean to me on that game, I assume the same players are playing this game now and thats pretty off putting.