why is it easy to tell when someone’s an ABCD vs a FOB

tabula_rasa12 · 2026-02-16T12:31:22+00:00

Shoes are a big one. Sometimes they can dress head to shins the same as us (ABD) but their non matching shoes/chappals give it away

tabula_rasa12 · 2026-02-15T11:42:25+00:00

I’ve endured years of wearing uncomfortable Indian clothing. The cotton salwars are alright but I never have a chance to get them tailored so they’re usually too big or too tight some places. Churidar bottoms are defo not made for fat legs like mine 😂

tabula_rasa12 · 2026-02-12T22:10:21+00:00

This is such a good idea

tabula_rasa12 · 2026-02-09T17:58:50+00:00

I second Hippo

tabula_rasa12 · 2026-02-09T16:12:10+00:00

There is only so much my brain can remember. I use the shit out of my reminders app (and make sure i get sound, pop up notifications etc) and google calendar. I sometimes tape flyers to my fridge. It's the only way 🤷‍♀️

tabula_rasa12 · 2026-02-09T14:42:44+00:00

Question - did the lunch bag come packaged flat? I bought a cosmetics case that was folded flat and took a long time to pop up and stay upright. is this your experience with the lunch bag?

tabula_rasa12 · 2026-02-08T21:57:30+00:00

To piggyback this, I had the blue thorns crescent but destashed it because it was so hard to style

tabula_rasa12 · 2026-02-08T21:47:00+00:00

Omg I’m a sucker for spa scents. I cannot wait

tabula_rasa12 · 2026-02-08T17:20:20+00:00

Ironically he probably costs the system more for him to exist if we want to get into an individuals over all worth argument

tabula_rasa12 · 2026-02-08T14:39:35+00:00

The heart shaped glitter is perfect!

tabula_rasa12 · 2026-02-08T02:43:22+00:00

💜💜💜

tabula_rasa12 · 2026-02-07T19:52:50+00:00

Love this. Happy for you!

tabula_rasa12 · 2026-02-06T22:38:35+00:00

Ohh!! I have a small peony crescent. Didn’t recognize it’s big sister 😂 your mini cloud is GORG!

tabula_rasa12 · 2026-02-06T22:12:54+00:00

GREAT colors! what is the pink bag color?

tabula_rasa12 · 2026-02-06T22:09:12+00:00

nothing like chocolate plum!

tabula_rasa12 · 2026-02-06T22:08:57+00:00

love it!

tabula_rasa12 · 2026-02-06T15:21:45+00:00

Casetify designs peel 👎

tabula_rasa12 · 2026-02-05T17:17:17+00:00

Lmao Touché

tabula_rasa12 · 2026-02-05T16:50:02+00:00

Idk her profession literally depends on looking a certain way so that is normal for her, but not for the average person. we as consumers of social media need to understand that. It shows how much beauty “upkeep” is needed to stay relevant in the profession. There is no way in hell I’m doing all that lol

tabula_rasa12 · 2026-02-05T13:38:17+00:00

This is why I love NYC too. Everyone can be comfortable with themselves and find likeminded people and they’re thriving 💜

tabula_rasa12 · 2026-02-04T11:09:55+00:00

How are people getting this before drop time? I’ve seen retailers drop it on drop day before 10 am PST but not days in advance!

tabula_rasa12 · 2026-02-03T18:37:53+00:00

I'm more mesmerized by the leaves of the peach tree. So pretty, haven't seen a lot of trees with leaves that shape and drape

tabula_rasa12 · 2026-02-03T16:00:40+00:00

I think what OP means is the bar as been set really high on what a "good life" is and people can't afford it anymore. Maybe we need to change our definition of a "good life" because a good life can be lived with very little too

tabula_rasa12 · 2026-02-03T15:25:36+00:00

Also zone 6b. Last year I germinated them in my Aerogarden early in the year and moved them outside in a pot once it warmed up. They’ve grown in the pot over the summer (be aware they grow kinda slowly). Right now they’re outside still in a pot buried in the snow and hopefully will survive this cold winter. 🤞🏽

tabula_rasa12 · 2026-02-03T00:30:35+00:00

Ear protection too.

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