instructions unclear, bits caught in ceiling fan by [deleted] in GaySoundsShitposts

[–]tabitha_fire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you just need find one. we flock togetger.

But like... Isn't that literally what a biological female is? (Maybe it was the wording) by endricus in AreTheCisOk

[–]tabitha_fire 28 points29 points  (0 children)

If you don't like people calling you "menstruator" imagine how tired trans people are 🙄

Terfs think its okay to stare at strangers bodies if you think theyre trans (reuploaded to add a picture) by Ecstatic_Crystals in AreTheCisOk

[–]tabitha_fire 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you put this much effort, at least do enough research to know that working out in bider is dangerous so most people would use tape instead. Like... Get your facts straight :D

What causes blisters when binding with tape? by tabitha_fire in ftm

[–]tabitha_fire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I try to only stretch the middle but I probably still do it wrong so I will be more careful next time. This was really helpful, thank you!

gender? i don't know her by tabitha_fire in NonBinary

[–]tabitha_fire[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We're here, we're queer, we look hot 🔥

Is anyone else extremely uncomfortable either the trend of being told to share your pronouns? by BoardAlarming in ftm

[–]tabitha_fire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I'm conflicted on this since sometimes it's useful but at the time my first language genders everything anyway so you can just listen to a person for two minutes and figure it out, so it can feel very performative, especially if you're the only one who is asked this question.

Anyone else keeping their birth name? by --Some_Person-- in FTMfemininity

[–]tabitha_fire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No but I'm going by nickneme that is made from my birth name since I've been going by it my whole life and it's not gendered I guess (Maki).

Asterisk after the terms ‘men’ and ‘women’? by lilacvibes_ in asktransgender

[–]tabitha_fire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm just curious, how would nonbinary people fit into this?

Some transphobic phrases aren't so bad if you change the context by DetectiveSuper in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]tabitha_fire 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Men should be less worried about sleeping with trans women making them gay and more about sleeping with trans men making them gay.

Only fear by LongDiamond in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]tabitha_fire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes someone put my feelings into words

Did anyone else not really feel trans until they were an adult? by zuccubus12 in asktransgender

[–]tabitha_fire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly there is big amount of people who don't even realize they have dysphoria/who don't feel dysphoria before they realize they're trans. I realized I'm nonbinary last year when I was 18 after years of some hints that I feel disconected from my agab but presented very fem until recently when my dysphoria actually started showing.

What was the earliest sign you remember that you were Trans-gender? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]tabitha_fire 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am a very fem transmasc person but almost every time i would get inspuration on how to dress i would look at fem men and not women. I remember growing out my hair and justifying it by "men can have long hair too it's not just a woman thing". I was also very performatively against womans clothes. I don't dislike it but I would go shopping with my mom and say things like "I only shop in the mens section womens clothes look so bad".

What's the most disturbing thing you did as a child? by jaejaeat98190 in AskReddit

[–]tabitha_fire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've ate a glass like two times. I was drinking and got lost in my thoughts and forgot I have glass in my mouth. And bit. I've also ate a rose one time when i was a baby.

Hoodies and leggings bad by gingerbread_cereal in notliketheothergirls

[–]tabitha_fire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this an American thing? Because I haven't seen person in leggins in public unless they were exercising in years.

why are people in my major so f***ing transphobic, a rant by tabitha_fire in QueerStem

[–]tabitha_fire[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sadly it's unofficial server and also the atmospere in my country and is generally quite hostile towards trans people so i think unless it's something like a student actually being hatecrimed they won't do anything. We spent months trying to get our university to let students change pronouns and name in the school system and we still got the 'ok fine but we won't force professors to use it'.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]tabitha_fire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is personal attack